#anyway this is one of those saoirse WOMEN moments thx

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Went on a date with a girl today after a long string of dating guys (I broke my heart on a girl like a year and a half ago, then like whenever I dated girls I felt like I was comparing them to her and it wasn’t fair to anyone) and like. Idk!!! Girls are just! So! Nice!!! Like they’re just so NICE like they don’t do the thing where they make fun of things you like and you don’t have to be defensive and they listen to things you talk about and like and the conversation isn’t just about them! Like this wasn’t even a top five of all time date but it was just so nice!!!!

#nina rambles #personal #someone socialize men better pls #like none of this is inherent to women we have just learned to play nice!!! #and I should not have to put up with a man making fun of my taste in music or tv shows or books or the fact that I think astrology is fun #just to get some d*** sometimes if I want it #if I am cursed/blessed with being attracted to a multitude of genders then I’m going to need all of them to get better at dating asap #anyway this is one of those saoirse WOMEN moments thx #not to be a lesbian etc etc #I’m just really tired of men making me feel like I’m supposed to be insecure about things I like #I do like Taylor swift! I do like romance novels! I do like romcoms! I do like astrology! also I like country music! #and also I’m smart as fuck and those things can and do coexist #stop trying to make me feel smaller so you can feel better about yourself #like you don’t have to like the same things but let me like what I like #better yet find it hot that I like what I like #ugh ok enough of a notes rant sorry