#like i saw this one post talking abt how shes a great 'businessman' for 'purposely being wholesome' and 'waiting' or w/e and i

[littlebabycrybtch]

bro i am so happy for jojo siwa and proud of her and i dont wanna bring the celebration down already but this isnt just a post for nihilism or w/e, i am REALLY uncomfortable and concerned with all the posts im seeing that have this tone of like. ‘this is gonna be so great for our community’, and ‘everyone loves her and her reach is so big yay’, etc etc etc. girl no im sorry like its ok to be excited ig but pls dont make this moment all about how much its gonna rock for us. she is 17. she does not need to ‘do anything’ for our community, we fully need to be supporting and protecting HER, not expecting or pressuring her to be a warrior spokesperson for us right away??? or ever??? like??? and shes already endured a lot of unnecessary cruelty, theres a good chance she’ll endure more, and frankly very possibly from people in your own space who you’ll need to be willing to shut down for rejecting her even if theyre a trendy funnyman you like, and even if they come up with a blatant bullshit reason to validate their cringe. for the love of god, dont fall for that and let it happen this time around. idk to be harsh man can we pls stop viewing coming out stories as a ‘how can this benefit me’ situation and treating it like wracking up points for your community. nobody, especially not a minor, NOT EVEN a famous one, owes you a role model just for existing as a minority. thats not her responsibility, just be proud, welcome her, and let her be, please.

and just a sidenote here but well tbr uh deepest offense, a lot of yall Were casually and proudly part of the group that was relentlessly mercilessly bullying this child for 5 years straight and solely for acting like a normal wholesome child. so sorry to be bitter ig but i mean i dont rly wanna hear You talk about how excited you are to get some social benefits out of her identity until you feel like denouncing and apologizing for that cruel unnecessary shit, and N O T just because shes fucking gay now you unsympathetic moral gangrene piece of garbage, but bc you should grow some feelings and recognize no child should have had to go through that evil shit in the first place??? like wow somehow a hot take but i think maybe perhaps kids you dont personally assume to be minorities just shouldnt be en masse bullied by grown adults for cringe either. i think either way that shouldve already been inexcusable to you. and like yeah acknowledgement of that or not i want her to get all the support she can now and yeah its fine to be excited at the prospect of this helping you/your community sure, but i have a problem getting over this contrast and if nothing else i think theres literally smth wrong with your head if you were harassing her and making her a joke before over Nothing but now that shes relatable to you in some way you can see her as an ally and wanna pretend you always respected her. the way we’ve normalized that extent of selfish and dehumanizing behavior makes me genuinely disturbed with our community. pls just support her like a regular lgbt+ person coming out. its fine to be happy for personal reasons but dont yall think we should be talking a lil more about.... how this is gonna affect her by now...? imo, we need to slow down on the ‘great for our community’ talk. Great for Jojo.

#like i saw this one post talking abt how shes a great 'businessman' for 'purposely being wholesome' and 'waiting' or w/e and i #maybe i misinterpreted it but it was . really fucked up imo to say that. #nah this gay 17 yr old was not. manipulating her audience to fuel the gay agenda. #even though you say that as a good thing. thats rly fucking WEIRD to claim like... ? #she likes to sing and dance and happened to make a career out of that and happens to be gay. #shes not a mastermind robin hood for the lgbts. and she doesnt have to be either!! she gets to just be gay and as casually as she wants lol