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finally finished the comic based on the post by @rollercoasterwords

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I spend a fair amount of time teaching women to kick men in the balls, and I’ve learned that this activity tends to generate controversy. Here, according to actual adults who have actually said these things to me, are some reasons you should not kick a guy in the balls:

1. It will make him angry.

I should hope so. I’m not sending him a friend request. If I kick him hard enough, there’s a good chance I’ll render him unable to act upon his anger. That’s my goal. His feelings are his problem.

2. It will make him hurt you worse.

Statistics say otherwise. And anyway, he’s already demonstrated his desire to hurt me. Why should I give him carte blanche to decide how much he’s going to hurt me? I’d rather be an active participant in that decision-making process.

3. Groin kicks aren’t really that devastating; I’ve seen lots of guys get hit in the balls and it hardly fazed them.

This response (almost universally from men) is so common I’ve come to think of it as “groinsplaining"—you can see it many of the YouTube comments in the videos linked above. These people rarely volunteer to demonstrate their own iron balls in a real kicking situation, but they confidently assert that men in general can shrug off all kinds of damage to the groin. All I can say is, I’ve seen two-year-olds take down grown men via the groin, and toddlers don’t even have any training. I do. I like my odds.

4. We shouldn’t be teaching people how to kick men in the balls; we should be teaching men not to do anything that would make us have to kick them in the balls.

Hey, that’s a great idea! Do you have a detailed, research-based plan for teaching all men everywhere to behave themselves all the time? And do you have funding for your efforts, and buy-in from politicians and community leaders, and a network of trained, experienced instructors who can effect this change? If not, better get started on your grant proposal. In the meantime, I’ll just be over here teaching people how to kick guys in the balls. That’s what I do.

5. Telling people they should kick an assailant in the balls is the same as telling victims who didn’t kick their assailant in the balls that they did something wrong.

No, it isn’t. It’s a practical way to reduce the number of future victims by giving them more viable options to disrupt and survive an assault.

Fact: We have the power to damage the bodies of men who try to hurt us. You’re saying we shouldn’t let people use that power. I’m offering people more choices; you’re trying to take them away.

6. Kicking a guy in the balls just makes the world a more violent place.

Maybe, in the short term. But if it stops him from killing someone, or putting them in the hospital, isn’t that a net win for non-violence? The Dalai Lama thinks so.

One in four women will have good reason to kick a guy in the balls at some point in her life. Luckily, it’s not rocket science. Anyone can do it! And ball-kicking’s efficacy is beyond dispute, as the men of MMA so nobly helped us illustrate here. Gentlemen, if any of you are reading this, and conscious: Cheers, and get well soon (the non-wife-beaters among you, anyway).

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i really do not like that there are communities of men that dress up as hypersexualized, bimbo-ified caricatures of women and are celebrated for it. i do not like drag.

i do not think that drag is an innocent outlet to explore gender nonconformity. it goes beyond that -- it is a misogynistic performance of men's idea of womanhood, and it disgusts me. the fact that drag performers adopt "female" personas with feminine names and use she/her pronouns solidifies my opinion on this.

#q #idc that its gay culture its terrible amd disgusting

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Will never see eye-to-eye with anyone less than the people who treat their pets like wandering ronin instead of valued family members. Like oh there goes Bronson our uncollared, chipless chocolate lab out of the permanently open back door again. If he comes home in three days after subsisting on garbage we'll be mildly thrilled to see him again but if he succumbs to his natural predator, the 2006 Toyota Camry, that's just the circle of life

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Gonna get myself a fun little surprise I guess

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it is a bit sad and worrying seeing a lot of women who get cosmetic mastectomies apparently to resolve a severe body anxiety, who after the surgery seem to become only more focused on that part of their body, and become symbolised by the scars and made into someone who’s had something removed. There is having pride and comfort in how you look, but there’s also presumably being able to move on from being fixed on your body when you’ve had the thing that’s apparently supposed to fix the problem, and becoming more focused in on exactly that area does not seem like moving into a healthier mindset. It likely does not help that so many get stuck with surgeons who shouldn’t be allowed anywhere near a scalpel, who’ve done genuinely terrible work that wouldn’t fly in a field that wasn’t so female specific (saying that, are you even allowed to stitch up a cesarean that badly?)

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Nothing like a little workout session 🦀

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Anything negative about the male body = transphobic

Anything positive about the female body = terfy

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That chai guy reblogged a post yesterday about how radblr women aren't able to live ordinary and happy lives because we're too busy fearing half the population and projecting abuse we got from our fathers on the world.

https://at tumblr com/chai-spiciest/seriously-asking-myself-how-these-women-can-live/a8f6z1tpubno

cant see it, someone screenshot for me plz

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I am losing it at this image on Wikipedia for static electricity

look at that Expression Of Resignation To Fate

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it's so funny when people try to act like porn has always been a natural and healthy part of human sexuality and the evidence they give is like. a renaissance painting or statue of a naked woman. as if that's equivalent to a constant stream of "tiny teen slut forced incest gangbang bbc bukkake 4000hd" easily accessable to every child with a computer or phone.

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