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buckmepapi · 2 years

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Idk why you’re getting hate over tags. It’s just a tag, and it’s a way to reach a wider audience who might be interested in reading your work because it falls under the bigger mutual category. It’s really all about perspective. If you prefer to keep your tags strictly to a smaller category that’s fine but it’s also okay to open your tags and reach a wider audience when it’s related in a certain way. I really love your work, can’t tell you how happy I’ve been ever since I discovered it ❤️

Somebody did try to have a conversation with me about it via private message a few minutes ago and I was with them until they called me pissy, lmao.

They’ve explained how it works and informed me of the topic, but again, it’s a hashtag, the fact of being bothered and upset over it is weird to me.

I understand it’s annoying having to filter out hashtags and block accounts that fill up your feed but again, there’s a genius thing called scrolling past it, it’s quite revolutionary.

I have been relatively new to tumblr, joining in December last year, so I’m not aware of the “etiquette” of a website. There are many things on this website that I don’t understand and have no idea how to implement. I’ve asked bigger blogs on certain subjects but they tend to ignore you because you’re a smaller account, not a mutual, and they don’t want to tell you their “secrets” in case you get popular too. People get so entitled.

The person in my private messages was trying to explain the hate was unneeded but they’re right to be upset blah blah blah, I’m sorry but no. Being upset over a hashtag might possibly be the most first world problem I’ve ever heard lmao

I also put warnings and summaries and pairings on my fics above the cut off , so people can scroll past it and also not see the content, so it’s not as if I’m posting something that doesn’t have adequate notifications as to what is and what it’s about.

And like you say, it is a way to reach a wider audience because I.e people who like Bucky x reader fics will also probably like Steve rogers x reader fics so there’s nothing wrong with adding that to the end of all your Bucky tags to advertise to other people who may be looking at Steve tags that day.

I use to have 400-500 followers less than a month ago, and since my spiderman post that got 6k and my other posts that got 2k and 4K I have gained 1.3k followers in a short amount of time, so it works and I won’t apologise for it.

Exactly ! It falls under a bigger mutual category, they are quite literally crying about me using marvel related tags in a marvel post, like you can not sequester someone and speak to them like shit and expect them to be like “oh sure my bad!”

I’m also not going to apologise for standing up for myself lmao , just because these people can hide behind anon or are use to talking like shit to people their whole lives, doesn’t mean I’m going to stand for it. You don’t like how I spoke to you? Well, maybe learn how to speak to someone nicely first instead of having an attitude and wishing something bad would happen to them like you don’t speak to people in real life like that ???? Speaking to someone like that is only acceptable when they’ve done it first lmao like you get what you give so what do you expect lmao

These people that can afford to keep their tags to a small 5-10 topic specific tags are people with thousands and thousands of followers who don’t really need to tag things to get high amounts of notes, the rest of us need to advertise ourselves to similar demographics lmao, like why do you think online advertisements work the same way and will advertise tickets to the latest marvel movie in your area because you’ve previously looked up marvel comics on Amazon , like that’s how it works lol

I just can’t get over someone telling me that being spoken to that way was justified and that it was essentially my fault for tagging Chris evans x reader for example in a fucking Bucky x reader fic like, grow up. I’d have understood it being my fault if I spoke like shit to someone first, but I didn’t and up until the first hate message I got I was not aware of a tagging issue within tumblr at all lmao

I’m gonna try to be more mindful of it but like I’m not gonna care if I get it wrong lol

Sorry for ranting at you sweet nonnie ! I thank you for backing me up bc I was beginning to question myself and I’m so glad my tags worked and allowed you to find my stuff !!! I love you and hope you have a great day ❤️

#♡ — ❛❛ // anon #𝓲𝓷 𝓽𝓱𝓮 𝔀𝓪𝓴𝓲𝓷𝓰 𝓱𝓸𝓾𝓻 ╰✧#buckmepapi #k;#buckme fights back

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whatitis-inside · 3 years

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Same here! I don’t like HS, even less with the current sham. It’s so annoying to see ppl putting him n Tim together. So is with Lrd. How I wanted IG cd block certain hashtags - HS n Lrd definitely would be there.But I’d never found I cd be entitled to jump to those accounts to critisize them, or even change them. It’s their liking after all! Besides, why bother to waste my time on those annoying posts?! Why not to enjoy what I like?! It’s simple logic but apparently not everyone can grab it.

Exactly that. I mean, there are many celebs I dislike, HS was just an example. But I’m not going on sm talking how I dislike them, how stupid they are, and that people liking them must be delusional and crazy.

Like, why on Earth would I dedicate my free time to something that annoys me, I strongly dislike, and basically irritates me - with all the real life shit I prefer to focus on stuff I like, to cheer up for a bit. Like idk read good fics, talk with folks that are funny and so on, and not block, report, write comments on tumblr, ig,twitter about that one celeb I hate, or create multiple accounts to just dump my shit

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overthemoonwithme · 4 years

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hi! i saw your post about joana days ago and i haha i do see a lot of it and dont get me wrong I LOVE JOANA im from the same country than her in s2 i made a compilation of her argentinian accent and i spend days on it I LOVE HER, but after the clip of cris and amira of s2e2, if you went to the tag on twitter it was only why joana deserved a season (for sure i agree) and deserves clips (i agree too) but i dont agree with ONE HOUR after a clip being the only thing people talk about same on ig +

and again i love joana i agree a season about her a season 5 will be good and im sure we will get clips of her, but im not muslim, but i am a woc and after the hurting i get with liv season on skam nl i want to enjoy this talk about this you know, I GET THE LOVE, i never was bother by the joana season hashtag going on nora's season even tho i love nora, but i dont know if you go to skam españa official instagram is the same, i wish people would wait because im sure we will get joana's clip and im not saying by any means clips of joana are the same of clips of even or isaak i know is not, what im saying is people can request those things but there is time for anything you know, i follow some friends who made merch on redbubble and they always ask before post things on twitter if any clip is coming,i dont know how to explain it haha because i get it, i get the feeling of asking something so bad and not having it yet but when it eclipse amira's clip i get annoyed omg i write so much

Hi! I know this was from a while ago and I completely understand what you’re saying. I sort of stayed away from the eskam tags on twitter in season 2 because when I did go on there I saw a LOT of hate from other remakes stans. Recently though most of what I’ve been seeing is just norandro and dani. Very little Amira or Joana. I could be wrong though because I’m not a spanish speaker so I definitely miss out on a lot of stuff.

But in general I’ve been frustrated by the way eskam is hyping up white men this season...it’s weird for them, and it’s feeding into skam’s existing fanculture. The obsession which Viri has for norandro, which is a stand in for the viewers vs Amira, Cris’ best friend, barely speaking to her about her partner being institutionalised (though ofc their relationship in general seems very fractured rn, I don’t get why the blame is more on Cris than Dani idk). The complete lack of integration of Joana into the girl squad, but perfectly mixing the boy and girl squads...idk it’s been weird.

that said I see what you mean about the whole merch thing! Crisana has definitely been a more marketable couple towards the fandom (and that along with Tamara’s career is probably why it’s taken a backseat). And I definitely see how if the two return the tags would just be about that and unlike Norandro or Dani it would be all people can talk about. But on the other hand I wonder if the lack of integration makes it worse? Less likely to jump out of your seat if it feels more normal/everyday? idk if any of this makes sense though.

Eskam is delivering with individual clips but as a whole I’m very uncomfortable with how they’re dealing with a lot of things

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