#unique like every other first gen daughter doesn’t have this exact relationship wit their mother

[lilgynt]

i feel like no one but my mom and i get our relationship bc like yeah she’s a horrible person and has done extremely horrible things to me and i tend to lash out like a fucking animal bc of that and my own brand of being wrong but also i do throughly enjoy the conversations i have with her i do think we both have a genuinely good time together when we hang out and i do value her opinions and approval on several subjects and she’s stated that no one has ever taken care of her the way i take care of her and it’s just a very unique dynamic we got going on

#unique like every other first gen daughter doesn’t have this exact relationship wit their mother #personal #no everyone thinks #well mostly everyone thinks we just hate each other and only make choices based on that #and the one that gets me the most is my brother bc #hell notice my mom and i playing and he’s like god why are you guys like this #admonishing both or one of us and it’s like this was a perfectly fine interaction ? #and like just bc we don’t hate and actually in fact love each other #doesn’t negate from what either of us have done or will do #but it’s sorta like #you know that one quote like  #about tragedies that’s like there was love. it didn’t stop what was gonna happen #but there was love and that matters #it kinda feels like that #and you know what i would deny this if anyone asked me #but like you know how hannibal and will both had moments of time were people were like #hey. lmao. this person is definitely not a good person to have in ur life quite detrimental actually #and they’re like you don’t get it #i do get that.