#dont know what tags to use lalala

[adhd-trademark]

⚠️💥ATTENTION💥⚠️

Do I have your attention?

Hopefully.

This is a message to hellcheers, steddies, anti-hellcheers, anti-steddies, and anyone who attacks grace van dien online.

I might be a hellcheer myself, but trust me hellcheers, that does NOT mean you are safe from this either whatsoever.

I dont know about you guys, but I am sick and tired of all the toxicity all of us are spreading. Actually, not all of us. There are people in each of these groups (except those of you who attack grace online, I have a message for you later) who are amazing and kind and genuine pleasures to talk to and be around. I'd like to think that I'm one of them, but I'm not going to make that decision. But back to the earlier topic: there are good people in these fandoms/groups. Which brings us to my first point. We need to stop assuming the worst of each other. There are so many stereotypes of each of us, and usually they are just based off of the actions of a few people in the fandom. Example: one person who ships blahblahblah is racist/homophobic/etc, and now the people who ship lalala think all people who ship blahblahblah are racist/homophobic/etc. Now I'm not saying there arent bad people who just say genuinely terrible things in all of these fandoms. Fellow hellcheers directly, specifically the ones doing these things (you probably know who you are), you make me embarrassed to be in the fandom. Honestly. It doesnt matter who said what first or what someone's opinion is, dont be like that, period. This applies to everyone, I just wanted my fellow hellcheers to know that they arent entirely innocent either. No one is. Unless you are one of those genuinely nice people. If you are, I love you guys, no matter which ship you like. But seriously, we can all be better. We are all probably about 14 and older. We're practically adults, almost. We should act like ones. The way you SHOULD talk about an opinion in ships is with respect for the other person's opinion. It's supposed to be sharing points of view, not telling people they are crazy or weird or homophobic or racist or anything else like that if they like something you dont. If we cant act like adults, I think our best option is to simply ignore each other. Get out of each others tags for good. Stop looking for fights. To sum this first argument up, respect each others opinions, act like adults, dont assume something about someone based on what a minority (or even if it is a majority, it doesnt matter) said or did. If we cant do that, we just ignore each other. Leave each other alone. Thank you.

If you are a hellcheer, anti-hellcheer, steddie, anti-steddie, basically anyone who hasn't ever in their life harassed or said something bad publicly about grace van dien, i love you guys! You can go. Have an amazing day. 😊

If you are the people who sit on the safety of their stained futons furiously harassing and talking bad about grace online, publicly, I'm addressing you now.

It's ridiculous. Grace played a character for 14 minutes on a show where all she did in the end was die. Why do you care so much about ruining her career and hurting her? For those of you who like Joseph Quinn and are here, you realize if you said any of this crap about grace to him he would hate you, right? Hes been her number one supporter since all of you started and since the on set harassment issues. And the fact that you can find nothing better to do other than sit on your phone and try to ruin the life of an actress who never hurt you whatsoever is absurd and mildly hilarious, honestly. You guys are adults too. Grow up. The fact that a 16 y.o girl has to come on this app and tell you how to be decent human beings is really, really sad. Reflect on your actions and do better, people.

Have a nice day.

#grace van dien #joseph quinn #hellcheer #eddie x chrissy #chrissy x eddie #eddissy #edssy #steddie #steve x eddie #eddie x steve #anti steddie #Anti hellcheer #stranger things #Anti eddie x chrissy #Anti grace van dien

[coepiteamare]

interview tag

tagged by: @yeojaa & @papillonsgf like...a week ago 

rules: answer questions and tag 20 blogs you are contractually obligated to know better!

name/nickname: violet/vi, yerim/yerimi/yeri/yea (wow my korean name has so many nickname/variations)

pronouns:  she/her/hers

star sign: sag sun, virgo moon, leo rising (i have a sag stellium and a aquarius stellium in my 6th house too)

height: 159?160cm? 5feet 2? or 5feet 3 i dunno

time currently: 23:45

when is your birthday: lalala

favourite band/groups: bts, red velvet, arctic monkeys, snsd, exo, little mix? ...i know there’s more but i cannot think of them

favourite solo artist: iu, ariana grande, baek yerin, sam kim, taeyeon, niki, alessia cara, illenium, said the sky, 

song stuck in your head:  don’t need your love - nct dream, hrvy

last movie you watched:  uhhhh 

last show you binged:  tiny, pretty things (i dont recommend it. it’s laughable how much consistency is emphasised in ballet, yet this show has so little of it)

when you created your (main) blog:  this is my current main blog! created in January 2020

last thing you googled:  “does canada have girl scouts”

other blogs:  i don’t use the other one!

why i chose my url:  based off a pacific rim au! fic ft double b. i like latin. and it felt oddly fitting

how many people are you following:  uhh 216

how many followers do you have:  77!

average hours of sleep:  it really depends. sometimes 8. sometimes 10. sometimes 5

lucky number:  21!

instruments:  none... i used to play piano (till grade 3). i want to learn guitar and i have been eyeing a very cute pink one...

what i’m currently wearing: my middle school shirt and shorts

dream job:  uhhhh i don’t really have one. but i’d like to print a poetry collection. i never know what to title my fics but oddly enough, i actually have titles in mind for the collection and i love them.

dream trip:  luxembourg. idk anything about it but i like the way the name rolls off my tongue. paris for pastries. tokyo. seoul. portland, oregon. my friends’ hometowns. 

favourite food:  mapo tofu, bibimbap, sweet potatoes, lasagna, pad kra pao (but i don’t eat meat anymore), mint ice cream. 

nationality:   korean

favourite song:   gah, it changes. maybe haunt you - social house

top three fictional universes you’d like to live in:  six of crows (would i be a grisha? idk), harry potter (jk rowling can SUCK it tho), percy jackson

tagging: uhh i think everyone has already done it?

#tag games #tag games with violet #violet has mutuals and they paint stars on her horizon

[soft22]

ok WOW turns out that Once Again if u completely shut out and detach from certain Things that you don't want to deal with that eventually you will just split a g a i n, me, y r u a Dumb Ass all the time, also ur a shitty trauma holder kthxbye

#me @ me: (hands over ears) lalala i cant hear my own criticism of my actions #is it really criticism if im just callin myself a dumbass tho #anyway. so great now we have someone who apparently Only remembers the Very Bad Thing #i talked with them before falling asleep and. they said. a lot of stuff that freaked me out #like. hoo boy. #also i don't know that i even succeeded in making the thing Not A Trauma Thing for me still #so ttttthat means two of us have That to deal with aka i'm a horrible shithead and have dragged someone into it #nvm that this is a LEGITIMATE THING that happens w. dissociative disorders #due to the nature...... of..... Dissociating self.... from trauma......... and compartmentalizing...... #does this mean i can talk about the Very Bad Thing now? nope!thanks brain #hurrrh i dont think i wrote anything that needs tags #*immediately forgets what i wrote in each tag after pressing enter*