#im not gonna tag specific anti fandoms cause im not looking for hate

[oilbun]

I don't understand anti-fans

Like again, their opinion of not liking a person/thing/piece of media is okay, whatever. I'm not gonna hold them hostage being like "its the greatest thing and you have to consume it and you have to like it". No I'm a decent human being and ik there can be flaws with said person/thing/piece of media. If they don't like it whatever. It's the antis like this (of any fandom really) that devote and dedicate all their time, every waking hour of every day, to shitting on the project or bullying the fans of it like this so publicly and openly. Like, okay, you don't like it? Cool, keep it to yourself and focus on stuff you do actually like, it's not hard. I especially don't understand hate readers/watchers. Don't you not like this thing? Why are you still consuming it? You consuming the media is still supporting it in some way, shape and form. Like put it down and walk away, move on ya know? I hate that some people are so toxic they hold on to these useless grudges and act this way. It boggles my mind and confuses me.

#open letter to antis #open letter #antis #anti fandom #anti fans #anti behavior #just stop #let go #do something better #consume content you actually enjoy #im not gonna tag specific anti fandoms cause im not looking for hate #hate reading #hate watching

[fiovske]

This is me being awkward and emo and loving you already

Submitting because it’s so freking long whoops…This could be a pile of dumbass statements, tbh I’m just overemotional sometimes (and we Italians are known for sucking at foreign languages so I cannot guarantee that what I wrote makes sense), so I apologize in advance :’)

ok now that I’ve read your adorable tags I just HAVE to tell you this because believe it or not I’ve been thinking about sending you this message for like, the past 10 days or so (but I didn’t wanna sound awkward or anything): it’s such a pleasure seeing you on my dashboard. You represent everything I love about fandoms.

You see, I’m a lil weird… I hate every kind of conflict, both irl and online. Fandom wars? My nightmare! I often see posts written by/for antis where the only way to defend a character/ an actor/ a concept, is to destroy another one. And not only I dislike it, it also makes me very VERY uncomfortable and it’s what usually ruins a fandom for me. Of course calling out toxic behaviours is okay, but other than that I find the whole ‘antis vs stans’ culture very unsettling (rn I’m thinking about Steve and Tony in particular because you recently stated that you don’t like Civil War and I couldn’t agree more).

But your blog is just the opposite! I mean, aside from the excellent quality content, you never reblog/write anything negative. Instead, you choose to analyze characters and situations in a positive and critical way, and whenever you reblog something vaguely more ‘aggressive’ you always clarify in the tags that your own point of view is actually far less extreme. For someone like me, that means the world. I genuinely find your blog somehow soothing, like a wonderful and peaceful place (now you know what I meant when I said I was afraid to sound awkward lmao).

And since your blog says a lot about you, all the things I’ve just said apply to you as a person as well. I can’t say I know you, of course (tho I’d love to), but I’m pretty sure you’re just as soft and respectful irl as I imagine you to be.

I love and cherish every one of my followers, mutuals or not, and that’s a fact. And needless to say, all the people I listed in my post deserve that spot. But know that even if we’ve never actually had a conversation, you have a special place in my heart (aaaand again, a w k w a r d  girl alert!), and that you’re one of my favourite people here.

Idk if you were serious about the friendship thing and I understand that creating a real friendship online is difficult for loads of people, but if you were serious I look forward to be your friend :’) <3

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ok @godisavalkyrie I dont even know where to start okay, so I’m gonna make points in the order of how I go thru the paras bc aaaaa

ok first of all, I love seeing you on my dash cause you rb sUCH amazing stuff and also when I see you reblogged the stuff I reblogged it makes me feel this dsjkgkd happiness like “aaah yes, I have pleased The Friend” kind of emotion OK, you’re just so smart and so wholesome on the internet I lov u big time OK

and lol i’m awkward as hell so dont worry if the conversation ever gets weird its bc i dont know how to carry a conversation but that doesn’t mean I dONt wanna be fRIENDS ok we gOT THIS

and oh yea, antis of any kind are just the worst like if u dont like something then fiNE! dont like it, but nah they’re gonna make blogs and stuff to make specific posts to POST hate and that’s the lamest fucking thing like wow you’re talking this way about fictional characters pleas chill go eat a pizza or something idk stop being so hateful jesus fck

oo ya I totally get ur conflict point bc some days im like that but some days my impulsive ass is ready to fight lololol srri I’m 5ever bitter with CW dsngkdsngk I think the writing could have been vastly more nuanced but well, Marvel had a plan and they tried their best lol. Your stand on the whole anti vs stans thing is so justified bc honestly it gets very very toxic in the fandom it’s suffocating like people are rude to people for NO reason but simple dumb hate it’s absolutely ridiculous.

i’m gonna cry this is the fucking sweetest thing anyone’s ever said to me gosshhhhh I try to keep my blog the kind of thing I’d come back and enjoy going thru and feel good about i’m so happy to hear you like it aaajkkfhsgj catch my brain machine breAKING skjgkg <3

aaaa what’re you tlaking about online friendships are THE JAM I’ve met a couple of people here online that I’m ready to die for and i know online friendships are hard to sustain but i gUESS WE’RE GONNA FIND OUT BC guess wHAT WE’RE FRIENDS NOW (if ur ok with it plsss)

You’re legit one of the kindest sweetest people I’ve met on this hellsite and I’m so glad to have met you the fact that you tag me in those posts like shit that’s too damn soft ughhh it makes me so emo everytimee I’m just,,,, really overwhelmed,,,, know that I LOV U and we can be awkward together BABAAEEEEYYYY

#yes hello rossana how do u do #I finally sat down after my finals #and wrote a reply that isn't half deserving bc i am STILL SHOOKETH #and double overwhelmed OK #submission

[trickstarbrave]

reasons why the word ‘anti’ doesnt mean fucking jack shit--here are all the definitions i fucking seen for how its used:

-anyone who hates a ship

-anyone who calls out a ship for being abusive/incest/blatant csa

-anyone who hates on kpop/kpop groups 

-people who post hate in ship tags specifically

-ONLY people who dox others over fandom material (not limited to ships or nsfw content)

-anyone who doesnt like ddlg nonsense specifically

-anyone who hates people who literally OPENLY ADMIT ON THE INTERNET THEY ARE PEDOPHILES (MAPS/NOMAPS/self admitted pedophiles/people who straight up say they are attracted to children but usually some bs like ‘i wont hurt them cause thats illegal uwu’ as tho that makes everyone feel MUCH BETTER)

-ppl who asks for age gaps/incest/abuse to be tagged (not even ppl who say ‘i hate this’ just ppl who ask for tags) 

like how am i suppose to know what you MEAN. the word can mean fucking anything. it means “someone against something i like” like..... OKAY????? MAYBE SOME OF THE THINGS YOU LIKE COULD BE BAD BUT UR JUST GONNA SAY EVERYONE WHO AGAINST IT IS BAD CAUSE THEYRE AGAINST IT???? CAUSE IT MAKES YOU FEEL GOOD TO SLAP GROUPS OF PPL UNDER A NAME??? how is this a good defense. it makes you look god damn ridiculous in most conversations where ur trying to be “”””serious”””” 

also im 90% sure it started in kpop thats just a theory ive gathered on the internet make of that what u will 

#csa mentioned #incest mentioned #abuse mentioned #LIKE