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heartsoftruth · 6 years

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1/Hi, I apologize in advance for this long message but I just wanted to ask you if you had ever received insults or criticisms or even guys who harassed you because you're a girl who loves football? I'm asking you this because I live this constantly. Yesterday when Barça won the CDR I was so happy so I shared my joy on my social media and I commented on some FB publications related to the match and the majority of ppl on these pages are men so I have only received insults degrading messages.

Anonymous said:2/I was told to go back to the kitchen, that I should go back to clean, that I loved Barça only for cute players or that I probably didn’t know anything about football and was probably repeating what men around me were saying to look smart,.. I will not tell you everything they told me but it was really degrading and mean, I absolutely did not say anything bad, there were comments from guys who writed bullshit on the post but no one answered them but under mine there was like 100 replies.

Anonymous said:3/And I just wrote “I’m so happy and sad at the same time, I will miss Andres so much, it will not be the same without him..” On my other comments also I received insults like "Come suck my c*ck, you will be more useful” “oh a girl trying to make herself interesting by loving football” “shut your mouth bitch it’s a page for men here, go back to cook” And all that just because I’m a girl, if it had been a man who had commented the same thing they would have agreed with him.

Anonymous said:4/It’s unbelievable that a woman can’t love football as much as a man do without being looked at or asked to justify why she really loves football because if a girl likes football it’s surely because she’s in love with the players or wants to fuck with them or that she invents it to have the attention of men, because it is impossible that a woman can really love or understand football, so when it happens I have to justify myself so that they are convinced that I really like this sport..Anonymous said:5/It’s sad that in 2018 for a lot of ppl women = cooking, doing housework, pleasing men and keep quiet. Usually I avoid going into the football debates of my male friends or those of my family because they automatically make fun of me and my opinion is irrelevant. So if you have a vagina your brain is too stupid to understand football and enjoy it? I’m tired of having to hide my passion for football because I risk being insulted. It’s sad because I know I’m not the only one who suffers this..

Anonymous said:6/I discovered football when I was a child, I quickly became a big fan, I even played it many years but growing up my dad start laughing at me and telling me that I should be more interested in girls stuff and he asked me which player I was as much in love to continue to love football like that and the men around me told me that women’s football was not real football so I should stop playing it, my mother also agreed that I should stop because she was afraid that her daughter become a tomboy.

Anonymous said:7/I was stupid enough to believe theses bullshit and I stopped playing at my club. Yes I am feminine in general, I also like makeup, dresses, shoes and stuff like that but sometimes I like to wear my Barça jersey or football outfits too and when I walk in the street with it I get glances, guys who come to talk to me or say that I’m ridiculous with my jersey, one day 2 guys even come to ask me questions on the club to see if I really know about Barça and that it’s not just to get attention..

Anonymous said:8/It’s tiring and exhausting, I’d like to love this sport without suffering all that, what’s the deal with that, it’s a sport among many, why it’s impossible to let a girl enjoy this sport without belittling her? Why is it so difficult for men to believe that we really love this sport too without necessarily wanting to fuck with players? I’m tired, it’s getting depressing and with all the insults I received yesterday I feel like I’m going to be crazy, I really wanted to cry because of my anger..

Anonymous said:9/If you or the followers of your blog undergo this too, can you tell me how you do to support it or to finish with that please? And if there are guys who follow your blog I’d like them to explain to me, if they do these things, just why ? Why a woman who loves football should deserve so much hate and criticism and why it’s as difficult for guys to accept that women can love football too? I’m really sorry again for this long message but I’m really fed up.. 😫

Heey girlie!! OMG dont apologize for the long message! I feel like you needed to vent a little and then it’s 100% better to just write it all down instead of keeping it in. and DAMN you had all the reasons to vent, because what those neanderthals wrote to you MAKES MY BLOOD BOILLLLLLLLL FUUUUUUCK!!!

BOOOOOILLLLLL!!!!

Im gonna reply to the parts in parts because otherwise the answer will be an unstructured mess.

½/3: I dont even know where to start with my first off all comment with this ask! But pffff. It;s so so soooo sad that in 2018 people like that put comments under just a very normal and very correct post. It’s also really sad because probably right now you will think twice before commenting something under a footy Facebook thing.

AND PLEAAAAASEE! Let me know what kind of FB page that is? I am literally fuming and almost on the verge of making a Twitter account for my Tumblr page to post it on here. It’s not fucking normal that when a girl says something about football guys talk like that. It’s not and it’s not ok. 100 replies under your comment? And all like that?? Pfff. Damn. FUMINGGGGG.

I can understand you feel bad about it bc of all these people jumping on some kind of bandwagon behind their PC’s. Insecure bunch of dicks!

4/5: Indeed we women have to know WAAAY more about football then men, because if we dont then we’re not serious about it or only watch it for the guys. “YESSSSS!!! THATS TOTALLY TRUE!!!! I watch 90+ minutes of football just for a few close-ups of the football players I like!!!11!1 Makes total sense” said no women who watches football ever.

6/7/8/9: aaawhh… That is so sad… :( I can’t imagine how that must have felt as a child to be doing something you love but your parents make it out to be as if it was wrong. Not every girl likes pink and barbies just like not every guy likes blue and cars/football. Indeed I also love make up and getting dressed up etc etc. But I also love sitting in a cafe and watching football with a beer or something haha.

I never wear a football shirt on the streets - unless im going to a match or watch in a cafe - today was the first time actually in my yellow PSG shirt haha. But no one said anything to me (other than a few hey girl). But it’s sad we have to prove something to these idiots…

I think we’ve sadly all have had an experience like that. When I was younger and asked my friend at her party (or whatever it was) to see the football score a guy was like “what??? You dont watch it? Well then explain to me what off side is?!” That was the first time some guy asked me it and I did do it, but when someone would ask me it now I said: “You would ask a guy that too who says he watches football? Nope huh? So I won’t show you either!”

In Paris also on the way to the hotel the Uber driver was talking etc etc. And we spoke about football and I said how excited I am to finally see Neymar and hope he’s not injured anymore (because at the time he was stil injured and unclear if he would play) and all that blabla. And in one moment he said (in a joking way) oh you’re only here to see Neymar other than that you dont watch it. And I gave him a reality check real quick. My friend wanted to interfere and talk over it and I was like no no noooo. Lemme say my peace.

Or at work people know I also love Neymar and then one new colleague thought it was funny (and maybe cool in front of the other guys) to say I only watch football for Neymar. And I gave him a reality check too.

I used to bite my tongue when it came to that, but nowadays I’m like nope. I dont watch so much football for some insecure dick to be talking like that to me.

But theres also many guys who you can just have a normal convo with about football. Like yesterday I had one with a guy I didn’t know and he was so chill. Or when I’m in the bar watching you also have guys normally coming up like are you also this nervous etc etc. During the Euro’s too. Met many friendly people who just spoke to us about football. Ok and s

What I also think is one of the problem is because many girls indeed just wear a shirt because it looks cute (which they of course can), but it makes it more difficult for us to be taken serious. Especially with tournaments like the Euros and WC many just watch football bc it’s fun with everyone in a cafe but they have no idea what they’re watching. And end up only confirming some of the thoughts by these neathertals.

Can I ask you where you’re from btw?And please do tell which bs ass fb page you posted this one. I would be a good thing to create all these accounts to back you up or something.

And indeed I’m curious too how other followers react to stupid comments like that?

And keep watching the sport you love girl! I know its tough at times being doubted to often for just watching something you like but lets hope that someday no one will question why we watch the sport we love.

#very long reply #but yeah... haha #anonymous

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heartsoftruth · 7 years

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even tho im still a bit bitter and making shady posts about the situation, it pains me he isn't gonna play the clasico anymore.... it still hurts he is gone and i will miss his spirit at barca so much, on/off the pitch.... and knowing he is gonna make his debut tonight while it might be overshadowed with the clasico

Anonymous said:*whispers* neymar could have played real madrid today

He could have, but he wasn’t… He isn’t… I have to say I was a little sad also yesterday (and it was also hella difficult to watch 2 matches xD). But he looked happy.

I think his quote is accurate about him sayingg people act like he leaving Barça is to die. Me including btw acted like it, but he has moved on. We can only guess how great this new chapter of his life will be. The CL will be crucial; that’s for sure.

Anonymous said:U won’t watch the first official game of barca this season not to mention a classico?😮😮

Of course I watched it!!!

Anonymous said:Dinho says that all the time about ney. He won olympics says the same he came to barca same thing again goes to psg same thing. I mean is it like a reserved quote for neymar from dinho😂 he visited barca last season training again same thing about neymar😂

Well dont shoot the messenger I’m just posting a PSG official image with a quote of DInho haha.

Anonymous said:psg acting like neymar is the new messiah well im sorry i dont want to rain on their parade, neymar is an amazing player and probably the best of that team but they r making a huge unnecessary show about it but there is only one MESSIah and he’s currently getting ready for the Supercopa ciaoooooo adios au devoir

True. The best plays for us, but there is no need to compare these two and take Ney down while doing it. He’s not making the fuss or a comparison ever. He only respects and loves Leo.

Besides ney IS the best on that team. No doubt.

Anonymous said:it’s really easy to say that Neymar went for the money, it’s really easy to judge the guy while we don’t know him personally.

I don’t care that anon judges him for going for money. Not 1%. What bothered me and pissed me off is that anon saying “he did follow the money. I guess that’s what Brazilians really are all about….”

That’s just racist and with the statement he/she makes it seem like every Brazilian is the same…. I’m not here for that. Call him a money lover for all I care, but don’t generalize a whole country.

Anonymous said:this game is so dead there’s zero spark and Ney’s playing so deep :/

Anonymous said:I can’t believe I am watching Neymar play and thinking “I’m bored when is Clasico starting..” firstly, hard to process these are now two separate things, but mostly cuz the game and level of play was just boring… I am soooooo sad! :((((((((((((( still we shouldn’t judge after one game…p.s. you anons need to chill, no one is insulting french league most of us have just said it is inferior to spanish league, which is, I’m sorry, a fact..

It was a bit boring, but tbh first half of el clasico also wasn’t the fireworks I expected…. I think Ney played really good and I enjoyed watching him be a little nervous even at the beginning (my sweet munckin) but showing it on the field.

It was indeed very weird to see Neymar and think “oh damn Barca is almost playing” and then realizing they are indeed not one anymore… I think that will take some time too..

Thank you for the nice words btw

Anonymous said:Who is psg’s captain?

Thiago!

Anonymous said:He is playing against guingamp and is playing for psg where is partners are cavani and di maria. Trust me dude in each of his game he is gonna look like a master lord of football😂

You still have to show it on the field with the immense pressure on you to score. I mean we expect him to but he also still has to do it…

I have to say Cavani wasn’t bad or anything. I dont know much about him but he surprised me. Di maria is just god awful xD. I wanted to throw my laptop away after 7 min. Thats gonna be a pain to watch this season xD

#anonymous

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