#whereas sally being like. hey . we’re done. I’m stepping away from this relationship to protect myself.

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everyone making up excuses for Barry (including Barry) and defending him and jumping through hoops to be like ‘he just had a bad day he’s not a bad guy’ and it being about how far we will go to defend a man even when there’s a woman on the opposite end clearly in danger from said man. We hate to see it but love to see it acknowledged

#I hope this show actually carries through with where it seems to be headed #bitches will watch the actor-wannabe hitman bill hader haha show and by the third season go oh shit they’re tearing apart every other show #and joker voice society #I mean Barry from the getgo is not a good person but through each season the narrative has actually increased in criticizing himaccordingly #this was all because sally broke up with him and I got really emotional about it (in a good way) #the woman storming out saying she can’t handle the mans life of violence and crime is always framed in a way where she’s somehow #the bad guy or silly or stupid because she can’t keep up with the tortured man and she doesn’t understand blah blah. #whereas sally being like. hey . we’re done. I’m stepping away from this relationship to protect myself. #it’s good idk it’s. refreshing to see that #and she’s not being treated terribly by the narrative she’s not some scorned woman. and Barry trying to downplay it #... #what the fuck am I going on about. anyways. back to post that’s what I’m saying. acknowledgement and hopefully they continue whatever it is