#do you want us to drop everything because we heard the word ‘transmisogyny’ even though no one can tell us how exactly

[a-polite-melody]

Something I’ve heard over and over again is that, somehow, trans men having a word to use to mean “the intersection of transphobia and misogyny as they intersect under the lens of transness toward societal masculinity,” or even having that sort of concept harms trans women.

I’ve never heard anyone try to explain how, exactly, except that it takes away attention from transmisogyny—as if trans men must suffer in silence or else we harm our trans sisters, rather than two conversations being able to happen simultaneously about how transness and misogyny intersect for different people depending on societal perceptions of both femininity and masculinity.

#my post #transandrophobia #transmisandry #‘the concept is transmisogynist!’ #how so? #do you want us to drop everything because we heard the word ‘transmisogyny’ even though no one can tell us how exactly #we’re being transmisogynistic in order to help us build theory away from biases you could be pointing out #you can just say ‘this is bigotry’ and we have to stop even when no one actually seems to see anything bigoted in it besides that you’ve #heard someone else say that because they heard someone else say it and so on