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Bruh, what the fuck is a lesbian?

queer attraction to women :)

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i wish i could find conservative art of the "woke liberal agenda" funny like how my queer peers find them funny but i just, cant. no matter how entertaining other people find them. it just makes me upset how much people hate us. i hate transmisogynistic depictions of trans women. im so tired of fighting and i cant even cope through humor

#queer #lgbtqia

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You know what’s sad? That people get uncomfortable when talking about intellectual disabilities.

If you’re uncomfortable with the discussion of intellectual disabilities then maybe you should really reflect on yourself.

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Pride isn’t a “queer-friendly space”, pride IS queer space.

Kink doesn’t “belong” at pride, kink IS pride.

To say that these things are just-kind-of-also-included is such a diluted view of what these things actually are. These spaces have been mentally purified for so many people as things that are “also-okay-for-gays!”–

No!!

These spaces ARE OURS. Not just “friendly to us”. Not just “inclusive to us”. They ARE us. We don’t just “belong”… We’re the reason it exists in the first place!

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anyway this is where “man/nonman” bullshit inevitably leads. “man” is not a gender category that is completely and totally separate from all other gender categories. men can wear whatever they want, present however they want, date whoever they want, talk about their gender however they want, and still be men.

a lot of y’all think when i say i’m a genderqueer man that either 1. i’m not a “binary man” which means i’m not really a man i’m just man adjacent, or 2. i’m a man who sometimes is feminine. both are incorrect. i am fully a man. and i am fully genderqueer. these two things are not in opposition to each other. i’m not fucking half n half. i am a man with a queer gender. i would be a man even if i wore skirts and dresses every day, and i would still be genderqueer if i wore jeans and a t-shirt every day.

there is a reason people don’t push back as much against nonbinary who have a connection to womanhood or also identify as women. there is a reason people assume nonbinary people are all sapphic. there is a reason people who are more closely connected to manhood or to mlm gay communities are seen as inherently less able to understand or perform gender nonconformity. the reason, in case you hadn’t guessed it yet, is gender essentialism. it’s that y’all are still upholding patriarchal standards of manhood.

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id 1/ a google doc with the text "experience déjà vu." experience is underlined and on top "expérience" is suggested.

id 2/ google doc with the word "pleeaaassseee?" on top is suggested "plaaastic".

google docs babygirl you are so fucking stupid

#plaaastic

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People will be like oh you can't be stargender that's stupid you're making it up. What even is cloudgender. Come on. Boygender and girlgender are totally real though btw. And you have to pick one or you'll get in trouble

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i hope the 11 year old transmascs of the world arent on social media i hope theyre playing outside in the dirt

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look if no amount of surgery’s gonna make me “biologically female” then I may as well just go the whole way. make me artificially female. who needs biology when these cybernetically augmented tits have wifi

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[Image description: A facebook post, edited whiteout-poetry style to read, "There are trans kids".]

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There are trans kids

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I'm a trans woman who still ids as a gay man and I can tell you a lot of the reason you don't see it much is because of how AMAB people with more transgressive gender experiences are mistreated by the community. If you're going to be amab and trans you'd better be a whole woman or else what are you doing here are you trying to ruin our safe spaces

Yeah that doesn't surprise me. I don't wanna speak for transfems AMAB but I've thought for a while that it must be even harder to be Weird In The Gender when you are assigned male since there's so much emphasis put on transfems NOT being men in any way shape or form as The reason why they should be allowed in and treated well.

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Hyper-vigilance is a symptom of trauma, and that is why the "narcissistic abuse" community doesn't actually help victims of abuse.

It offers them an overly antagonistic view of the world where they have to "spot these 8 signs of a narcissist" and "learn the narcissist's mind-game" so they can be safe.

All that does is play right into the abuse victim's trauma symptoms, preventing true healing and keeping them locked in a mindset where people are out to get them.

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i think if you call yourself “transintersex” or say you’re “transitioning to become intersex” i should be allowed to kill you

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id/ a grindr convo. blue: hey just so you know i'm not gay or anything orange: this is grindr my guy blue: i guess people who are lactose intolerant can't walk down the fucking dairy aisle? i'm just looking. /end

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Isabel Allende, The House of the Spirits

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Poc can be racist, disabled people can be ableist, queer people can be queerphobic, your identity doesn’t stop you from doing damage to people even if they’re like you

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literally in conservatives’ eyes all trans people are the worst kind of trans people. feminine trans guys who don’t go on T or surgery are actually just cis girls fetishizing gay men and are faking being trans for attention. big hairy trans guys with beards and deep voices are creepy mean predatory guys who Mutilated™️ their bodies. hyperfem trans girls with dresses and feminizing surgeries are fetishizing womanhood and are actually creepy sexual cross dressers. masculine trans girls with 5 o’ clock shadows and body hair are disgusting men who invade lesbian spaces and “don’t even make an effort to pass”. nonbinary afab folks are gross girls trying to appear superior to womanhood and nonbinary amab folks are predatory fetishizers trying to invade  Real Trans spaces. neopronoun and xenogender folks are nasty cis people misinterpreting transness and cringe gross weirdos. moral of the story is fuck around with gender and fuck around with bigots, because bigots aren’t gonna like you regardless. trying to make your identity palatable and respectable very rarely works, and when it does, it’s able to be revoked the Moment you do something “weird” or “cringe” or “gross.” you can do whatever you want forever and i love you for it.