#James is reminding me that it was literally soul sucking bc I was soooooooooooo miserable every moment around them

[genderfluidgothwitch]

Getting annoyed with myself because I'm looking for validation for breaking up with my ex YET AGAIN

#it's probably because we're coming up to a year post breakup #like not super soon I guess but end of next month #idk like #yes they absolutely did treat me like shit #but did I overreact? #the answer is very much no #bc again #they treated me like absolute fucking garbage #but we had known each other for fourteen years #I guess in my mind I should have kept going because we had been making it work for so long #but like they literally tried to steal my then fiancé now husband #his and my relationship was so strained during the worst of the ex #but now he and I are better than ever so I won #maybe I need to find and reblog that post I made about them #just to like... prove to myself that yes it really really really REALLY was that bad #my husband saw it my work mom saw it my wife saw it my friends all saw it #but I feel like for every bad thing about them I said out loud there were three more bad things I didn't share #so anything I've posted literally isn't even the half of it #James is reminding me that it was literally soul sucking bc I was soooooooooooo miserable every moment around them #plus nothing else should matter except they didn't even respect the ONE boundary I set for them for the time they lived with me #all I asked was please don't use my desk bc that's the only thing that's mine until you move out #my desk is where I do my arts and crafts so it's always got some sort of supplies or materials on it #stuff that ya know is pretty important to me #guess how I found them one night. guess. #sitting at my fucking desk with a bowl of fucking ramen playing their stupid fucking computer #LITERALLY THE ONLY BOUNDARY PEOPLE #I'm sorry I know I'm just rambling in the tags but like I'm just really fucking annoyed at myself for how much I put up with