#(I specify my parent bc ppl like still DON'T KNOW that they werE but like Its Not Just My ParentTM Hi Hello OK)

[koushirouizumi]

B.L.O.G P.S.A

Reminder that when I r.b. about J E W I S H topics, the focus should be kept on specifically J U D A I S M. If you're r.b.'ng from me, please don't tag those posts as "religious" "insp." in general unless you mean to properly represent J U D A I S M. They are specifically meant to inform about a culture my parent and their entire fam belongs to, among elsewise

#koushirouizumi blog #koushirouizumi personal #koushirouizumi posts #koushirouizumi text #koushirouizumi fam #(I'm noticing some fans going through and r.b'ng these lately) #(I don't mind that you are!) #(I'm really happy if people are finally paying attention to the info posts!!) #(BUT) #(They are NOT about Xti@nity or any other religious group by ANY MEANS) #(PLS ACKNOWLEDGE THIS) #(Thankyou) #(I'll look for a better phrased post later to r.b about the issues) #(but a lot of this has already been said in posts in the relevant tags I use on this blog already) #(Those users also very specifically ask the same thing very often aka for those posts to not be tagged in such ways!!) #(This is a very hard boundary I've had set ever since the first posts I r.b.'d back years ago informing so please acknowledge thankyou!!!) #(Spacing out words to keep it from showing via S e a r c h) #(I specify my parent bc ppl like still DON'T KNOW that they werE but like Its Not Just My ParentTM Hi Hello OK)

[idiot-mushroom]

feel free to traumadump, i'll get some entertainment

(this is a joke, please don't open up if you don't feel comfortable, i'm definitely kidding about the entertainment part, i just feel like i need to specify i'm joking airghaktg)

no i will use this opportunity to trauma dump, here i go!!

(ik some ppl are uncomfy w/ trauma dumps so do not keep reading if ur not up to it)

alright imma talk abt one of my (least) favorite memories!

so my dad takes me to this girls house (turns out it’s the girl my dad had been cheating w/ (some fucking gringo or sm shit)) and they invited us in. apparently the girl had kids and was cheating on HER husband with my dad. to distract me he made go play with the girl’s daughter. we had fun, we played laugh and i even got to see her kittens.

when it was time to leave the girl came with us to the car. i was still on a happy high from playing so when my dad said ‘look! a cat!’ i whipped my head around to find one. apparently he had tried distracting me AGAIN bc when i looked back to him he was making out with her infront of me. i giggled nervously saying ‘what are you doing?’ and he replied that he had tried to ‘lick some candy off her mouth’.

as we drove back a home he had told me not to tell my mom and that if I didn’t tell her by friday he would get me a plushie, so ofcourse i said ‘ok’ and we devised a perfect lie.

but guess what? an eight year old is a horrible lier and i would giggle and smile whenever my mom asked any questions. ofc she got suspicious and i finally caved in, and when i told her the truth i was sobbing on the ground, I don’t know what came over me. ofcourse my dad choose that exact time to walk in and they once again started yelling and fighting, just like they always did. apparently though ny dad had brung my baby brother (who would have been 1 yrs old at the time) to her house MULTIPLE TIMES and that she had told him to stop bringing us there. After that fight my dad yelled at me a little as of why i had to tell my mom, in which i said ‘i don’t know’.

yeah neither of my parents were happy with me for about a week but yk how it is

#vent tw #trauma dump #trauma tw #shroom talks #ask reply

[goyangii]

hello again i am that Korean anon who sent the ask about fetishization (oh boy do I have a loooot of god awful stories about that) - I get super excited whenever I find other fellow Korean people :D it's like a diaspora thing, i also grew up in the states but my upbringing was very odd (i guess?? my family is a bunch of atheists & don't care about education so the way they raised me was the opposite of that "tiger parenting" stereotype - i have lots of stories about that too djflskjfl)

T___T Krn anon back again, I don't have a tumblr so i don't think off-anon msg is a feature that's available for me? idk how u would feel about this but i have a google voice # but if that makes you uncomfy please don't feel pressured to say yes - I'm also a Korean living in the states (no offense to my fellow Krns i love u all but i hate the way that american is hyphenated & added to it), I'm in a state where there's lots of Koreans & Asians in general!

aa hi!! same omg, especially when someone recognizes a kr handle i use it makes me so happy <333 especially because so often people don't recognize it lol. i'm so sorry though that you've experienced this shit, it's legit so frustrating and imo one of the worst parts is that literally nobody besides other asians seems to get it and even then i know there's a bit of a rift btwn east asians and other asians bc east asians get disproportionate attention etc etc. so in the end it often feels like nobody is really rooting for korea genuinely but other koreans which sucks. like i know ~stopasianhate~ was a thing but a lot of people genuinely seem to think that anti-asian racism is like, racism-lite or something. even though anti-asian (and anti-korean) racism does take lives and hurt people regularly. reeee.

honestly really jealous that your parents were so cool ;_; i have a single mom but she was raised very religious (her mom was a pastor lol...rip) so it kind of trickled down. she's also a very stereotypical "doctor/lawyer or bust" type which has been a constant battle between us ;; though i imagine you still went through a lot even w/o the tiger parenting stereotype hhhh like there's still generational trauma so rip.........

re google voice - i understand !!! i'm a bit scared to put a google voice number publicly (idk if it can be backtraced to my rl phone # or what?? also i feel like dumb trolls will spam it ugh) but if you're able to make a burner tumblr and just drop it im totally happy to send it to you privately that way! i know that's a bit of an ask though @@;; also yeah kr american is so clunky and i just self id as korean as well since like. idk. i know ppl who are latino or whatever and just id as latino, not latino american (tho the inverse def exists!! and i get why some ppl would want to specify but god lol it is a PITA to type/say)? and i've seen koream as a shortening but it looks like a typo tbqh. that's awesome though!! i live in a state with a lot of koreans and a big kr community so i'm thankful but i just live in the mostly entirely white burbz bc money. rest in pieces. genuinely dunno how asian americans handle living in areas that are isolated bc it makes me feel just...grounded to be able to go to areas where ppl look like me and have the same shared cultural background. like i love other cultures too ofc but it's just,, home. it's comfy. so i'm glad you're in an area where there's a big asian/kr population <3

#mine #sorry this is so long again aaaaaagshgd