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420faggyactivities69 · 1 month

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You were a young, good looking girl. Or so you were told. Your long blonde hair fell gracefully on your bony bony shoulders. Your defined cheekbones gave you a sharp look. Your skinny waist made you quite the catch in the eyes of people around you.

But you weren't happy, were you? The long hair didn't feel right. Neither did the feminine face or the skimpy outfits you wore to show off your tiny body.

So you choose to pursue happiness instead and admitted to yourself that you're not the girl you're pretending to be. You chopped off the hair into a messy mohawk and dyed it bright colors, got piercings and tattoos, traded your tiny dresses and heels for oversized leather jackets, rough jeans and combat boots. It took years but you eventually even got on testosterone. The changes made you ecstatic. You gained muscle mass, your body hair grew and got darker, your voice deepened....

And you became hungry. All the years of denying yourself the pleasure of food in order to fit into a box caught up to you and for the first time you ate freely. After all, you were basically going through a second puberty and that's just how teenage boys get, right?

They chug bear, tear into a steak, devour plates after plates of chicken wings, fries, pizzas, whatever they can get their hand on. You were no different. You ate everything in sight and soon it started catching up to you.

Your small waist blended into your wide hips, giving you a more boxy, manly appearance. Your thickening thighs tore through your old feminine skinny jeans and became the perfect resting place for your softened belly. Your arms got huge and mixed with the muscle mass you still got they gave you almost bear like appearance. You could easily go out without binding because your tits now just looked like moobs.

Nowadays, you as much as catch a glimpse of yourself in the mirror and can't help but get horny. The body you worked so hard on makes you wet just thinking about it. You made it yourself out of flesh that was unfit for you and you did it one shot and one stuffing at a time.

Tell me boy, doesn't it feel nice? To finally become one of the big men you always admired? Doesn't the low vibrator of your voice in your throat make you excited? Don't you want to get that tummy to jiggle even more?

I know you want this.

So eat up

You were never meant to be a small girl anyway

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fatliberation · 7 months

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If its ok to ask; how do you feel about fat kinks? I havent seen any fat acceptance blogs talk abt it. /genq

I know it's a sore spot for a lot of fat liberationists (and yes, I'm quite familiar with why so please do not take to my inbox), I think people are scared to talk about it. personally, I think it is crucial that people with fat kinks are able to access fat liberation spaces so long as they leave the kink at the door. I say this not only because the majority of them are fat people, but because that community is steeped in a deep shame and feeling of brokenness for taking delight in fatness and/or weight gain, which perpetuates rampant fatphobia. and fat liberation is what will heal those wounds. I don't understand it when fat activists tell kinksters/fetishists/feedists, whatever you want to call them to stay out of the fat liberation movement. because what is the alternative? do you want them against the movement? that doesn't make sense at all. I think people are so uncomfortable, disgusted, or afraid of this community they don't understand, that they just wish they wouldn't exist. they aren't going away. kink is akin to sexuality, to identity, to queerness. I think what people really mean when they say feedists should stay out of fat lib is, "kink should stay within spaces designated for kink." we aren't talking about kink when it comes to who can belong in a movement, we are talking about people. it is wrong to equate every person who has a kink or a fetish to a predator. it causes very real harm to those people, because they internalize that message that their kink makes them a bad person who is inherently worthless, who has to hide. if feedists aren't welcome in fat liberation, they aren't welcome anywhere.

I think that people who love fat people, love feeding people, love their own fat bodies, who see their fattest selves as their most satisfying selves, would be natural allies to this movement once they find their way to it and feel safe and accepted here. I want to make it absolutely clear that ANYONE is welcome on this blog as long as they aren't harassing or harming anyone. so many of my followers and biggest supporters are kink blogs. some of my closest friends and fat liberationist allies are feedists. I know feedists who are way more educated and passionate about fat lib and body politics than most people I've met. I don’t wish for anyone to feel alienated on my blog - especially fellow fat folks and fellow fat allies. we are 100% FAT POSITIVE AND SEX POSITIVE on this blog, babey‼️

In fact I feel really glad when I see fat kink/feedism blogs engaging with my content bc it means that person is putting the work in to understand systemic fatphobia, how to be an ally to fat people (if they aren't fat themselves), but also healing their community through education and acceptance. and HOT TAKE, BUT: when it does happen?? when feedists aren't shrouded in internalized fatphobia, shame, and isolation, and instead start embracing this innate, powerful appreciation for fatness, it's literally so fucking beautiful? and so very queer?

choosing to gain weight on purpose as an act of self creation. because it feels Right for you. gaining weight to affirm the relationship you have with your body. getting fatter because you feel so much of your identity (even gender presentation!) is attached to your fat body. feeling sexiest when you're fat. someone else worshipping that about you. giving unlimited permission to nourish yourself and/or others - and taking carnal delight in it. releasing food rules and food guilt through centering pleasure. food and fatness as an erotic and sensory experience. finding feedist partners who also have this ingrained love of fatness that can't be replicated, partners who are willing and eager to support and adore your fat body, NOT merely tolerate it. reclaiming tropes used against you through kink, and turning a loving gaze inward. saying "fuck you" to the system and choosing to take up more space in a world that consistently tries to shrink you. never denying yourself pleasure even though everyone is telling you you don't deserve it. feedism is such an interesting facet of the endless spectrum of human sexuality and I think that once people in that community find liberation and heal their relationship to the kink, it can be one of the most radical forms of self acceptance and exercising complete bodily autonomy.

I already know that a love letter to feedism coming from a fat lib blog is gonna piss people off. I'm going to lose a lot of followers, I'm going to get a lot of hate. but. kink in general is SO demonized and SO misunderstood and as liberationists we should also be open to sexual liberation. so much of this discomfort around feedism comes from a lack of education and understanding about kink in general. feedism doesn't = fatphobia in the same way that bdsm doesn't = misogyny or abuse. quite the contrary, if practiced ethically, with informed consent. every community has assholes. especially when those communities are small, ostracized, and so young that there are next to zero resources for self acceptance, safety, education, and accountability. in fact, the assholes are the ones that you're going to SEE because every respectful person is staying away and out of your business. if you've been harassed by someone with a fat kink, that is so shitty and I'm sorry that happened to you. I know it happens a lot. try to remember that what you experienced was abuse, not kink.

what consenting individuals choose to do with their bodies is entirely their business and there is nothing wrong with kink. (and I will not stand for sex-negative, puritan bullshit in my inbox, thank you very much.)

reminder: fat pleasure is fat liberation.

#inbox

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himbochub · 2 months

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sometimes it’s wild when i think about it because feedism truly is so deeply ingrained in my identity in the sense that i too have always known i was into feedism, i’ve known i had a deep love and admiration for fat since before i could understand my own sexuality or realize i was trans or really any other basic thing about my identity. so deeply ingrained in my love for beauty and softness and has helped guide me deeply through every other identity- i probably never would’ve came out as trans if it wasn’t for gaining and leaning into fatness! i was always soooooo deeply afraid to come out as trans because i didn’t see trans men like me! seeing fat trans representation blew the roof off my entire mindset and made me realize how incredibly affirming it actually could be for me to live that truth and i literally have never been happier, even with all the struggles ive faced being trans and fat. it’s just so beautiful and cool how two seemingly unrelated things can become the recipe to true euphoria and understanding within oneself, fat pleasure and worship as a tool for healing and even essential part of transformation, making it that much more personal and emotional and beautiful- working to build a body that is truly meant to please myself and bring myself joy, to reflect that in how much space i work to take up and letting myself grow outwardly in all ways. being the big soft boy both physically and emotionally. fat as gender, fat as a tool for healing and softness and love!

#it’s so cool the haters will not stop us!#trans feedee #nb feedee #ftm feedee #ftm gainer #queer gainer #queer feedism

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fatguarddog · 5 months

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Any other transmascs feel drawn to like? Misogyny play?

Like in feedism definitely in a "bring me another beer," "where's my dinner?" kind of way, but also in a playful "you're such stupid girl," "aren't you so weak and helpless compared to a big strong man like me" kind of way?

Because of course I adore and respect women so much irl, but within a kink space I just think it would be fun to flex some male privilege in a discussed scenario, like that could be very gender affirming and hot for me to be in that dominant, somewhat condescending position that I've never actually been in irl, because I don't want to be in that context... but in the bedroom? Could be fun???

#hutch posts #misogyny play

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use-abelle · 1 year

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Did you run into any BMI restrictions in scheduling your SRS?

I'm a trans girl with a BMI of 38, so these restrictions are something I worry about a lot tbh.

This is actually a super good question, and one that isn't brought up enough.

I did not. Cause. I, am not fat. Yet. I am trying to change that, but the process has been. Mixed results. Lol.

But it's actually a huge issue, lol.

I remember a non fetish, fat account, said at one point "why the fuck can my tattoo artist find a table that supports my weight, but not fucking doctors?" Like. It's weird cause BMI doesn't factor in Bone or muscle weight. A big body builder could also have a high BMI, technically. Like. Medically, it's bs, from what I understand. But. You still need to be lower BMI to get bottom and top surgeries. Supposedly there are medical reasons for it, so. I can't raise to much of a stink. But. I still think, it's required, even if it's bullshit. :/

That's why I wanted to gain more Specifically AFTER I got SRS/ GRC/ Bottom Surgery/ Vagnioplastie.

Like. Feedism is fun. Even the extreme shit (well, some of it). But the ableism and anti fatness that cause so many problems. I could list them, but, it could be even more triggering for folks facing constant weight discrimination than my fantasies. Lol. Like. The whole point in feedism is to embrace the taboo and celebrate and find joy in shit that we are told makes folks lesser and undesirable. To see and seek joy and pleasure and sensual, carnal delight in the face of a society that strip us of dignity and joy with constant under paying and blaming us for decisions those in power make, that are harming the planet. It's supposed to be fun. Flirty. Cute. Sensual. Soft, as it is dark and depraved at times. Loving, as it is lustful.

But that doesn't always mix with the bias, bullshit, or the real barriers to medical and other types of care and services.

So. Short version. I did not. But many do. And I wish I had a work around for you, but. Unfortunately, gender affirmation from top and bottom surgeries do come with an astrisk of thin privledge. Even if that's horse shit.

I'm sorry my friend. They will probably force you to do weight loss if you want bottom surgery. I wish it wasn't that way, but the system is fucked and that does cause legit problems. I wish I had a better answer.

If anyone has thoughts, or work arounds, please reblog this post. It could really help!

#trans feedism #queer feedism #trans feedee #trans feedist #queer feedist #SRS #bottom surgery #trans #transsexual

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mortarandsquishle · 2 years

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as a trans feedee I keep thinking about how obvious it is now that there was a link between me wanting to get fat and being trans tbh

Yeah, I feel this. Weight gain can be a way to reclaim your body, to make it the way you want to be/be seen. It can be gender-affirming, comforting, rebellious, a physical sign of love - the list goes on. I think the intersection between feedism and body positivity/trans understandings of body is a beautiful, wonderful thing 💜✨

#Asks #Trans asks

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anarchofeedism · 9 months

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I already know I mentioned you but I wanna send a thank you to you personally

I also genuinely wish I could hug you

I am so happy my dysphoria is practically gone with all my gaining all my belly fat and eating

Indulgence and hedonism and gorging makes me so much gender euphoria

Idk my gaining feels like how other trans people describe what being on HRT feels like the changes the way their body feels and all the changes

It feels like I’m doing less a kink now and more gender affirming changes

One gender affirming change was I had a pic I took where I couldn’t see my private area because of my belly and thighs and it made me genuinely well up with tears because I didn’t feel like a fat man or boy in that picture trying for non binary I felt like a fat enby

I love how being fat is liberating not just for my sexuality or my eating disorders or health but for my gender too

I now no longer obsess over my health and diet and just be happy to eat

I don’t feel so much paranoia or anxiety

And I wouldn’t have gotten here if I hadn’t decided “fuck it” seeing your blog on a dead account I used and was looking up blogs on if being into feedism as recovery for anorexia was fine

Genuinely I can thank you your blog and so many other feedist fat liberation blogs for bringing me this body

awww this is so heartwarming to hear!! i think gaining weight can be a great way to feel comfortable in your gender and i’m glad it’s had so many positive effects for you ❤️

#johnnytalks #politic

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