#lmao I honestly think he loves my stubbornness cause otherwise...he would've dumped my ass long time ago =)

[path-of-my-childhood]

i was just thinking about how much emphasis taylor put on the four seasons in a year (during willow premiere and while talking about these two being sister records) and i realised that now she actually has a partner who's seen all these seasons with her. no more summer romances no more winter romances, it's all year around and i just -

Yeah... there’s this strange thing that happens when you’re in a stable, solid relationship and I generally don’t like acknowledging it too much cause I’m all like “I’m an independent strong woman hear me roar!” and “I don’t need anyone!” which, you know - I don’t... but it’s still nice that he’s there. Like, I can do everything and go through everything on my own, but the fact that my boyfriend still chooses day-in-and-out to still be there in the background, just in case I might actually need him... it’s nice. And it has to go both ways in order to work long-term. It’s the CHOICE that is nice - like he doesn’t need to, and I don’t need him to, but you both still choose to go through stuff together. It’s always nice when you find that in life.

#that's why I emphasize the word CHOICE cause that's different #whenever there is MUST or NEED TO involved - there's a lot of questions that can be asked about that relationship #but for you to choose something on your own... season after season as you put it - that's different #and it does make me happy for her #like this week has been super intensive for me at work and one of the days I had to work late and rain started just before I was done... #so my bf came to pick me up...which you know - is no big deal. But it's still sweet #and me being me I was like ''I could've came back on my own. Like I have a hood on my coat & it's not a big deal...'' #''it's not like I'm gonna melt or anything...'' and he was just like ''I know.'' But still choose to be there. That's the thing. #lmao I honestly think he loves my stubbornness cause otherwise...he would've dumped my ass long time ago =) #anyways... #my point is just - after everything it is nice to see Taylor being happy and someone choosing her over and over day after day #it's a nice feeling #asks #taylor swift