#you can blacklist the scissors emoji in case if you don't want to see those types of posts~

[frecklystars]

hey keri, i just wanted to say that you're not alone in dealing with the effects of an abusive ex :") reading your posts reminds me of how i was treated too, how my ex invalidated my ocs and interests and acted like i was useless without her. that's why i find it so nice to see you loving yourself and your interests despite what happened to you, you know? i hope you remember that even though progress isn't always linear and healing isn't always pretty, you've come so, SO far!! all your f/os must be so proud of you, especially starscream - and i'm happy you're still pushing forward 💕 - NDH

Oh anon, you sweet sweet person ;-; 

I am so so sorry to hear that you have also had to go through such a toxic and hurtful relationship. It wasn’t fair and you didn’t deserve to be treated so poorly like that. I can tell just by your personality when you send me these messages, you’re a really kindhearted person. Every time I get a message from you, I get so excited and my heart fills up with joy!! I love to hear from you!! And a person who treated you like that, invalidating your OCs and interests... well that’s just horrible, and you deserve so much better and I am relieved that your ex is no longer (hopefully) in your life!! romantically, in any case!!

Thank you for your kind words!! ;w; I especially loved the little reminder about my F/Os, especially Starscream- he’s gone through abuse too so I’ve always felt the closest to him during hard days like these >////< that makes me feel better. Thank you sweetness!!!! I am SO proud of you for making it through such a difficult relationship, and so are YOUR F/OS!!! >:DD 

We got this!!! You’re right, healing is messy and not linear at all, and there are gonna be some days where you sit there and you’re like “ooh, shit, this hurts! this hurts today, ughhh” but you gotta let it hurt and let yourself feel everything that’s coming out of your open wound in order for it to heal. And I’ve got you!! You’ve got this!!! You can get through this, I can get through this, even when. the. going. gets. TOUGH!!!!!

#keepsake #abuse mention #anonymous #asks #NDH anon #thank you again for such a lovely pick-me-up!! #it made me feel less alone ;u; #OH and I forgot to mention #sometimes I'll be venting abt my abuser but I'll tag it with the scissors emoji! #so if you have tumblr blacklist or xkit blacklist features #you can blacklist the scissors emoji in case if you don't want to see those types of posts~