#and i dont. just ignore it really no obligatory itll be okay or whatever

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I dont know if its the holidays coming up that has me stressing again or just everything piling up in general but its that time of my existence again when i genuinely consider serious harm to get some kind of significant help or care thats more than "just stop worrying"

I cant take school. Im too burnt out and i dont have time to recharge even tho i only have school twice a week. I have no help from my family because asking them for help will either get me forced to live with an unstable household with my sister or in an unstable household with my mother. In both cases shamed and reprihended but in different ways ig so its a pick your poison moment. I cant win

I havent been to class in months. Im terrified. Im failing i dont have enough grades and none of my classmates know me so i cant ask anyone for help. Im terrified if i drop out the gov will make me pay back the child support ive been Literally living off of since i live by myself and wont be hired anywhere because i didnt graduate yet and here you wont be hired without that for like 95% of job spaces. Youre either a student working or have your diploma or you dont exist at all

I gave up hobbies that cost money ive been doing my best to eat whatevers home so i dont spend extra money ordering in but i just dont have the energy to do this anymore. I want a job. I want a job so bad i want to be done with school i cant do school we literally have ptsd from school and no support from anyone around like family or teachers. I cant apply for therapy again because theres a 6 month waitlist and by then its fucking summer (probably) and even then it takes at least a year to start getting any diagnosis and i never managed to hold down a therapist for long enough. They dont take you seriously here in their eyes we were always just lazy or a little sad or haha teenage anxiety

We cant enter a school building without bordering an anxiety attack even if its just for like an art show or any non education related reasons. We cant learn due to alter to alter amnesia (OSDD i almost never talk about it on here but yea hi system here this is Hell) because in classes we either dissociate too bad due to the panic it causes us to just Be behind a desk taking notes with people to actually remember what we wrote if we did write anything and then if you learn anything at home theres a 10% chance youre gonna be the guy at front to take the test because, again, fear.

What the hell am i meant to do when i feel like the best option here is to either blind myself so i get to be excused since id have to restart my life pretty much or try and pretend i was hit by a car on accident because i cant sign into a ward here. I cant call a crisis hotline like "yea i wanna die it sucks ass here" because my family will again either force me to live with someone mentioned above or kick me out and then what. I cant do this im not gonna do anything harsh that could end me like thats not what im saying here im just frustrated and scared and sad about how hopeless this all feels like

#tw vent #tw family #tw school #whatever i dont even know #just ignore this i needed to put it Somewhere because i csnt talk to friends i actually talk to a lot about it #i feel like im complaining and being a bitch because thats what everyone around me says. family and teachers. just suck it up #lifes gonna be hard #and it is. osdd has me on fucking survival difficulty good god #but sometimes i just wish i could get a job. everyone says they hate work but i dont even care #i need to get away from these people i need to be able to wake up in the morning and being able to breathe and not #immediately seize up with fear that oh no x amount of days until class even tho ill fucking skip it #because i dress up or even leave the house but i cant i cant do it i panic i break down and spend 40 minutes sobbing on a park bench #while people walk by with their kids or groceries avoiding looking at me #i dont even need a hug anymore man #and i dont. just ignore it really no obligatory itll be okay or whatever #if you really must know just read and then scroll #ill delete this tomorrow when i wake up anyway or when i get embarrassed in a few hours #im just so tired of being scared