bluewithouttheclues

[bluewithouttheclues]

guys I think everything is going to be okay

#yo todo este año

[bluewithouttheclues]

Trying to figure out if you’re ace or aro can be so goddamn hard because it’s like, trying to find the absence of something. Imagine you’re at a pond and you want to know if there are any turtles, or fish. Say you find a turtle and you’re like “great! Now I know there are turtles.” Or a fish, now you know for sure there are fish. Or you find both, and now you know for a fact there are both turtles and fish in the pond.

But like, if you don’t find any turtles it might be that there are no turtles or maybe you’re just really shitty at looking for turtles and maybe you THINK you saw a turtle over there or maybe it was just a stick. Maybe there are only a few turtles. Maybe you need to do something special to find the turtles. Maybe a bunch of these rocks are actually turtles but you couldn’t tell them apart. Maybe there are no turtles. You have no idea. Meanwhile some people are saying “Oh there have to be turtles! You’ll find them eventually ;)” or “How many turtles have you found in your pond?” or “Try planting some vegetables at the shore to attract the turtles.” Or “Oh no! What disaster happened to your pond that there are no turtles?” And you’re just standing there wet with an empty net and a tired expression.

But whatever because whether there are turtles or fish or not your pond’s ecology works just fine without them because that’s what eco-communities do they form a system around what they have. You aren’t missing anything if you don’t have turtles you just have a pond system without turtles. If someone tried to change you by pouring a bunch of turtles into your pond it would probably fuck something up.

So you don’t have to be entirely sure. You don’t have to search every inch of the damn pond before you can decide there are probably no turtles. If you want to take the aro or ace label because you think it fits go for it. And if you do find your turtles you can rename the pond. That’s fine.

#that metaphor is really nice #aro #aromantic #ace #asexual #aspec

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I think we need to talk more about the scars that your 'friends' give to you.

As someone who had experienced some 'bad friendships', it's just so weird having friends that act like... real friends. Did you really texted me just to ask if I'm okay? Why did you remember that I had a test today? What do you mean you want to make plans with me?

I was talking with my best friend the other day after dance practice while we were waiting for the bus I have to take to get to my house - the bus stop is close to her house, like a 5 minute walk. I was getting worried because it seemed like all public transport had disappeared from this damn city and it was getting late for me to make it on time for lunch. Suddenly, she told me to walk a little bit because she called me an uber close to her house so i wouldn't have to wait anymore, she also reminded me to text her so she knows that I got to my house safely. I didn't even see when she used her phone.

I almost started crying right on the spot.

#friendship breakups #and the aftermath of that #friendships #friends #type of friends #blue thoughts

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JIWOONG + MATTHEW + GYUVIN ✧ Say My Name 🥣

#kim jiwoong #seok matthew #kim gyuvin #zerobaseone #zb1 #gyuvin #matthew #jiwoong

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I love the fact that Matthew has absolutely no filter (in non-malicious way!). Since Boys Planet, he gives me the feeling of being the kind of person that wears his heart on his sleeve and that it's a refreshing quality for a rookie idol. He seems really sweet with everyone but he also has this chaotic energy that makes him so endearing and funny to watch.

You just can't help but love him.

#im down horrendous #just like some of the bp trainees #i've being thinking about this since jongwoo's ig live #and today's live made it worst so i needed to write it #'our thew' excuse me sir if I start sobbing #i hope he never changes #seok matthew #zerobaseone #zerobase1 #zb1 #boysplanet #zb1 matthew

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[230425] ZB1 TWITTER UPDATE (translation cr. julyhours)

#zerobaseone #zb1 #kim jiwoong #zhang hao #sung hanbin #seok matthew #kim taerae #ricky #kim gyuvin #park gunwook #han yujin

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They're just sooo pretty

#zerobaseone #zb1 #kim jiwoong #zhang hao #sung hanbin #seok matthew #kim taerae #ricky #kim gyuvin #park gunwook #han yujin #boys planet

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#zb1 #zerobaseone #zerobase1 #zerobaseone moodboard #moodboard #kpop moodboard #kpop #kim jiwoong #jiwoong #jiwoong moodboard #jiwoong boysplanet #boysplanet

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#zerobaseone #zerobase1 #zb1 #boys planet #zerobaseone moodboard #seok matthew #seok matthew moodboard #zb1 moodboard #kpopmoodboard #moodboard #kpop

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ZEROBASE1 (ZB1) Final Lineup

— And for other contestants you guys did so well and we'll see each other again in the future ♡

#zerobase1 #zb1 #zerobaseone #zhang hao #sung hanbin #seok matthew #ricky #kim taerae #park gunwook #kim gyuvin #kim jiwoong #han yujin #boys planet

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You did it, my little sunshine, I'm so proud of you, good work.

#i was nervous for the most part of the episode #so when Minhyun called him for the rank 3 I just started crying #he really did it #however I'm heartbroken for Keita #i really wanted to see the two of them in the same group #boys planet #seok matthew #maybe the strees that this show gave me was worth it

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As someone who has had Matthew as her one-pick since the start of the show, I'm really exhausted.

#my only wish is to see my boy in the final top 9 #i didnt sign up for this shitshow #i was really happy in the first episodes because of the amount of love he was getting #now he is just the punching bag of the fanbase #boys planet

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#boys planet #seok matthew #kim jiwoong #flashing tw

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No, common misconception. You actually become asexual by beating Cupid's ass in a wrestling competition.

#asexual #mythology #it wasn't a physical fight #we played Rasputin in Just Dance #i won #now i'm aspec

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because today is international ace day, nobody is allowed to feel sexual attraction. put it away. you dont need it today.

#asexual #ace #ace pride #acespec #asexuality

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Now, I'm on EP. 12 of The Glory (2022-2023) and I have to say that the bond between miss Kang and her daughter is both beautiful and heartbreaking.

Hyeon-nam does everything for her daughter, the only light of her life, even if it means risking to go to jail or lose her own life (by the hands of her husband or Yeon-jin). On the other hand, Seon-ah supported her mother unconditionally. She is so young and she was clueless about Dong-eun's plan but she followed everything without question for the sake of her mother. When Dong-eun told her she had to leave the country, her first worry was leaving her mother alone because she knew that her father would get more violent without her in the picture. Needless to say, Seon-ah's text message and Hyeon-nam's letter broke me to pieces, I started sobbing.

The love that they have for each other is so strong and deep that if you compare them to Dong-eun and her mother... it's like a punch to the gut.

#kang hyeon nam #lee seon ah #moon dong eun #jung mi hee #the glory #the glory netflix #kdrama

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commits medical malpractice comes home to cook dinner for his girl displays behaviour is insane he really said malewife maliciousness malpractice! 10/10 character

#the glory #moon dong eun #joo yeo jung #joo yeo jeong #dong eun x yeo jeong #the glory netflix #kdrama