#And I swear if this is all about me shipping Sambucky and not Sarahbucky I will lose it

[wenellyb]

I stumbled upon this post and at first I just wanted to let it slide, because believe it or not, this is not the first time I have had a Tumblr user who had a personal vendetta against me (esecially since I’m really “extra” about Sambucky let’s say) and I can’t stop random people from thinking what they want. 

But this post is a little different because they are stating their opinions as fact, like the saying that I’m not Black or saying that I stole gifs....???......??? 

1) I do not steal gifs, I hate that. My gifs are bad and still, I have gotten my gifs stolen in the past and I hate it. And unlike this OP, I actually have proof of it, so I’ll be posting screenshots of how I made my gifs if I manage to, just to prove that I made them...This is actually the most annoying part.

The post where I said I can’t gif was from May 2021, by the way, I have watched tutorials and tried to improve my gifing skills since (but I’m still bad at it😂).

2) I don’t know where OP got the idea that I wasn’t Black because I have made several posts saying that I was Black and not American. If OP is saying this because I said I was French, I have some flashnews for them: there are Black people in France  ¯\_(ツ)_/¯.

3) Here’s the link of the post about the back and forth. What happened was that I was disagreeing with another user, and I still disagree with them,  it was indeed a back and forth because that user had said that Anthony disliked Sambucky as romantic, which I disagreed with, and I still disagree with that... From where I stand, during that interview that was edited for clickbait, Anthony didn’t say anything negative about Sambucky (not that it would matter if he did or didn’t because he has every right to), but in this case, he didn’t, at least that’s what I hear in the audio. And I stand by this. To me Anthony was merely stating his opinion about male friendships, question asked by the journalist. But then they shifted the conversation to Sarahbucky, so I knew the conversation was going nowhere.

OP is saying that they have talked about me already, however I have never ever interacted with that OP before, unless they changed their username or something like that, so I’m really interested to know where all of this is coming from?

If the OP finds this and has more links to some of my posts where I’m either “harrassing” or “exploiting” I’m interested because I would like to know. A gifset isn’t enough of an argument if you can’t back it up. If I “stole those” gifs...Where did I steal them from?

#If you try me you'll find me #Honestly I have made several posts that you can disagree with and can directly comment on those but my gifset isn’t one of them. #Just imagine finding a post like this through one of your tumblatives ..it was not a pleasant experience #And I swear if this is all about me shipping Sambucky and not Sarahbucky I will lose it #mcu fandom #I'll put the screenshots and a reblog to avoid making this even longer lol #I would reply to the post directly #but I'm blocked soo #Not putting the username because I don't want to start anything #I just had to get this off my chest lol #Won't comment on the rest OP is entitled to their opinion

[wenellyb]

Man...what is with all this anon hate and vitriol towards Sarah and SarahBucky??? It’s 2021. How are people not past this? I swear, every shipping community is the exact same. This is like the Harry Potter fandom all over again but worse because some people have started attacking her race, too. I had to block the SamBucky tag because some people were getting so bad and it’s both really sad and incredibly infuriating. Thank you for speaking out against this. I’m sorry you’re getting so much harrassment for it.

Hi Anon,

Thank youuuu!

First of all, just to be clear, I'm not getting harrassed or anything, just having discussions (some of them are heated, but it's all good and interesting). I don't know if anyone has noticed this but I like writing A LOT😂. So me giving a long reply isn't because I'm getting harrassed...It's just because this is the way I write, I think somethind then i have to write it lol.

If I ever came to a place where Tumblr upset me, or those asks upset me, I would remove the anon ask function or disable asks altogether.

And I'm very good at handling anon hate now, I wasn't at the beginning when i got it lo, but now I'm pretty good with it.

However, I haven't received any anon hate in a while. Those two asks I received are not hate, just people who use my post to vent because that other OP doesn't allow anon asks and they're too afraid to speak with their blog name and prefer to send me a ask because I allow anon.

You're right, a lot of shipping communities have the same issue. The way I handle this is very easy.... I block easily, if I see some blog trash talking Sarah, I just block them... And it's manageable because it's not so much... But you can only block so many people, and sometimes the toxicity is so big you cannot blog them all and i will love it if it didn't come to that point, that's why I also think it's important to call out people when they are out of line.

Nobody is asking anybody to ship this ship or that ship if they don't want to.

But if you're going to pretend to care about racism in the fandom, acknowledge that it does exist even in your own fandom.

Don't try to find excuses like "the other ship is not popular because they didn't have a lot of interactions"

Please please believe me when I say that, if the show had been about a Black Woman with a White Man, and then the White man had had the interaction Bucky and Sarah had with another White man, there would already be a 1000 fics about that White M/M couple.... The explanation isn't that Sarah and Bucky didn't have a lot of interactions.

If lack of interaction is enough of an explanation, why is Bucky/Yelena a thing?

Admit that Bucky flirted with Sarah, don't say that it was because her name reminded him of Steve's mom.

Call people out on the bullsh*t when you see it. Don't post in the Sarah Wilson tag SarahBucky tag for stuff totally unrelated to them,

Also, if you see a Sarah Wilson gif set you can reblog it if you want to ;)and give support because she's a great character

This is what I think and other than that enjoy the ship you want to ship!

#fandom racism #anon asks! #bucky barnes #sarah wilson