#i haven't dated men in a while (besides my fwb) and is this the norm?? is this what you can expect of cis men on dates?

[ctl-yuejie]

pride month is definitely for baking brownies

wasn’t really vibing with the date (he was sweet but had nothing to say about himself and also nothing he wanted to know about me), started going south when he went into the bushes to relieve himself and wouldn’t understand that i didn’t want to touch his hands afterwards

tried to be polite when turning him down (we were walking towards his house) but then he started insisting we would try this and if it is sth that creeps me out it is a guy not accepting a no. also turns out he lied about his age.

said he was 25 when he’s 32. he thought i was 22. i like to belief that it is reasonable of me to question him for hitting on a “22″ year old saying he’s 25 when he is indeed 32.

#ctlyuejie writes #i haven't dated men in a while (besides my fwb) and is this the norm?? is this what you can expect of cis men on dates? #he paid for the drinks while i was on the toilet which was silly because i told him that since i am earning money i would happily pay #only reason i am not creeped out more is that according to what i got to know he seems fine (younger sisters and a 'he's got the spirit' #type of thing regarding a trans colleague of his) #but do not react to me saying that i am looking for sth long term and not vibing with you with questioning continously why that is and that #you're looking long term yourself but it would also be fine if i could just netflix and chill today #like dude #and then the 'i am not a weird guy - i could be so much worse' #my man - even if the vibes you are giving are super harmless that is some messed up creepy shit to say #he knew i was 30 at that point but can you imagine a 22 year old possibly trying to figure out how to get out of walking the extra 5 minutes #to his home after that? #idk i am being a bit dramatic on main #but it is annoying that you put in the effort to go on a date and men decide to be weird