#eg. shen jiu's anger and yue qi's people pleasing

[lightninja38]

Not a Shen Jiu hater, not a Yue Qi hater, but a secret third thing.

#person who recognised that theyre both big bundles of trauma responses dressed up in fancy robes #and realises that their trauma has manifested in different ways #and as a result of that they are unable to communicate effectively #and while they have shared trauma that they both know about #both of them have misconceptions about what the other thinks about it #and that they also have different traumas #which have re-enforced bad coping mechanisms that they both have #eg. shen jiu's anger and yue qi's people pleasing #and shen jiu is angry to push people away because hes scared of conflict that he cant control #and yue qi is a people pleaser because hes scared of conflict #and they both now work in a very high stress environment #where there is lots of conflict #and it is also a location which is heavily conected to yue qi's trauma #and shen jiu is heavily disliked #and due to that- and the fact that they arent communicating #they are unable to heal and are stuck in self destructive habits #but if they werent like this #their story wouldnt be a very good tradgedy now would it #in case you cant tell i have a lot of feelings about them #svsss #mxtx #the scum villain's self saving system #original shen qingqiu #yue qingyuan #shen jiu