#inter community fighting is bad but is it worse than ignoring the history of important terms to talk about aesthetic value? idk

[coolcarabiner]

i reeeeeeeally try not to care what people call themselves or what words they use for their identities but if u genuinely unironically call urself futch i hope u have a permanent rock in ur shoe

#shut upppppp shut up shut up oh my god #inter community fighting is bad but is it worse than ignoring the history of important terms to talk about aesthetic value? idk #u can just. u can just be unaligned. it’s okay. if ur not sure if ur butch or femme ur probably neither ok and it’s fine it’s great #but stop bastardizing words that mean things to lesbians to describe that u sometimes dress fem n sometimes dress masc they r not the same!! #i see the term futch it’s an instant block. like a white person using the word stud it’s an on sight block wtf is the matter w some of u #this is one of those topics where if u disagree u can pretty much argue w yourself sorry but. not really. #posts