#and im alwyas just left feeling like i could’ve just stayed home and they just text me this

[brownandwhat]

i am no longer the therapist friend

#sorry but i’ve realised with some of the friends i have had long term #that i probably have outgrown them as when suggesting to do things outside of just meeting up at each others houses #we don’t do anything else #we have very different interests very different hobbies and availability #i say outgrown but i wouldn’t cut them off as they are childhood friends #but when i do meet up with them which tends to be twice in a year because that’s when they are available #it just so happens to be reminiscing about high school talking about their marriages and themselves and the issues they’ve been having #i end up feeling like i’m watching a show being played out because i’m not asked anything im not in the same era of their lives #there’s defo a grey area or wall that until i do that i won’t know or get it #and im alwyas just left feeling like i could’ve just stayed home and they just text me this #it has been voiced and addressed that we do stuff together pre plan if we have to #but it’s one of those where the marriage and husband comes first which i get #but when things go south of that then you remember me as a friend? #idk