#and you disagree you can unfollow me idc

[kulemii]

so i was thinking about how nice it was be if you could go to karaoke (or whatever ishin's equivalent is called) with harada.. i know you cant but what if they added it in ishin just for me? i mean, they already kept aizawa for me. what if they were like, you know what else what make that psychotic bitch go fuckin nuts????

#kulemiithirsts #we should also be able to see him shirtless #we should also be able to hold his hand #we should also be able to kiss him #we should also be able to take him to play that weird rock paper scissors strip and fuck game #we should also be able to see his co-- #...wha? #you thought i was gonna say something dirty like cock didn't you? #well jokes on you- ha i just did! #...yeah #that's fine you can unfollow me- idm #bro idc i'll say it- look at harada's pants in ishin and i think my guy needs some extra dangle room for his mega sized cock and bawlz #debate me- you're wrong if you disagree idc #¯\_(ツ)_/¯ #dont care #jesus CHRIST i am INSUFFERABLE rn #guys does it make it better that i'm at least i little aware of that fact or does it make it worse? #can i iron it out by saying i am only 87% joking here?

[twisted-moose]

Reasons I have blocked and/or unfollowed someone (and why it is ok and good to block and/or unfollow people)

-They post a lot in a tag I browse and I dont want to see their content

-fandom takes I disagree with

-being rude to other people for no reason

-constantly doomposting/posting terrible news & world issues in spaces I use to decompress and relax

-starting fights and beef for no reason

-being a terfy weirdo

-threatening to harm people or telling people to harm themselves """"as a joke""""

-political radicalization/violent rhetoric

-"bring back bullying"

-braindead queer discourse/infighting

-being simply annoying/not liking someone

-being under 18

-bad vibes

-braindead shipping discourse

-no longer interested in what they rb/draw

-disagreement on animal husbandry (weird one ik but equestrians are always fighting & I just want to look at pictures of horses)

-braindead artist discourse

-negative all the time.

-guilt tripping/demanding people take action on a political issue. "If you scroll past this you are evil etc"

-posts a lot about a kink I personally dislike

Managing your online space and mental health is extremely important. Blocking, unfollowing, and setting boundaries does not make you bad or evil. Consuming negativity makes you more negative. When you become negative you interact negatively with others. Cut it off at the source, you can control what you expose yourself to. You can remain informed on important topics and also maintain boundaries on social media.

This includes me. If I no longer post what you like or you just dont have interest or whatever- please just unfollow or block. Dont stress about it... do your thing, I will do mine. We can all be chill. Idc if we are even friends or moots or whatever, its not personal.

#rambling #also just cos I unfollow or block doesnt mean I hate that person #its like letting an unwanted spider outside #putting folks I dont wanna see in a cup and letting them go do their thing in a bush

[ellakomskaikru]

Your blog is cool but it would be so much cooler if you didn’t ship zutara and instead shipped kataang and maiko. It’s really irritating to see a person which such good takes have such poor taste in ships. I know you were sent an ask by a zutara anti before and I saw your response but idc. I think you have the potential to stop shipping zutara because unlike other zutara shippers you don’t rabidly block anyone who doesn’t ship it and actually interact with zutara antis by your own admission. I really hope you let yourself be helped.

Hello anon.

No. This is my blog. Therefore I will post what I like, whether you like it or not. This is my fandom space where I get to express myself in ways that I find fun. People are absolutely welcome to either like it or dislike it. I respect different opinions and I’m totally open to hearing them if it’s done in a respectful way. Therefore it is completely up to them to decide if they like or dislike what I post. What isn’t up to them, however, is to tell me what I can and cannot post on my own blog.

I’m open to hearing opposing arguments about why someone doesn’t like Zutara and instead prefers Kat.aang and Mai.ko if they are presented respectfully. I’m open to receiving those arguments in any format, either through reblogs, comments, private messages, and even anonymous asks. I’d happily peacefully debate with someone who was on anon if that’s the way they were most comfortable doing it. I’m totally open to someone challenging my opinions because it can be a learning experience.

But I will not accept someone telling what to do. So anon, if it is so irritating to you that I ship Zutara and dislike Kat.aang and Mai.ko, that it ruins your possible enjoyment of other things that I post, the best thing to do would be to block me or unfollow me, if you’re following me. Do whatever you need to do to make your fandom experience better. If you don’t want to block me and just really want to debate with me about why you dislike Zutara and prefer Kat.aang and Mai.ko, I’m open to hearing it in a respectful way. But I would not consider that letting myself be “helped”, as you put it. It would be me respectfully hearing someone else’s view and offering my own input so we can hopefully reach common ground.

If your goal is to get me to stop shipping Zutara however, I’ll tell you right now that you are wasting your time. However, we may reach common ground on one particular subject and we may come to understand why you think in a certain way and why I think in another way which could help lessen the hostility between the different ship fandoms. I have already answered three asks asking me why I like Zutara and why I dislike Mai.ko and Kat.aang if you haven’t read them already or you have and disagree with something I wrote, then I am open to hearing why you disagree with something.

But I will not take orders from you or anyone.

Have a good night/day.

#atla #zutara #atla ask #ella’s original post

[dnofsunshine]

Why is Izzy suddenly autistic? You can't just make characters autistic

um?? ok so i am going to give you the benefit of the doubt cos the last time this happened with a haikyuu character hc, it was a misunderstanding, but... but this is extremely rude.

you can disagree with me. that's totally fine and valid! you can decide you don't like my hc. that's fine. but this is my content. this is my blog. i can do whatever i want. and i'm going to say the same thing i said last time:

first: if you can't handle neurodivergent representation in fictional characters, then don't consume my content. unfollow me. block me, idc. i didn't "make" koushiro autistic. i observed his mannerisms, social interactions, tendencies, personality, etc. and compared it to my own (diagnosed adhd, suspecting autistic) & my siblings (who are diagnosed autistic) and created a headcanon (which i'm sure several other ppl have) based on those observations/comparisons. i've had this headcanon for several years. this headcanon has nothing to do with you. it's a creative choice, an exploration of a real-life human condition. neurodiversity in fictional characters shouldn't warrant personal offense.

second: i dislike arguments or any form of fighting/debate, but this is absolutely uncalled for. telling me i can't include nd representation in media, in my own content? telling me that i "can't"? when this has nothing to do with you? it's rude. it's ableist. it's hateful and hurtful.

third: there are no rules in fanfiction. i was actually hesitant to put this hc out there cos of what happened on my hq blog, but i trusted that if my followers/mutuals didn't agree, they would keep scrolling.

finally: come off anon. message me privately if you're nervous. we could talk this out if you're willing, cos i dislike debates, much less public ones. if this is a misunderstanding and you're still too nervous to come off anon, please send an anon apology, not to me but to the neurodivergent community. if you've read this and still feel the need to send more anon hate, don't. i'm going to delete it.

screw you.

#anon #anon hate #neurodiversity #autistic character #izumi koushiro #rant #negativity tw #rant tw #long post #ableist tw #ableism tw #ableism

[hxdrostorm]

In regards to clone.shipping on this blog

These disclaimers were originally found on my rules and muses about docs, I’ve moved them to here for the sake of organization. This post will be linked on the aforementioned docs.

First and foremost I don’t want to see or engage with any kind of discourse about clonecest/cloneshipping (IDC how you choose to name it), and I won’t associate myself with people who claim to not be okay with it (e.g.: If you claim you don’t support/like it, etc.). I hear you guys, I will fully respect that, and I won’t follow first.

If you can’t be a mature person to handle the fact I’m writing something you don’t like, then you will be blocked. I refuse to deal with people’s temper tantrums. No, it’s not racist/incestuous/abusive/etc., enough already. Just say you don’t like it, and move on with your day. Stop watering down those words meanings, in an attempt to one-up in an online discussions.

Blacklist the tag cloneshipping cw. I won’t reblog any art/edits of it, and any kind of interaction/aesthetic/musings of that nature will be tagged as such so people can filter it out.

@ clone roleplayers: Rest assured, that’s not at all the only thing that I’m looking for out of interacting with. If that’s a deal breaker for you, then block or unfollow me (no hard feelings! Curate your own experience.). Otherwise, if you haven’t already stated it in your rules then tell me. whether or not you’re comfortable with it in the case we plot. So I don’t end up making you uncomfortable by suggesting it, without knowing your stance on it.

For my muses’ lore/BG: I don't interpret the clones to be literal brothers (most clones don’t even see each other as a family in the majority of cases). As such whenever they call each other by brothers, it is being done in a "brothers-in-arms" way. Which is a common thing in the military, meant to express their closeness.

I tend to lean towards the old/Legends take for my clones. I disagree with fanons, and strongly oppose Disney’s sanitized canon that try to paint them as just one literal big family. Despite that, I’m still not opposed to interacting with others that do that. Obviously, I will never force my interpretation upon anyone, so be the judge on whether or not you’ll be able to work with that.

If you follow me, then I’m hoping and counting on the fact that you’ve read my disclaimers.

Please, give this a like to LMK you’ve read this!

#ooc / #[ heads up ]

[mixtape-0325]

I'm like that person who does not care at all about followers or interaction amount so if this annoys you and you wanna unfollow no one is stopping you. With seeing woojin discussions on my tl from other writers, I just wanna say that I wish no harm on woojin but I also definitely do not support his past and current actions. His 'apology' was insincere and badly timed, and to me it just seems like a clearing his name for his own solo career type thing. In my own opinion I do not think he actually has good or respectful intensions towards stay/skz that are not self-centered. You are allowed to disagree (no you dont have to send me it in anon cus quite frankly idc about arguing this everyone can have their own opinion do you). Especially in combo with other things he has done disrespectful towards stray kids I do not take his apology seriously. And luckily a lot of stays feel the same :)

[stupid-o-clock]

i still feel shitty around my friends. i ranted about this to my best friend earlier but i want to put this here so i'll basically copy paste my feelings.

i'm gonna call my friends P & V bc typing "friend"/"other friend" etc gets confusing after a while.

i was playing huniepop bc it's a fun game when u have nothing to do, but my P saw it in my discord status and immediately dmed the gc "BRO [me] IS PLAYING HUNIEPOP" and we started arguing about it bc she thinks these type of games are weird, idc lol. if u don't like them, don't play them, why get into my business? we have the most opposite opinions on so much shit like why even bother trying to start this

she complained about genshin nsfw popping up on her tl a while ago and told me to stop liking it, no? dont interact, click "not interested", block, even unfollow me idc not like we interact much anyway. gosh

she was so much better to have as a friend before we got close, i started having this feeling recently like once i get to know someone well it becomes weird. like damn, you know my trauma and ik yours? weirdo.. bye-bye! my gf, two best friends + two also pretty close friends are the only exceptions. but that's maybe because i got to know them before i started feeling like this?

tbh with these two it always feels like they've got something against me for no reason, that "no reason" also being im a dude. with all the shit they say n do it's a really toxic women>men type thing LOL and i can never say anything bc they'd team up on me!!

i don't think i'm ever included in those messages but thats bc im trans. if i was a cis dude theyd bully me into the ground, but i dont wanna be treated diff bc im a TRANS guy, im just a guy. the trans doesnt matter. treat me the same youd treat a cis one. and if you cant then we shouldnt be friends!

now this is about V and her boyfriend, theyve got a thing like he unfriends/blocks anyone she doesnt like going on. n one night he wanted her to unf all the dudes shes friends with, including me. personally idgaf but P got really pissed about it.

P said smth like "what did we say about not controlling women in relationships?" and like.. what? V is essentially controlling her boyfriend, so why can't he do the same? P just brushed it off tho bc V is an angel! and she could never do anything bad! her bf don't know that lol?

just like how i'm deffo not a love interest for her, everyone she makes him unfriend probably also isn't! maybe she got bad vibes or whatever that's ok! but god

also P used the r-slur when going off at V's boyfriend and that just rubbed me the wrong way. she's definitely "allowed" to use/reclaim it but it feels like an awful word, AND she was using it to insult someone which makes it even worse.

i feel like i can never disagree with P either bc she'll pull a "shut up ur a man" card. like- she's done that. she's done it as a joke but she'd deffo do it in a serious manner too-

also, i got into a fight- like- not a fight but i genuinely said smth really LOL i feel bad about it but P was shit talking me to xiya and then pulled up in my dms like Hey [me] i care aout you! You fucked up but it's ok u ust have to learn how to communicate

Like what is this? u can't tell me u care about me after spewing this shit into my girlfriends dms.

"i dont go out of my way to hurt people. he needs help lol" like bitch ik i need help. i did say the "joke" with intent to hurt V but it was in the MOMENT. yk how fucking frustrating it is explaining anger issues to someone who doesn't get it whatsofuckingever?

P has a load of her own issues that i dont ge tbut i at least TRY to understand her. also, first screenshot i wanetd to explain myself so V could see where im coming from?? LOL explaining ursef =/= makinf urself the victim.

i always overexplain shit, like my mistakes and why i think i made them. im also bad at explaining so i go on and on to try and make it make sense. i was literally blaming myself for hurting V and syaing sorry over and over again, how the hell was i making myself a victim?

[lady-morrigen]

I’m so happy that @witchsignals and I have finally made it to season 3 of Narcos.

Bc Javi’s narration is really soothing my soul.

Also, this season has so much Pacho content...

#this is much better #javi baby #season 3 is the best season #this isn't up for debate #you can unfollow me if you disagree #or block me #idc

[mathslesbian-archive]

not categorically rejecting men via lesbianism =/= being “available” to men. availability to men is not something bi women and straight women have in common because no woman is available to men. we are people, not commodities or resources. 

yes, men think they are entitled to our time, our bodies, our labour. but that is a product of misogyny and something that all women face. being a lesbian doesn’t stop men from believing they have some kind of right to you, and bi women are not responsible for men thinking of lesbians this way. the responsibility lies at the feet of misogyny and homophobia which bi women are also subjected to. they’re struggling just as much as we are (and in certain cases, more) so stop treating bi women like the enemy. they are our sisters and deserve our unconditional respect and support. 

#i'm sick and tired of seeing this language and rhetoric used by lesbians #we need to do better and be better #and you disagree you can unfollow me idc #biphobia 8787 #intra lbpq #d.txt

[in-a-trans-like-state]

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#not to like vauge on people but like i really do t like reylo even though soneone i follow does #and keeps defending it #i haven't seen the new movie yet so what ever #but anyway its weird how you can disagree with someone who you normally agree with a lot #id unfollow but i really like their non sw stuff #also like fuck if im going to actually say anything to them cos like thats just rude #im just venting cos like id perfer not to have to scroll really fast past rey/lo shit that i dont want to see #also like its weird that characters can exist in your head but be totally different in someone else's #and normally i dont care and find its interesting especially if its well written/argued #like obi wan? 99% fanstuff around him is 100% fandom but idc #and Anakin has SOO many interpretations #BUT i also dont want to go anywhere near rey/lo cos i have read a lot about how its toxic #and watching tlj i could see how they were pushing it but it came off as really toxic (and just boring) to me #so like my opinion could be changed (and i have read interesting rey/lo meta that was like yeah this could be interesting #but it also didn't ship them or say they kyle should be redeemed so i kinda agreed) #anyway i forgot what my point was? #people have different opinions and when its over fictional characters ot really doesn't matter?? #but that i still really dislike rey/lo #someone else i follow callsd it the bad ship and i like that #i speak

[kashaflare]

Idc Chris deserved to get smacked tonight and you can unfollow me right now if you disagree. When a black woman is going through an illness you don’t joke about that. Comedian or not have some boundaries.

[muncedes]

I literally told you not to share your photos publicly so you don't risk someone saving them. Lmfao you're rude as fuck, fuck off you silly cunt

you’re not allowed to tell me to do anything idc if you disagree i have every right to be upset without you trying to be my parent and reprimand me i could not care less if i’m rude you can unfollow and go

[mouseratz]

// pride discourse

I definitely support nby and trans lesbians, he/him lesbians, lesbians who use neopronouns, etc... however I do not think bi/pan lesbians are a thing. sorry to "gatekeep" or whatever but id highly appreciate it if you disagree with me to unfollow and softblock (or hardblock idc).

I've talked more extensively about this on twitter, but I honestly think bi/pan lesbians are absolute bullshit. And you're just not going to change my mind right now. Lesbianism is for non men who love non men. This can take many forms, but it's not the same as bisexual or pansexual. It just isn't.

[waitingforminjae]

maybe not my place to say this because i don't follow you but as an armywol (who actually ults shinee above bts bc i was into them before bts even debuted) i'm very uncomfortable with you labeling your blog as a "safe and happy space for everyone" and then making a bunch of posts shitting on bts? i don't expect you or anyone to like them or even /tolerate/ them tbh you’re free to hate them idc but is all the negative energy really necessary?? can we not use our time more productively????

Well, I see where you're coming from. If you don't follow me and don't like my content then feel free to block me (I don't care). But I would like to take this chance to say smth to my followers who might feel similar to you:

I have that quote as my pinned because it is an ideal and an energy I strive toward. It is a reminder of the calm, peaceful, and loving presence I want to have in the world. But I am not perfect. I have bouts of negativity. I have things I don't like. Don't we all?

That's why I started using the "tw//negativity" tag and do my best to remember to use it. I understand how draining it is to see negativity in the spaces you come to be happy or to escape. I feel that way a lot. I get it.

I use my tumblr as a space for my thoughts. My random ventings and frustrations. I disagree with how armys behave, and I feel compelled to speak on it. And even besides that, it is MY blog. I will post the content that I want to. You can unfollow me or block me if you decide you don't like my blog, I don't care.

But you shouldn't assume that people are perfect or just bc they want to be a happy/safe space that their content will never have any negativity. Other people shouldn't have to suppress expressing their own feelings just to make strangers on the internet happy. That's the way of madness. Please don't expect others to be perfect like that. You'll only be disappointed.

#the asks and the answers

[icarusfellintomyarms]

I am a new-ish follower yeah, im sorry. I wanted to give you the benefit of the doubt and believe you weren't being intentionally cruel, but I didn't want to make that assumption, be wrong, and have to deal with the fallout later when I could just ask. I'm sorry that my question was rude, I'm just not sure what I can do going forward when I'm unsure in these situations next time. Sorry again for making assumptions about you.

Just give people the benefit of the doubt. You'll drive yourself crazy if you don't, and they'll sooner than later show their true colors themselves anyways.

Look, I am a very... "Sarcastic" person. I say shit I don't mean because to me the joke is people thinking that I'm serious, and that's funny to me. No one else will find it funny but me.

If it isn't clear to you that me replying with "Are you really 31"

To a post where a 31 year old person is writing an essay with cited sources

To prove that a fictional 11 year old boy

--from a children's movie about toys coming to life--

is abusive,

and that anyone who disagrees is an abuse apologist,

If it isn't clear that I'm making fun of that person,

And you think I'm supporting the idea that children cannot abuse each other or their siblings,

Well, I think it might be best to unfollow.

I really don't mean this to be harsh, but, like... My content might not be best suited for you.

If you think I'm wrong, then stick around, IDC, but, like... This was an Experience (TM).

[hxdrostorm]

𝐂𝐚𝐫𝐫𝐝

Indie. Selective. Private (mutuals only), +18. Multimuse. Multifandom.

@ non RP blogs that stumble upon my posts: Hello there, I see you guys! I see that my posts are showing up in the characters’ main tags, as a result of the way I’ve made my tags in combination with how Tumblr’s search system now functions! Unfortunately, there isn’t anything I can do about it. While I don’t mind you guys seeing/liking the things I put out, or even following me for that matter. All I ask is for you to not reblog my posts, in fact, I’d much rather if you guys just straight up blocked me. Also for the love of everything, keep your rude messages to yourself, anything of that nature will be deleted on sight! I’m not here to waste my time on some mindless discourse, I’m not interested in hearing how much you disagree with my takes or how it diverges from the canon or the popular fanons.

**THIS IS A +18 YEARS OLD BLOG** (due to a wide variety of subjects  that aren’t suitable for minors. IDC how close you’re to your birthday, this blog is for 18 and up ppl). MINORS AND AGELESS BLOGS WILL BE SOFTBLOCKED, REFOLLOWING ME WILL LEAD INTO BLOCKING. I WILL ONLY WRITE WITH AND FOLLOW +20 y/o MUNS.

**This is mandatory**: You must have a rules page/doc/whatever. If you don’t have one set up, then I won’t even bother with your blog.

Here’s my threads tracker! (please consider supporting the dev’s work on patreon!)

Rules highlights: (READ MORE BC OF THE LENGTH)

@ Star wars blogs: My blog contains cloneshipping content (writing only. Blacklist cloneshipping cw). If that’s a deal breaker to you then, just block me. Read my disclaimers here!

If I ever end up making you feel uncomfortable, for WHATEVER reason, LET ME KNOW. Without a doubt it was all a matter of genuine mistake.

I reserve the right to unfollow and block anyone, I don’t owe an explanation for doing so. Do not evade it, nor send people after me in an attempt to score an answer for you. If you find out you’ve been blocked by me, move on like any other person would.

The same goes out to anyone following me, who wishes to break mutuals with! Block and unfollow to your heart’s content, IDC what you do in order to feel well. I’d much prefer being softblocked, so I don’t end up sending prompts or interacting with your posts/blog, without realising we no longer were mutuals.

There’s no pressure when it comes to interacting with my muses. As in, if you’re only looking to interact with one out of all the other options? I’m cool with that. The choice is yours, I’ll obviously try to offer as many as I can see fit for us. But I’ll never force anything upon anyone. And on that note: All I ask in return is to respect my grading system for muses (primary, secondary & tertiary/friends only stuff)! As mentioned in the directory, while I don’t mind HC asks aimed at those tertiary muses. Interactions and plots are reserved only for my long-time partners or friends!

Reblog karma is in effect, if I reblog a prompt from you I will send in something back. And I expect the same from you, if you do nothing but reblog memes directly from me without sending anything back, you will be blocked. I have a tolerance when it comes to mutuals, I’ll contact you to stop with it. However, I have zero tolerance for non-mutuals.  

Just don’t be a dick man, let’s all be civil around here.

I am NOT fictionkin nor self-insert friendly, I’ve had way too many bad run ins with those folks, and want nothing to do with them! Mun =/= Muse, if you can’t understand that concept then leave.I’m NOT my muses, and I’m not here to judge anyone or fulfill anyone’s fantasies like that.

Non-mutuals: please refrain from sending prompts that have been  specifically tagged/marked as ‘mutuals’. They have been marked in such  way, for a reason. I get you may want to draw my attention to your blog,  however, that’s not the way to go about it (If you do this, I’ll likely  take it as an attempt to brute force your way into my boundaries. DMing  me is a whole lot better.). I take a while to follow people back, you can find more info in regards to  what I look into people’s blogs & take into consideration before  following back in my rules doc.    

I’m strongly against the idea of “if we’re mutuals, then we’re immediately friends!” (as it promotes an unhealthy sense of overfamiliarity, and it has put me in awkward situations in the past).So please, don’t go around calling me a friend, unless we’ve known each other and have been in constant contact for quite some time. It’s nothing against anyone, that’s just how I roll.

On following: If I don’t get followed back after an week or so, I’ll take that as the person’s way of saying they aren’t interested and I’ll unfollow!

#[ pinned post ]