#of romantic interest in someone is already explicitly bi. sorry parents but when u read this

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U ever write and ur like wow a queer person definitely wrote this it is impossible to detach the fact I'm queer from this piece of writing. Well that's fun

#rant #i consider it a positive #but yeah like. i have a bunch of original plots i want to eventually write out as stories #and like. i thought ok ill start with a girl/guy romance since like. my parents might want to read my first finished story #and i love them and im out to tjem and they accept me at pride. but its always a glass closet in a way. they definitely avoid the topic of #who i like. unless im in a relationship specifically or discussing mu own future marriage. #so like a big gay for gay huge epic romance as the first book i shove at tjem is a convo i dont think i expect to have #so whatever i pick one of my guy/girl stories in this original plot story universe. well. im bi #guess how many characters are bi in this bitch. ill give u a hint. anyone wirj any iota #of romantic interest in someone is already explicitly bi. sorry parents but when u read this #u will be smacked over the head by bi being real and remembering ur kid is bi #not a single straight character in this story. assuming anyone straight is fucking impossibimpossible #its clear a queer person wrote this book #oh rodenberry when u said in the future ppl wont care about gender and sexuality limits and lovr is lovr uvu #babey i made itty #i also think like. the current demands ppl make of authors to out themselves. is incredibly invasive like #an authors work generally will speak for itself. and on the flip side #if a lesbian writes a story thats super heteronormativr that can still happen like. identity doesnt equal a perfect (or imperfect) novel #on a semi lighter note. im demiromantic and i feel like #even if i dont intend to that it probably spills into how i write romances and friendships #even tho i like to think i can write ppl who fall in love fasr sjsjdsjsjdj lol

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all the asks !!

So this is old and I just looked up "ask" and did the most recent one sorry nonny!! If you want you can request the actual one if this wasn't it.LONG POST WARNING1: Do you have a crush at the moment?I think so! But I often misinterpret my/others feelings so who knows!2: Have you ever been deeply in love?Love yes, deeply maybe. I don't know anymore, maybe it was never really love? Maybe I was in love with the idea that we were in love3: Longest relationship you've ever been in? @discountshark for 4 months4: Have you ever changed for someone?I don't know if I did, but I probably would if the person meant the world to me, so maybe I have.5: How is your relationship with your ex?I mean the ex from the only relationship that had substance and I are on p good terms6: Have you ever been cheated on?No but I feel like I was dumped so the person could avoid cheating (imo, I'm not trying to accuse anyone that's just how it felt I Promise)7: Have you ever cheated?No, and i never plan to do so, I hope with all my heart I never do8: Would you date someone who's well known for cheating? Honestly yeah probably. I have a habit of getting into friendships or relationships with awful people (if u are reading this it wasn't u I promise)9: What's the most important part of a relationship?genuine mutual feelings for one another10: Do you like to be in serious relationships or just flings? I have no idea if I have a preference, but I need a lot of attention and I dislike change so probably serious ones! A11: When you are dating someone do you believe in going on "breaks"?I think people need time and space, but break implies an end of something but it'll come back. I think if the participants in the relationship love each other than working things out or taking a breather makes more sense than a "break." Those just don't make any sense to me.12: How many people have you ever hooked up with? None. 13: What's one thing you regret saying/doing in a previous relationship?I regret begging14: What age do you think is appropriate for kids to start having sex?If you're safe af then like,, 16 or 1715: Do you believe in the phrase "age is just a number"?To an extent yes. Not illegal things or anything but people's business is their own. If a 20 year old loves a 35 year old who is to say that's wrong? I'm not saying it doesn't sound weird. 16: Do you believe in "love at first sight"?Yeah!17: Do you believe it's possible to fall in love on the internet?Yes!18: What do you consider a deal breaker?(Abuse mention!) Repeated physical abuse mainly, emotional abuse I'd probably still stay with, at least that was the case with itty bitty week long things in the past.19: How do you know it's time to end a relationship?When the participants have fully lost interest in one another20: Are you currently in a relationship?Nope!21: Do you think people who have dated can stay friends?Of course! It all depends on circumstances though. 22: Do you think people should date their friends? I think being friends first is a crucial part of any relationship. 23: How many relationships have you had?4? Idk what do u call things that end in a week? 1 real one in my opinion, where both people reciprocated feelings24: Do you think love can last forever? Yes25: Do you believe love can conquer all things?Mhm!26: Would you break up with someone your parents didn't approve of?Probably not27: If you could go back in time and give yourself one piece of advice about dating what would it be?Saying no won't kill you, you'll break if you always say yes. 28: Do you think long distance relationships can work?Yeah!!!29: What do you notice first about another person?Patterns, eyes, the way they talk and what they say.30: Are you straight, bi, gay or pansexual?This isn't a very inclusive question, but I'm pansexual.31: Would it bother you if your partner suffered from any mental illness?No! I have from 4 myself32: Have you ever been in an abusive relationship?Mentally/emotionally yeah (slightly physically)33: Do you want to get married one day?With the right person, if there even is one for me34: What do you think about getting your partner's name tattooed? It's a stupid idea35: Could you be in a relationship without sex?YES36: Are you still a virgin?Yepperooni37: What's more important: Looks or personality?Personality38: Do you enjoy love films?Yeahs39: Have you ever given anyone/received roses?Nope. Never. I'd love too though40: Have you ever had a valentine?No, I'd probably cry if I ever had one ever though41: What's your imagination of a "perfect date"?One in which the participants are having a good time and are comfortable42: Have you ever read "Romeo & Juliet"?Mostly I think!43: What's more important: Your partner or your friends? My partner(s) should be my friend already, but if I have all or most of my other friends telling me things aren't good or I'm being treated badly I'd listen to them I think44: Would you consider yourself "romantic"?Hopelessly so45: Could you imagine to date one of your current friends?Y e a46: Have you ever been "friendzoned"?In technical sense of being rejected and told that we are only friends yes, but the "friend zone" is a stupid concept imo.47: Which "famous couple" is your favorite?I don't think I have one?48: What's your favorite love song?Baby it's fact by HelloGoodbye probably!49: Have you ever broken someone's heart?I don't think so?50: If you're single, why do you think you are?I'm a pos51: Would you rather date someone who's rich but a douchebag or someone who's poor but a nice guy?Personality and morals are key, I'd take a kind person who is "poor" over a rich jerk any day52: Are you good at giving other people advices regarding dating/ relationships?I'd like to think so!53: Are you jealous of couples when you're single?Sometimes yah54: How important is it to make a relationship official (p.e. on Facebook)?Who cares if it's spoken outwardly or not? As long as it is explicitly understood by the participants in the relationship that they are in a relationship that's enough for me. 55: Would you consider yourself "clingy", "overly attached" or "jealous"?YES56: Have you ever "destroyed" a relationship?Not that I know of(Suicide meant next)57: Do you think it's silly to consider suicide because of a broken heart?This is a stupid question. Considering suicide is never "silly" 58: Are you the "dominant" or the "submissive" part in a relationship?I like to think I'm submissive, I hope that's true59: Have you ever forgotten important dates like your partner's birthday or your anniversary?No (then again week anniversaries don't count much to most people and the 4 month one I never forgot)60: What's your opinion on open relationships?They are perfectly fine!!! As long as all participants are aware and ok with if. 61: Who's more important: Your partner or your family?Depends on the situation62: How do you define "cheating"?Knowingly going behind a partners back and doing something you'd do with only a partner/ something your partner wouldn't want you to do with someone else (in a romantic or sexual manner)63: Is watching porn while being in a relationship inappropriate?No?? Maybe if your partner(s) really doesn't like it then you probably shouldn't?64: Do you think Valentine's Day is overrated?Sometimes65: Would you consider yourself a "cuddler"?YeAHSthank u nonny!!