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Incompatible Synastry Aspects That Are Actually Favorable 🤍

REMINDER: All negative synastry aspects involving “square” or “opposition” can cause conflict in relationships and are known for their bad reputations by many astrologers. However, some of these aspects can surprisingly be more beneficial than the positive ones. So before you worry if your relationship will be capable of lasting R͟E͟A͟D͟ B͟E͟L͟O͟W͟.͟

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Venus Square Mars: This aspect is highly known for causing arguments, power imbalances, and has a tendency for lack of compassion. What is less mentioned is the intense attraction between these two individuals and how their passionate fights can actually strengthen their relationship. It is so passionate that often moments of intimacy can ease plenty of the conflicting emotions that once came from this partnership. This aspect not only causes immense physical attraction much deeper than the softer aspects such as “trine” or “sextile”, but makes you both wonder why you ever let your egos get in the way. This is a love-hate relationship that simply requires patience and a healthy amount of space to truly be something substantial. You may have hated each other or there may have been unrequited feelings at first, but after a time of separation, these partners can reunite with feelings they weren’t aware of before. Good communication and overall understanding of each other’s temperament can also benefit this aspect. The person who is Mars will likely be the first to realize their mistake of not valuing the Venus partner. If they do reach this level of maturity, they can be amazed by the passion they always had for one another that others can only envy from afar.

Sun Opposite Moon: This is a unique connection that often feels fated as two people going in opposite directions suddenly meet in the middle. The only harm in this aspect is emotional mismatch where the Sun will feel that their freedom or identity is challenged by the moon’s needy nature. The Moon may simply crave more affection or quality time than the Sun has available. Oftentimes, the Sun lacks empathy or effort when they put themselves first in this relationship. However, despite oppositions reputation of being a complicated aspect, similar to square aspects, it can actually be beneficial to keeping relationships together. It is an attraction between polar opposites that do not wish to lose the special connection it brings. They both could have the best cuddle dates. If the Sun learns to be more compassionate, make time for their partner, and the Moon more understandable, it will strengthen their soulmate connection to ultimate fulfillment.

Venus Square Pluto: This aspect scares almost anyone who notices it in their synastry chart and understandably so. Pluto is known for it’s destruction, transformation, obsession, desire for power, and intensity. Nonetheless, take it as a huge relief that this aspect can surprisingly be way more romantic than a total nightmare. The individual who is Pluto will come off more controlling or possessive of Venus but both partners are highly attracted to one another. This relationship can teach the Pluto and Venus partner very important lessons. The issue here is that Pluto is prone to insecurities, they may lose sleep over the thought of Venus leaving them or overthink the Venus partner’s actions. Despite Pluto having deep fears of someone else stealing the attention of Venus , they both may fear loosing each other and the experience proves how deeply they feel. This aspect does not have to lead to loss of freedom or become an unhealthy obsession. It simply takes reassurance of both partners by reminding each other how they feel as well words of affirmation and quality time. Once they trust each other and learn to be happy with or without their partner, their relationship will begin to see transformations. It is a truly beautiful partnership.

Sun Square Neptune / Opposition: The negative aspects between Sun and Neptune are normally considered deceptive and undesirable in synastry. In fact, that might be a deception as well. It not always the case that Neptune is a “liar”, “fake”, or attempting to manipulate the Sun partner unless the individual who is Neptune is already prone to those specific behaviors. This aspect can make more mundane or generic relationships feel much more magical, captivating, and gloss over any imperfections between the partners as they strive to avoid disharmony. A relationship like this can be completely memorable but the square aspect causes idealism and a tendency towards perfection. The Sun partner often holds Neptune to high standards who often feels they have to either fake or hide their less attractive sides to please the Sun and meet their ideals. This may seem overwhelming but if the Neptune partner encourages the Sun partner to love them as is without trying to change them, then this could strongly benefit them both. If they also learn to be more honest and acceptable towards vulnerability this aspect will be highly favorable.

Venus Square Jupiter: This aspect might be less worrisome since Venus is known for being more of a personal planet than Jupiter. Regardless, this aspect is worth mentioning. The reason is because the square is particularly non existent in this situation. The square only causes overindulgence, overspending, or going over board in order to impress your interest. Jupiter may shower Venus with gifts and attention. Who can honestly complain about getting spoiled by their parter?. They both are very playful with each other, always making jokes and are very expressive of their interest. Their public affection or teasing may seem too much for some people but all this fun just makes this aspect even better. If they can both learn to resist their spending habits or work on self control, while still finding ways to express affection, it will help them both manage their expenses. They will go on trips, make each other laugh, share positive energy, and is perfect for friendships or relationships.

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