#it’s the whole ‘finding men that are fictional/unattainable and famous attractive does not mean you’re actually attracted to men’

[plethodontidae]

yeah I guess what I was trying to say is since you're a lesbian, are they really thirst posts in *that* sense?? I'm not a lesbian but there's men who I think are handsome and like looking at but I don't necessarily want to jump their bones?? 😭😭😭 idk if this is making sense

OK OK i’m seeing what u mean now 😭 everyone’s experience w sexuality is different tho and for me idk i’ve always been like this. i find these guys attractive but i know for a fact that 1) i most likely wouldn’t even get the chance to meet them (therefore making them unattainable) and 2) for myself i’m able to distinguish between finding someone attractive/good looking vs being attracted TO them if that makes sense. so keeping this in mind i will consider them thirst posts bc i do find them genuinely attractive <3 and honestly a lot of it is me being like “aw my little pookie my silly rabbit blorbo” type situation as well

#answered #anon #the whole reason i thought i was bi for YEARS was bc i couldn’t distinguish the difference btwn the 2 yk #i still struggle w labels and stuff but like. i hang out with guys all the time just in the friend group we’re all in and not once have i #thought any of them were cute or thought about dating them #including all the other guys on my campus #it’s the whole ‘finding men that are fictional/unattainable and famous attractive does not mean you’re actually attracted to men’ #does that make sense #and honestly there are women who i think are attractive thay i don’t necessarily want to jump there bones yk #but i digress LMAAOAOKSJS #i’m still very much a lesbian i think <3 #tbh it’s just never been That deep to me yk??? i id as a lesbian and if it turns out i’m actually not a lesbian it’s ok!!!!! #bc sexuality is fluid and to me it’s never been that serious idk that’s just me