#dumb as hell. then theres the people who claim they love butches soo much til the butch is too gender nonconforming for their taste

[jewishfalin]

Just think the gatekeeping shit around the lesbian community and identity is really pointless and just makes it even harder for lesbians to figure themselves out.

#that shit made it even harder for me to realize i was a lesbian... even though I literally knew since I was a child cuz yknow. #wasnt attracted to boys #but i was like well. i could see myself with a man though. i guess #even though i dont desire that #but theres so much pressure on lesbians to be perfect and do lesbianism right whatever tf that means #and then people claim to support trans and nb/gender queer lesbians until that lesbian is Too Masculine #dumb as hell. then theres the people who claim they love butches soo much til the butch is too gender nonconforming for their taste #like. u r not being any better than terfs and straight bitches. what the hell #and claim they r just respecting lesbian history while actively ignoring it... okay then #vent #birdy screams #anyways