#im specifically bringing this up because a white user on here who is 25

[literaphobe]

white people, i’m going to need you to change the way you react to poc calling you out on racism, or telling you not to say something because it’s racially inappropriate:

apologize and do better, but don’t repeatedly apologize and put it on the poc to forgive you over and over again

don’t make it personal. don’t make this about how you’re Oh So Socially Awkward and treat this as a form of social rejection. retract statements, decide to do better in the future, and move on

in the context of online spaces, if a mutual calls you out on racism, don’t go crying all over the dash about how worthless and stupid you are etc etc and making yourself the victim. this is especially rude when your mutual of color can see it!!

whether intentional or not, repeatedly bringing the incident up where the poc who called you out can see it - is a form of guilt tripping. don’t do that

don’t make excuses. yes, you did something wrong. no it does not mean you are irredeemable garbage and that the poc who called you out hates you and doesn’t want to be friends anymore. again, Do Not treat this as a form of social rejection. it cheapens what happened and what could’ve been a fruitful lesson on being better about race becomes about your white tears

#text #yes white people can and should reblog this #im specifically bringing this up because a white user on here who is 25 #said something to me in an ask that rubbed me the wrong way #because they were like omg you have the white people in this fandom at your mercy bc of your fic!! #and i don’t want to get into why that’s not good #but. after this i told them not to say that again #and they apologized in the replies and i amicably accepted their apology #i thought that was it. but they went on to moan about it on their blog #and unnecessarily beating themselves up #and treating it like a social rejection #i was going to leave it alone but they sent me two asks to my Main of all places #saying shit like oh im so sorry ive just been through a break up #thereby making excuses and being unnecessarily scared like #oh no i hope its still ok that i follow u!! and other stuff #and it just. really put me in the spot #and was VERY guilt trippy in nature putting a lot of pressure on me to coddle them #and THEN #they deactivated #do NOT do that #if i were any less secure i would take that the wrong way #and think that i somehow caused someone to deactivate #literally DO NOT DO THIS #seriously why would you put so much on a poc just because #they told you not to say one thing? #jfc #onekplus

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