#im not forcing shit at all like???????????????? im allowed to have preferences and types dawg.

[snekdood]

ik i said a week ago or somethin that "im sorry mj isnt non binary" but honestly thats not fully true. she is nb in her own ways- i just dont want ppl to take that and then modify her to be fully gnc and more masc than she is like someone i know has 😒

#im very sorry she is not like you. #i have plenty of other characters you can imprint on. #if you are not like her as she is and have to change her so much then you two are not the same. really fuckin simple dawg. #my ocs #heres an idea: you dont need to have a character thats just like you in every piece of media you consume. k? k. #and to be more direct to the person im vaguing about: no you actually dont have an excuse to steal my oc and take control of her #to modify her however you like. shes not yours and never will be. you can make up excuses if you want- #you can pretend i forced you to be like her if you want and just ignore all the times I went along with you in identifying as literally #any other oc mine or yours- just bc i dont wanna be with someone like who you *really* are doesnt mean im forcing you to be like her #yeah i have a preference for a type of person. no you did not fit into it whenever you revealed who you really were. #that doesnt mean im forcing you to do shit it means you lied about who you are and im not attracted to who you really are. #im not forcing shit at all like???????????????? im allowed to have preferences and types dawg. #its really not my fault that childhood abuse made you so codependent on me that me going 'yeah if you're not actually like this #then i dont want to date' made you freak out and then pretend you are like her more. i did not force you to do shit. literally nothing #about our situation would've changed except that i wasnt dating you. i have no idea why that was such a fucking big deal for you #dont you want someone who loves you for who you really are instead of pretending to be what people want?? so then why do you #CARE so much if i dont? it means im just another person you get to forget about and try to find someone new who WILL love that version of u #this is why ik you have a weird specific obsession with me. for some reason it HAD to be me who loved you. idk what it is maybe im just #so sexy and special or something but whatever it is you should be able to love yourself enough to know when to leave #and ya shoulda known that i was gonna dump you if only because you lied about who you were anyways. this is why ya gotta be #fully open and honest about who you are- something ik is very hard for you. #i just dont understand WHY it had to be me. the most i can assume is that i showed you a type of love you've never seen before #and raised your standards. which is a GOOD thing btw. you SHOULD have high enough standards for ppl to love you right. #instead of having all these. apathetic losers you hang out with around you.