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thelonesomequeen · 2 years

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they don't think about chris and his fandom before they do something on social media, they don't think oh the fans might talk about it, the fans might notice it, they don't post pictures which includes bunch of people and chris from far away and think about chris and his fans talking about it. /

Right like "And if that woman is really Alba, and she put it out there, she should have known that fans would be speculating" You think they would be choosing a picture to post and they would think about his fans? Especially when it wasn't just picture of him. Y'all really aren't THAT important. I don't know how much Chris thinks about it but I think for his friends, fans and speculations is the last thing they think about when they post something. Not everyone's as obsessed with speculations as you are.

(Anon 2) I think the first thing some people do when there are new pictures is analyzing it and then making speculations, theories and they forget that not everyone does that, and not everyone thinks about possibility of anyone doing that. I'm sure there are lots pics of/with Chris that his friends wouldn't post because people would be talking about it, but no, I promise you they don't think about you and your speculations on innocent picture from some event (was it a wedding? I already forgot) because someone's next to him, even if it's Alba (unless he tells them specifically to not post something obviously)

(Anon 3) How is the picture going around Chris’s friend’s fault? It’s not her fault people grabbed the picture, and posted it everywhere trying to prove AB was in it. That’s on the so-called “fandom.” They did this. No one else. If they weren’t so desperately trying to prove their fan-fic speculations right, these photos wouldn’t get circulated as much. Chris & his friends use social media as it was intended. They’re not seeking attention. There’s no one to blame for the madness, but yourselves.

(Anon 4) Funny because this friend before the NYE shared her pictures as usual, we can saw some part of Chris's house during Halloween or Memorial day where he wasn't and nobody called her attention seeker. Now because of AB she becomes one according to some. I think she's private for avoid to be annoyed at the time T, let the things decrease then when she thinks stalkers forgot her she comes back public. It's what I will do if I was her.

(Anon 5) I totally agree with we can't blame the account holder but you do have to question why they would share this picture whilst public and not whilst their account is private // Because they're grown ass adults and they don't make decisions about their social media because of their famous friend with obsessive fan base

(Anon 6) I just don't understand why this friend has a public page. Yes, obviously it's up to her and it's hers, but they know the fans can see everything. And if that woman is really Alba, and she put it out there, she should have known that fans would be speculating. And the strange thing is that this friend sometimes has a private and sometimes a public side. She likes attention // if you genuinely think this about a person u don’t know+who isn’t in the public eye then i hope u find therapy or Jesus.

(Anon 7) And if that woman is really Alba, and she put it out there, she should have known that fans would be speculating. And the strange thing is that this friend sometimes has private and sometimes a public side. She likes attention // she’s like attention? What? Shes literally a random woman with a normal life/not a celeb. She’s posting photos from her own wedding. It’s not like she posted a selfie of her with Chris and AB and captioned it with “my fave couple” 😂. She’s done nothing wrong.

(Anon 8) I totally agree with we can't blame the account holder but you do have to question why they would share this picture whilst public and not whilst their account is private // id understand ur point if she was purposely posting about CE+AB but thIS photo had literally nothing to do w Chris. He was in the bg of HER wedding photos where no one, other than stalker anons, would think to zoom in. Do you expect her to get a microscope out and examine the background to make sure Chris isn't there?

(Anon 9) I totally agree with we can't blame the account holder but you do have to question why they would share this picture whilst public and not whilst their account is private // seriously? Do you actually expect the poor woman to zoom into every single background on every single photo to make sure that nobody could possibly be a brunette that has similarities to AB? Why are u blaming a woman who has just got married and probably living her best life and wants to show that w the world? (🦎:just adding that the person who posted the photo was NOT the bride, but a wedding guest)

(Anon 10) His friends, whether some ppl like it or not, have always protected his privacy and have never leaked anything really private. I see these very same ppl are mad they can't find pics to support their narratives (they said the same things about tara and the Halloween party pics, i remember aly or the Portuguese were spotted there w/o actually being there). I agree w what you said about the 2 antagonistic groups in the fandom but the problem w one of them is they're too vocal, too loud, annoying and unnerving, if they had real proof to sustain their opinions they would be blasting it all over their forums, tumblr, etc... it's honestly boring to constantly insert that girl into everything Chris does. Also, to the ppl who claim he has hook-ups, isn't a monk so on so forth, although we don't have actual evidence, it's also possible that he's dated women more or less seriously since Jenny, professional women in his circle, who aren't willing to lose their privacy for a relationship that may not last. Maybe one of those women in that pic is the one Chris is actually seeing?? Ah all the things we'll never know

(Anon 11) People can post on their IGs whatever they want, no matter who they are friends with! That woman is NOT Alba, the owner of the acoount probably didn't even see the possibility that some fans would think it could be Alba and honestly why should the owner of the account even think about something like that. Just proves in a way that Alba is not on their minds or lives, and they are not keeping anything a secret for Chris or spilling his secrets like some fans are claiming.

(Anon 12) I totally agree with we can't blame the account holder but you do have to question why they would share this picture whilst public and not whilst their account is private // I highly doubt that Chris, his family & friends are thinking about Alba anywhere near (if at all) as much as some in this fandom are. Why wouldn't they share their excitement that their friends got married? People really need to stop policing what his family & friends (and everyone else in general) does

(Anon 13) Because they’re allowed to? Jfc they are not to blame for the way the fandom behaves. 🧜🏻‍♀️// the original pic was totally innocent. It's not the account owner fault if this fandom is arrived to an obsession point that they need to crop and analyze every pixel of a pic

(Anon 14) Why don’t we take this blaming energy on the fans who stalk the fucken shit out of Chris friends insta page

Public or not fans shouldn’t be stalking them and talking pictures and posting it everywhere without there knowledge

This fandom thinks they got every right to do this but they don’t it’s creepy and weird

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j2madhatters · 6 years

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Why Padalecki marriage annoys me - non Tinhat perspective

I can safely say that never before has a marriage annoyed me as much as the Padalecki marriage. Even the Ackles’ behavior is reasonable. They don’t kiss and make out public because Jensen is not an exhibitionist sort. I have never respect PDAs. In my opinion, it is inappropriate. But remember, I am not a tinhat so you can draw your own conclusions about why the Ackles don’t “display” their love in public. There is nothing wrong with theorizing.

Genevieve, and Jared [when he is in husband mode] just irritate me. They oversell it. In the beginning, I thought she was so lucky to have a husband like him. He is so beautiful. He’s so sensitive. He earns well. He is respected in his field. Plus he cried on their wedding day. How beautiful is that? For years afterwards, he would gush over her during his panels. At first, I smirked, then I became poker faced, then I became mildly annoyed and then one day [I even remember the panel] it just got too noticeably exhibitionist. It was the last question. Timothy Omundson was called on stage, pretending to be the last question. And he comically fangirled uncontrollably before perching himself on the designated chair. His question was “who is your favourite guest star, and why is it Timothy Omundsom?’‘ It was a funny question, and Jensen went with it, saying that he was a fan of Omundson’s beard, which caused Robbie to throw a faux hissy fit because he had a beard too, darn it. But Jensen pointed out that his beard was pathetic because it was short and he couldn’t braid it. After the laugh fest, Jared gave his answer: ’'My favorite guest star is Gen, because she’s my wife and the mother of my children”.

For some reason, that is pissed me right off. It was a funny question. It didn’t warrant a serious, gushy husband reply. Some witless creature made a mistake of pointing this out, in the comment section. The entire page converged on her. Even people who had initially agreed with her, backtracked. I felt angry at this fandom's self-censoring. I realized she was over loved, not because of any personal merit, but because she married Jared. They were calling her a queen. Seriously? A queen. For what? So I went on the internet to see if I was the only weird person who couldn’t detect her monarchical merits.

That was last year-ish. How do you think I stumbled onto tinhats. I like most hats because it seems they don't conform to the politically correct norm of ’'treat the wives like gold’’. And they don’t ask tinhat questions during panels. Unlike the leeches who love destiel and Misha Collins. Jared was becoming too extra when it came to Genevieve. And I noticed he inserted an obligatory Gen mention at least once, in every single panel. Even after seven years, he was far too “in love”. And eventually, instead of being happy for their happiness, I started feel like they were rubbing their domestic bliss in everyone’s face. “look at what we’ve got, nyah nyah nyah.’' My polite and genuine [but not over the top] respect for their marriage dissipated.

You know who he reminded me off. He reminded me of Tom Cruise when he was a guest on Oprah and was over pushing the epic love he had for Katie Holmes, jumping on the couch and fist pumping the air. That incident, I found humorous and embarrassing. This was plain irritating. I noticed he’s slowed down now. The unnecessary wife mentions sometimes don’t even make an appearance, for which I am thankful. I wonder why though. Unless he is telling a story that she is a part of, like the Highway story, he doesn’t mention her anymore. My non tinhat guess is that he was aware that fans were getting pissed off, especially since, he had mentioned something about her in a panel recently [I don’t remember which one], and someone in the front row said: We know!

Another thing I don’t like about this relationship is Genevieve intruding on fan space. If people are paying bucket loads to see their favorite actor, unless they specifically ask for a guest appearance by the actor’s wife, don’t intrude. Once, Genevieve appeared on stage, during a J2 panel, to contribute something unnecessary to the story they were recounting. I think it was the highway story. Then she made sure she kissed him before leaving, while the crowd watched. Why? She added nothing fresh to the story, and couldn’t she wait to leave the stage, to kiss her husband. She isn’t paying to see her husband. The fans are. Don’t take that precious time away from them.

And I noticed, she usually sits at the side of the stage, overseeing the whole exchange. As far as I know, Danneel hasn’t done that yet. Why the need to loom over the proceedings? Does she love to hear him talk? That reminds me of the livestream they did, where he was talking and she mouthed ’'blah blah blah’' while making a mocking hand gesture, because apparently he was talking too much. So obviously Jared’s yammering doesn’t entertain her.

Then at Jib, she got to join the panel. I didn’t fault her for attending because apparently the previous year, he had gotten sick and didn’t make the con. I assumed she was there for moral support. I am a non hatter so that is my analysis. You cant of course, explain your perspective. But that doesn’t mean she needs to be on stage. For what? Its not like she did something spectacular whilst there. Rob, Rich and Jared had to take over the discussion because she was so dull. Eventually even Jensen joined in, revved the crowd up even further, and left. One of her fan girls complained that the boys ’'didn’t even let her speak”. Thank goodness they didn’t.

She is inserting herself between Jared and the fan, and now people are forced to be enthusiastic about her. Its so unfair. It almost seems like Genevieve wants shared custody of the fans. That is not how fame works. You earn it. You don’t inherit it. I started to get more and more annoyed with being forced, [by all of fandom, I thought] to go crazy over some woman, I could care less for. She wasn’t impressive as fake Ruby. And I was not the only one who thought so. Cassidy was a bland actor, in my humble opinion. Genevieve was worse.

The only reason she didn’t fade into oblivion, like all the other female actors, is because she married Jared. There was a blog called anti-Genevieve on Tumblr, that received a lawyers letter to cease and desist, because of defamation of character. Its her right to safeguard her reputation, so no problem there, especially if the blog is over malicious without proof or facts. I did visit the site. But I don’t remember seeing anything horrible other than her being called a beard. But it has been a while so maybe I just forgot.

However, there is another blog called Supernatural Snark. Almost the entire blog bashes Jared for everything that comes out of his mouth. One day, an ask about Jensen’s weird behavior at Jibcon, illicited an odd response from the blogger. The asker said that Jensen’s breakdown was Misha, Jared and the destiheller’s fault because Misha queerbaits his fans, Jared teases destiel and the fans abused Jensen on Twitter after Jaxcon. She said Jensen was trying to pacify the fans. The blogger said that it didn’t make sense for Jensen to wait six months to pacify the fans. Then she disabled the comment so the asker couldn’t respond. Of course, even I know he waited six months, because he shares no other panel with Misha. That’s when I realized that Supernatural Snark is a heller blog.

How come Genevieve doesn’t send a cease and desist lawyer’s letter to this witch. I think I know why. She only looked for anti stuff about herself on the net and that’s how she found this page. If she was looking for anti Jared blogs, she would have found Supernatural Snark. The Minute Maid commercial and her words in it were a little incentive. She said she was making so many sacrifices. Well missy, bundle up your babies and buzz off to Vancouver. You husband is not gone off to war. You are sacrificing nothing.

She doesn’t seem to care for him. She doesn’t care about his campaign. She never tags AFK for anything. She tags Random Acts, though. The thing that makes my blood boil, on a personal level, is that she claims that she also suffers from depression. As a bipolar sufferer myself, the one trend I noticed is that when people are impatient with me, and I point out that I have bipolar disorder, they quickly say that they also suffer from depression, so they don’t look bad. Since when does she have depression. Because if she did, she wouldn’t ignore her husband’s campaign that is supposed to help people like her. Is she sharing in her husband’s sympathy the same way she is sharing his fame?

She has diehard fans on Instagram. One of them is Ivana. Ivana gushily asked Genevieve to sign her name so that Ivana could have it tattooed. I was surprised. When did Gen become a rockstar? Then I realized that Ivana has her own SM page where she says she is ITK and best buds with Genevieve. So she knows that Jared abuses his wife and neglects his children. Ivana is a heller. Her best friend Lua James [@Poptivist on Twitter], led a smear campaign against J2 for the Nolacon joke. Her followers are the ones that made this problem reach MSM. And J2 had to apologize, publicly, for nothing. That is ok, because what Lua and gang were initially hoping for was for separates for the boys' panels, so that Jared wouldn’t be near Jensen. Genevieve is making herself the whip with which hellers can beat Jared.

And both Ivana and Lua cornered Danneel at one con to tell her how everyone hated her, except them. That was their snide contribution to tinhat hate. Danneel signed Poptivist’s SPN magazine, with the caption: “He is mine, bitches”… something inappropriate like that. Danneel was wrong for writing that. I noticed she fights with Jensen’s fans a lot. Ungracious. Lua is so toxic that she needs a guard at the cons, supplied by Creation to keep an eye on her. WTF!!! I always wondered why she wasn’t just excluded, but I think it’s because she is friends with a Creation staff member who also happens to be Misha’s relative. And because she is a Misha fan girl, she gets to stay.

That’s why Misha’s face appears on the main posters with J2, despite him not being a lead. Because he is related to staff. The wives have no fans, but I think Genevieve’s ego is in denial. Her intellect isn’t, which is why Jared’s appears in her vlogs. He is the deal sealer for her. One day this pompousness is going to backfire on Gen. I hope she figures that out one day.

APOLOGIES FOR ANOTHER LONG POST. I HOPE YOU DONT MIND.

Thank you for your submission, I’ve always wondered what non-hats make of the OTT parade and the wife stanning.

#submission #go-diane-winchester

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