#they care about what they think about them. and being a femimist is not cool in practice only in theory

[sapybara]

I think that until Scott or Noxcrew— actually scratch that, until all the men who participate in mcc stand up and say something about how awful the community they found treats women, nothing is really going to change, because chats and redditors don't listen to women and certainly will not listen to the three men that actually said something about it. This is the kind of issue that has to be pushed every event by everyone, nothing will change if the only thing done is a twitter thread. Because is easy to say "treat women fairly" but it's not easy recognizing the problem in yourself or your audience.

#men wont call their chats out so as not to be 'annoying' or 'pushy' because at the end of the day they dont care how their coworkers and #friends are being treated #they care about what they think about them. and being a femimist is not cool in practice only in theory #discourse #sorry for this guys