#it even Blatantly Said - that Alastor being sexually assaulted was worse bc he's asexual and would never want that at all

[hypervoxel]

Okay some people talk about asexuality in a way that makes me really wonder about their views on allosexual people too. Like. Some of the things people are saying or writing are so weird. This is too vague, oh well. It's the framing of one-sided unwanted attraction or unwanted romantic/sexual actions like they're worse, so much worse because Alastor is ace. Like, you know harassment is still bad even if the victim could be attracted to the perpetrator, right? Even if they are attracted to the person harassing them, it's still horrifying.

#yikes™ #vent #okay so. i read darkfic‚ that's on me. i have seen multiple - and noped right the fuck out each time - that implied #it even Blatantly Said - that Alastor being sexually assaulted was worse bc he's asexual and would never want that at all #like if you're trying to rant about the idea that having sex will 'fix' an ace person‚ that is still sooo poorly phrased #why should other characters feel that suddenly the act of rape is worse because the victim was sex repulsed and got no enjoyment from it?? #what do you think they feel about allosexual rape victims and survivors??? #are they dismissive of anyone who was raped by their partner while they were in a relationship? #I am still so heated over this #and some things people say like Alastor being so uncomfortable with Vox's obsessive crush on him *because* he's ace #like anyone else has never had to deal with someone else having unreturned feelings for them #I'm not phrasing everything beautifully in my vent post either but ugh #personal