#and to judge anyone else’s relationship or god forbid EVER imply that someone should break up with their partner is so gross and ignorant

[stonechild]

i was just watching this video of jenna and julien flirting and honestly i never really watched them too much but i love them, and they remind me so much of me and james in a lot of ways 🥺 it makes me so sad that people ever wanted me to dump him. it makes me furious actually. looking back the idea of “if your bf isn’t perfect you should break up with him” has prevailed through my entire life. just the “man hating” of it not even considering to get to know him and how much he loves me. and not even considering mental illness could be a factor. idk i just don’t think the people in my life ever see the best side of him. i’ve learned to adapt and i love him anyways. and him with me. fuck anyone who ever tried to convince us otherwise honestly

#the idea that jenna and julien are the ‘perfect couple’ is also so subjective? #i’ve heard it so many time but it doesn’t matter whether or not you think they are because you aren’t in the relationship with them #you don’t know how they are behind closed doors #and to judge anyone else’s relationship or god forbid EVER imply that someone should break up with their partner is so gross and ignorant #shadow #talk