#like the hallmark of maturity is realizing how morally gray we all are including ourselves

[kiint-sugii]

Idk man I feel really bad for the people who blame others for all their problems and refuse to acknowledge or take responsibility for the part they played or the way they antagonized/hurt others. that's not the way anyone would ever learn and grow, that only severely diminishes quality of life and it's pretty sad to witness

#it's the victim mentality for me #i know a few people like this despite the distance ya wanna take from that toxicity #n the common theme is being far more miserable (and mean) than the average person #i cannot even imagine wishing and hoping for the sadness and destruction of another human being #i have love n respect for most people but def not for family members who flat out refuse to take criticism while still insulting others #some people Really Do live their whole lives like this? well into adulthood? #like the hallmark of maturity is realizing how morally gray we all are including ourselves #and understanding that everyone does what they think is best for themselves #i cannot imagine trying to live an adult life without that understanding.