#fuck idk how to tag this. but yeah dubcon is more under the influence/communication gap which is fine

[sins-and-hubris]

This might be a bad question/weird question, but what is your position on noncon?

It's fine as long as it's tagged properly so that people can avoid it. I personally only like it in horror, not in a sexual sense, but it's a very common kink and there's ethically nothing wrong with it. It just makes my guts squirm 99.9% of the time, and not in a fun way, so I'd really really REALLY rather not see it if I could. Dubcon is fine though.

I've got exactly one noncon kink (forced breeding), but I personally can only stomach it if there's some sort of violently bloody retribution at the end, so even then it's kinda ehhhhhhhh on whether or not it qualifies as a kink for me. I'm also not comfortable discussing said maybe-kink because I don't think that's appropriate for this blog, and I also just don't want to talk about it bc even I don't fully understand my feelings on it, seeing as it also correlates to one of my deepest fears. I can't tell if I genuinely find it arousing, or if I'm fascinated by my own fear of it- probably the latter, honestly. Either way, the angle I take for it is very much horror so I don't think that falls under what most people who have that kink wanna see anyways.

Same with guro. I have a very strong consensual guro/gore kink (which I'm weirdly more comfortable talking about than the noncon one), particularly with immortal or undead characters, but if I was to ever explore that in full, it would be on a separate nsfw blog specifically for gore because most people are just not comfortable with that kind of thing, and the last thing I want to do is to spring it on people with no warning. Some kinks are just not made to be put on main nsfw blogs.

#anon #reply #fuck idk how to tag this. but yeah dubcon is more under the influence/communication gap which is fine #for me i need both partners to be fully into it #but yeah noncon as a kink is pretty much a hard no for me. i'm aroused by fear but not disgust #noncon falls under disgust