#thanks for using poly as an excuse to gradually replace me with your ex you weren't over while i had to watch and accept it

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#i really let my ex's mental health excuse all the shit they did huh #i can't compromise my own needs to accomodate their shit that they don't want to work on #thanks for the months of gaslighting #thanks for using poly as an excuse to gradually replace me with your ex you weren't over while i had to watch and accept it #poly means having multiple relationships #not having one at the direct expense of the other #that's just leaving without telling me you left #so i was alone while still with you #i'm glad i'm free now and can heal from your shit #i'm glad we broke up so i could get outside perspective for the first time and realise #that my mistreatment was real and not all made up #that my hurt and reactions were valid #that i was taking way too much responsibility for us on myself #relationship security takes two to build #thanks for taking me for granted ✌️ #thanks for admitting that i wasn't a priority to you #that is really helping me move on #thanks for not caring about my feelings #thanks for not communicating and denying any wrongdoing to the very end and beyond #i hope the weather's nice up there on your moral high horse #i'm glad you could sleep at night knowing i was suffering because of our relationship #you knew you were excused and didn't owe me anything #and how could i ask anything of you when that was being abusive controlling manipulative toxic? #and when you would punish me for being upset by being distant and cold #enjoy your basic ass life together #fuck you for everything you put me through #i'm very much disillusioned now #you're a great person but you were a shitty partner in the end #thanks for trying with me #wish you broke up with me when you stopped wanting to try instead of months later