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#i'm sick and tired of seeing this language and rhetoric used by lesbians
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not categorically rejecting men via lesbianism =/= being “available” to men. availability to men is not something bi women and straight women have in common because no woman is available to men. we are people, not commodities or resources. 
yes, men think they are entitled to our time, our bodies, our labour. but that is a product of misogyny and something that all women face. being a lesbian doesn’t stop men from believing they have some kind of right to you, and bi women are not responsible for men thinking of lesbians this way. the responsibility lies at the feet of misogyny and homophobia which bi women are also subjected to. they’re struggling just as much as we are (and in certain cases, more) so stop treating bi women like the enemy. they are our sisters and deserve our unconditional respect and support. 
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