#AND. ive been guilty of trauma dumping before!! we all have!! and it doesnt make you a bad person!!! it makes you fucking human!!!

[hickoryhorneddevils]

genuinely so fucking tired of the 'conversation' around 'trauma dumping'. none of you know how to use that word AND none of you motherfuckers understand what boundaries are. like yes if theres a pattern of someone or multiple people throwing heavy and triggering shit on you unprompted then theres an issue and they need to redirect their behavior, but so do you!! you need to communicate if you are uncomfortable and/or do not have the capacity to discuss things!!! YOU.

#and also. the idea that traumadumping is just anytime you have a heavy conversation with someone/friends/family is so. ohhmygod have you #never had a genuine connection in your life. shut up #maybe its just specifically how me and my community and friends exist together but like. im not one to shy away from heavy topics or to tal #about my own life experiences including trauma sometimes like if its relevant? like its not venting but its just fucking conversation?? #like i consider myself an open book im not going to curate my thoughts and experiences for other people to take me seriously or whatever. #but obviously time and place yknow?? there Are more appropriate times than others to say certain things and its important to know when/wher #AND. ive been guilty of trauma dumping before!! we all have!! and it doesnt make you a bad person!!! it makes you fucking human!!! #and every other bitch who acts like their above poor communication or making mistakes and is 'so mature' can suck it and is a fucking liar. #okay rant over sorry #.txt