#i'm so tired of allosexuals sigh

[airenyah]

bitch what?? says who????? is there a law that states that every single person on earth has to have sex at some point????

sounds like a you problem tbh!!!!!

lmao WHAT are you fucking talking about!!!!!

YEAH AND???? SO WHAT??? WHAT THE EVERLOVING FUCK IS THE PROBLEM WITH THAT????????

who the fuck are you to dictate what other people do (or DON'T do) in their bedrooms?????

god i really really really really despise that societal expectation that everyone HAS to have sex at some point. i hate that society thinks that you HAVE to have sex in a relationship

and i also really really really really hate and despise that thing that happens in media that a couple HAS to fuck each other pretty much the day after they get together (if they haven't already at that point). like, even IF we're talking about a relationship where the people involved really ARE going to sleep with each other at one point.... you can literally take your time???? until you get to that point???? you can get to know each other first and figure out other aspects of the relationship first before you sleep with each other for the first time???? like. that's a thing??????!!!!!!! like. you don't even have to be asexual in order to wait until you have sex with your partner??????? do the writers realize that?????? clearly they don't

honestly what's with that expectation that kawi n e e d s to fuck pisaeng right away when they've only just started dating????? let kawi get comfortable in the relationship first please???? honestly what the fuck is up with all that stress and pressure????

ngl i find this particular scene extremely uncomfortable in so many ways

#bmf #bmf ep10 #airenyah plappert #adrm #i'm so tired of allosexuals sigh #i'm gonna have to rewatch the show from the beginning (and with subs) but i think kawi is giving ace vibes #and so this scene feels extra uncomfortable #that he's being pushed into something that he might not be ready for (at least not at that point) #even worse that he's being pushed into something that he might not even want at all #pushed into something he participates in just bc everyone around him tells him that he needs to #when really he needs to do fuck-all #or rather. he really needs to do fuck-NOTHING-AT-ALL #what's even worse is that they didn't even show kawi and pisaeng talk openly about this #just them standing in front of each other and ''are you sure?'' ''yeah'' is not an open and honest conversation!!!! #kawi might as well be saying this bc he ASSUMES that this is what he should be doing #(thanks to max's bullshit advice) #he might as well be doing this bc he feels guilty that he dragged pisaeng outside out of fear of having to sleep with him #so that he ends up sleeping with him anyway #can someone pls sit kawi down and tell him that it's ok if he's not ready yet #that he can take his time with these things #the important thing is that he communicates openly with his partner #and then you can figure it out together #honestly fuck all of those bullshit societal expectations about sex #or on second thought.. don't fuck them. definitely don't fuck them. #these societal expectations CAN however -- as they say in vienna: go take a shit #ok now that this is out of my brain i can go to sleep in peace (hopefully) #i sure hope i can sleep with my emotions running this high #then again i DID say that i'm tired of allosexuals so maybe i'm tired enough of them for me to fall asleep #goodnight