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What a masterclass of D&D combat from the players and the DM.

Brennan did such a good job of making the combat engaging and dynamic. He juggled so many plates and kept his cards close to his chest regarding aspects no one was aware of until near the end.

The Bad Kids maximized their effectiveness and importantly, they stayed on top of their HP better than they ever have before.

Adaine did some really great spellcasting plus the exploding mephits. Her Bigby’s Hand (or whatever it’s called) dealt solid damage and using it as a bonus action after casting is great. Really helped whittle down the purple worm’s massive HP.

Gorgug took all the punishment from a CR 15 purple worm and beat it after already fighting other monsters. Zac was in crit city this episode and he needed to me to beat that fucker.

Fig got to smite and used Booming Blade and spirit guardians to fuck up enemies basically doubling (sometimes more) her damage output every round (Really effective against the swarms.) and she 1v1ed a Wyvern, which is only a CR 6 but she also had other monsters after her because was disguised as Gaven. Really the mix of hexblade, paladin and bard stuff she did was cool. (Bonus action heals were good.)

Fabian as sort of a floating fighter, getting into the mix and fighting monsters wherever needed was so helpful and his flourishes and using his spell slots for his magical sword were great. He didn’t necessarily get the biggest moments this fight but he was integral and they’d have sorely missed him because he killed a lot of creatures. Not to mention the Hangman’s breath and bite attacks.

Riz doing peak rogue shit with haste and coming in clutch sniping monsters. Saving Gavin’s life, being able to ready an action to shoot from hiding and just all the sneak attack goodness. Plus Murph was so good about the test parts. He and Riz both seem to really thrive in stressful situations.

And Kristen who took her role as the primary healer so seriously it kept everyone up and banished a monster for good. Ally has been far more diligent about using Kristen’s abilities this season and it’s been such a big help. Plus truesight wrecked Killerpally’s plot to fuck them.

And they did all of this while answering timed test questions. This is the best they’ve ever played from a technical standpoint. Bill Seacaster would be proud they took his afterschool lessons to heart.

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Herb's Properties

Basil:  money, luck, prosperity, happiness

Bay Leaf: energy, cleansing, can be charged with almost any intention

Camomile: Caring, kindness, luck, growth, self-love growth, confidence, avoiding negativity, happiness

Cinnamon: passion, quick success, fire magick

Chia seeds: Growth, health, kindness, Property

Chilli flakes:  Pride, confidence, power, strength, Passion

Cumin: Courage, bravery, protection, loyalty

Dandelion: wishes, charisma, success, good luck

Dill: sexual love, luck, protection

Eucalyptus: cleansing, healing, purifying, relaxing, comfort

Fennel:  hate, anger

Flax seeds: Prosperity, growth, new beginnings

Ginger: fiery passion, success, and personal power

Jasmine: love, dreams, sensuality, luxury and kindness

Lavender: love and attraction, purification, relaxation, restful sleep

Nutmeg: luck, Health, Fidelity, Love, Prosperity, comfort, loyalty

Oregano:  comfort, love, warmth

Paprika:  Pride, confidence, power, strength

Parsley: Cleansing. purification

Peppermint: healing, purification, love and energy, cleansing, prosperity

Poppy seeds: protection, intuition, self-assurance, hexing and cursing

Rose: love, beauty, harmony, romance, attraction

Rosemary: cleansing, purification, wisdom, protection

Sesame seeds: Prosperity, growth, health, nurturing

Spearmint: love, cleansing, renewal, blessing

Sunflower seeds: happiness, growth, joy

Thyme: beauty, strength, courage

Turmeric: confidence, creativity, energy

Vanilla: love and sexuality

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Pseudomemories

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What Are Pseudomemories?

Pseudomemories are memories that an alter holds that the body hasn’t experienced. They may be positive or negative memories, and are most commonly seen in introjects, though any alter can have them.

Are They Real?

Both yes and no. These memories are very real to the alter who holds them. It’s important to keep that in mind. They can cause that alter serious and very real pain and trauma symptoms (if negative), or very real comfort (if positive). They are a part of that alter and help make them who they are. Their memories are extremely real to them, and you shouldn’t discredit their experiences.

Their memories are also created by the body’s brain, and therefore are going to be connected in some way to the body and its experiences. They might not be directly what the body has experienced, but like all things alter-y, they do serve to hold some form or trauma or to provide some system comfort or help the system or that alter in some way

However, the body hasn’t necessarily experienced these things. An alter should be aware that their memories, while very real to them, do not apply to the body, and when talking about them, should be able to make that distinction.

What If They Can’t Make That Distinction?

Some alters may not be able to make that distinction, but it’s not your place to get on them for that. You might try to explain it once, but if the alter doesn’t grasp it, leave it alone. That’s a job and thing that should be approached gently and cautiously over time with a professional who knows them and their system.

What Do I Do If I Have Pseudomemories?

If you have pseudomemories, then you should try your best to remember that they are very real to you, and your memories, experiences, and self are valid. If possible, try to find that distinction between your memories and body memories. If you can’t, then that’s alright, too.

If you have negative, trauma-infused pseudomemories, (also called pseudotrauma or exotrauma) then you’re probably going to have some trauma symptoms like PTSD, triggers, flashbacks, etc. try your best to learn healthy coping mechanisms, grounding steps, good people to contact if you need help, and other ways that help you manage those symptoms. I know that personally, I like to talk to a system caretaker or emotional supporter, or write out what I’m remembering or experiencing in a personal, private journal.

If you have positive pseudomemories, then feel free to use them when you’re feeling down as a way to cheer you up, or use them to find comfort and happiness in.

Either way, I would recommend trying to find a therapist or other mental health professional. If that’s currently not a possibility for you, then do your best to have coping mechanisms, and treat them as your own memories and trauma, because that’s essentially what they are. If you’re having a difficult time with them, then try talking to someone or writing them down somewhere. No matter what, know that they don’t make you a faker or invalid in any way.

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Black movies that are not about trauma, slavery, or being accepted by white people >>>>>>

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I hope you don't mind this question, but what should I do if one of my alters isn't asexual like the rest of us? She has been openly explicit with one of my friend's alters (who is consenting to all of this, and who cares deeply about our opinions).

I would never, absolutely never say the things she says, and it's kind of uncomfortable when she recounts her experiences to us. All of her actions have mainly been over call, she's not interested in actually hooking up with my friend, but she still flirts.

Lastly, we aren't officially diagnosed, but I'm looking to get a full diagnosis at some point.

Hey Anon,

This can be difficult to come to terms with, but I would encourage you to simply, accept that. Different alters can most certainly have different sexual orientations. It is entirely normal. If them recounting it to you makes you uncomfortable, then I suggest asking them not to recount it to you. They are, however, just as valid in their identity as you are, so if you have issue with their identity, you should bring that up with them. Overall, communicate with them, and express your discomforts, and see if you can come to a healthy compromise.

Best of luck.

#asks #asked and answered

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Don't forget about the Palestinians.

Don't forget about them now.

Don't forget about them tomorrow.

Don't forget about them in a week from now.

Don't forget about them in a month.

Don't forget them next year.

Don't forget them in 5 years.

When the history books start to update, don't let them put lies in there.

When documentaries come out, boycott the ones who call this a victory for Israel.

When books release talking about soldier's personal experiences with Palestine, remember the victims. Remember the truth.

Don't forget about what we've seen.

Don't forget about what we've heard.

Don't let them tell lies about Palestine.

Don't forget about the Palestinians when the world tries to make this go away.

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Her smile is so beautiful! I would love to see a smile as bright on the face of all of the children in Palestine. 🇵🇸

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to the casual observer it may look like i'm trying to summon a demon but anyone who knows me will realize that i am simply calling my wife

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How do you process grief?

by running from it until it finds me in the middle of a sunny street on a beautiful day

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poem by mosab abu toha pasted to ironwoodfarmny’s truck traveling from Ghent, NY

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People I met for a few moments that live in my head forever.

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Me: I shouldn't disturb Neil Gaiman. I shouldn't send an ask unless I really have no way of getting the information otherwise. I'll check old interviews and all the articles that vaguely mention the subject. Of course it goes without saying that I'll read though the FAQ in its entirety. Only then, will I send an ask. However, I'd be very polite and praise his work, as anyone would. I'd also keep it short, because I don't want to waste his time. But I'd keep it very very respectful. I'd be sending a message to a very talented, amazing author that deals with god knows how many like me. Or I'd just stay in the dark and not send him an ask. Yeah, I'll do that.

My Dash: