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sobbing

#HHUDSHFHDUSUUDFHS

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Relationships get so bananas when you start deciphering the other person’s love language.

Like I thought I was just acquaintances with this person because they never told me details about themselves and we just talked movies and writing . But then they made time to have coffee with me and they showed up out of breath because they ran. Like. RAN to be on time for coffee with me?

And I was like “i don’t mind waiting” cause I never want to run

But they said they wanted every minute they could get because I’m so busy usually

Which is when it clicked that I didn’t get how much they considered me a friend because I just straight away didn’t see MY signs of affection in them and went “cool! Casual buds it is.” But now that I’m seeing their signs of affection, I feel a little silly for dismissing them like that even though I felt like we could be best bros.

Anyway, some people show affection through time or intensity or commitment and not vocally. I really have to remember that!

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https://www.instagram.com/p/BemuVfAh-o4/

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The most peaceful bathroom ever…

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Note to Random People who picked up on this from Ashlesha and liked the idea of privacy:

WhatsApp is NO LONGER SECURE. Fuckers sold out to Google, and Google likes to sell information to the government. Officially the app doesn’t change hands until November, but fuck that, quit using it *now* if you’re using it for utmost privacy/secure conversations.

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https://www.instagram.com/kimmoondog/

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straight dude poets are so easy and fun to make fun of

#it's okay just say charles bukowski

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Mitski for Pitchfork // Richard Siken for TinHouse

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OH MY GOD whyyyy did no one tell me you’re supposed to send thank-yous after interviews?? Why would I do that???

“Thank you for this incredibly stressful 30 minutes that I have had to re-structure my entire day around and which will give me anxiety poos for the next 24 hours.”

I HATE ETIQUETTE IT’S THE MOST IMPOSSIBLE THING FOR ME TO LEARN WITHOUT SOMEONE DIRECTLY TELLING ME THIS SHIT

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BLOND & DANGEROUS

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Hilda Palafox aka Poni (Mexican, b. Mexico City, Mexico) - Untitled (for The Postcard Show Mexico), 2015  Paintings: Acrylics on cotton Paper

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#silent hill #my white dad!

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Rhapsody in Blue from Fantasia 2000 (dir. Eric Goldberg, 1999)

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“i am very impatient. i have difficulties to concentrate for a long time. i am often disproportionately emotional. i also have to say that i love sleeping and very much enjoy to sometimes not do anything. – which isn’t really a weakness, right?”

hanna putz photographed by thomas lohr for freunde von freunden

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