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Out of 354 responses:

Alex

Oliver and Leo

Noah, Finn, Isaac, Max, Mason, and Jack

Some other common names include:

Noah

Elijah

James

Ace

Gabriel

Ray

Michael

Aster

August

Poll

This idea came to me five minutes ago. I am on a hunt to find the most common trans guy name. Even if you don’t have a common name, please submit if you are comfortable! (i’m looking for middle names and might take inspiration lmao)

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#i thought lee would be more common #also thought the -aiden/-ayden thing would be more common #not surprised at all that alex one though

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Poll

This idea came to me five minutes ago. I am on a hunt to find the most common trans guy name. Even if you don’t have a common name, please submit if you are comfortable! (i’m looking for middle names and might take inspiration lmao)

And, of course, all responses are completely anonymous!

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Poll

This idea came to me five minutes ago. I am on a hunt to find the most common trans guy name. Even if you don’t have a common name, please submit if you are comfortable! (i’m looking for middle names and might take inspiration lmao)

And, of course, all responses are completely anonymous!

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#i don’t know how long i’m gonna wait #we’ll see #lgbt #transgender #lgbtq #queer #transmasc #trans #ftm #trans guy #trans boy #trans man

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I’ve had quite a weird gender journey throughout my life so far. I won’t go into the details but I’ve socially transitioned at a point, been pressured by family to detransition, detransitioned. Have felt at points comfortable with femininity or being a girl and at points have very strongly felt uncomfortable with those things. It has been wild. Anywho in my head I’ve identified as nonbinary for over two years now. Feel very euphoric being perceived/looking andro and masc, and have some dysphoria but not much/debilitating (can be very uncomfortable with my chest in public but can look in the mirror in private and feel neutral for example)

anywho, I started coming out to close friends and my gf over the past month but holllly shit. I think coming out opened a Pandora’s box of stuff, and I feel much more dysphoric. I also yearn so so much more to look masculine. Like I know I want top surgery and have for a while but now I have a strange want to maybe go on T. This is rlly scary for me, my girlfriend is a lesbian and we’ve been together very happily for two years now. She accepts me as nonbinary but what if my transition ‘wants’ go too far?? What if this is a phase? I simultaneously hope it is and isn’t. I hope it is so I don’t have to potentially lose a relationship and deal with possible social rejection for very publically transitioning. On the other hand I hope it isn’t because it’s scary to think that a feeling so strong could just go away. Like if it could just go away could it just come back again?? What if it came back much later in life where I’m more settled and it would be more of a pain in the ass to transition? I feel kinda scared. I want to look like a man so badly these days.

has anyone else’s experienced this pandora box phenomenon? Does anyone else feel anxious about how being trans might impact a long term relationship?? I guess I’m just looking for comfort in other peoples shared experiences. Thanks for reading my anon

being trans can definitely impact relationships, especially romantic ones. that’s something i struggled to accept when i first came to terms with it.

i hope that this doesn’t cause many problems for you, however, and hope your girlfriend is able to support you.

best of luck!

#trans #ftm #transmasc #trans boy #trans man #trans guy #queer #lgbtq #lgbt #transgender

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the transmasc experience is sitting outside the bra store at the mall while all your girl friends go inside

#shitposting #this can’t just be me right #anyways i’m back sorry i was gone

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my dad is transphobic. He found my chest binder and LITERALLY BURNED IT. No joke.

burned?? that’s really harsh, and i’m so so sorry that you have family that don’t support you.

#transgender #lgbt #queer #trans boy #ftm #trans guy #trans #lgbtq #trans man #transmasc

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school gym class. you are transgender.

#it killed my relationship with exercise i think #lgbt #lgbtq #queer #transmasc #trans boy #trans man #ftm #trans #transgender #trans guy

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GIVE ME THE BOY HORMONES RAHHHHH!!

RAHHHHHHH

#anon i am screaming right along with you #trans #transmasc #trans guy #ftm #trans boy #trans man #lgbtq #transgender #lgbt #queer

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I’m glad I already have broad shoulders and am tall. Now all I need is to get rid of my curvy hips and my boobs.

i wish i was tall! (5’3”)

how tall are you?

#lgbt #lgbtq #queer #transmasc #trans boy #trans man #ftm #trans #trans guy #transgender

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I wish I got into a freak accident that ended up making the doctors have to chop off my boobs

i saw a comic somewhere about something similar to this but can’t seem to find it.

either way, you’re not alone in feeling like this

#i sound like a guidance counselor help #i don’t know what to say WITHOUT encouraging freak accidents 😭 #trans #ftm #transmasc #trans guy #trans man #trans boy #lgbtq #transgender #queer #lgbt

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it’s 80 degrees out.

guess who took off his hoodie today? not me lmao i was overheated as fuck

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Wore a binder + jeans + boots + baggy shirt (with my newly short hair) to easter at some of my family's house and never felt more confident:)

that’s awesome! i’m glad that you’re happy with your appearance!

#trans #ftm #trans guy #trans boy #transmasc #trans man #lgbtq #transgender #lgbt #queer

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The most traumatizing experience relating to my transness is...well, sad. I've been coming out multiple times, (never a good sign), and nothing has changed. One day, full of emotion, I screamed my transness to my parents. That's when I heard those words. "I don't believe in transgender". I don't know if you've heard a trans person wail in agony, but...yeah. Anyways, just know, that you all are loved, by me. I'm your new dad. I am Mexican. We are having tamales.

i’m so incredibly sorry that you weren’t accepted by your family. sometimes family hurts more than helps, doesn’t it? while it is scarily common for queer people to be rejected by their families, there is a whole community of people out there.

i wish you the best of luck and healing, anon.

#transmasc #ftm #trans #trans guy #trans man #trans boy #lgbtq #transgender #lgbt #queer

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Wanting top surgery but finding out just how expensive it is really kills my will to live Rn tbh. I know this'll pass, the feeling, but it's just horrible. Why does money have to keep me from being me? These things on my chest are a useless dead weight that make me severely uncomfortable at vest and make me wanna multilate myself at worst.

trans healthcare is notoriously difficult to access, and i totally feel for you and everyone out there who is struggling to access the care they need.

best of luck, anon!

#transmasc #trans #ftm #trans boy #trans man #queer #trans guy #transgender #lgbtq #lgbt

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for the song thing, villain by teriwoha is canonically a transmasc song and for me personally, abnormality dancing girl has always been such a trans coded song for any form on uncissness -- like if you read the lyrics through a genderqueer lens it fits super duper well

i’ll have to check it out, thanks for the recommendation!

#trans #ftm #trans guy #transmasc #trans boy #trans man #queer #lgbtq #transgender #lgbt

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People are starting shit about transmasc/trans man lesbians and honestly wish that they’d stop harassing the trans men that say they’re personally uncomfortable with lesbians trying to date them because personally THEY feel invalidated but they also don’t care WHO identifies as what. Because as a mostly gay trans man I don’t feel comfortable with it but I also don’t care what others do, just please don’t yell at me lesbians are awesome

yeah, i don’t really understand all the infighting in the queer community over who’s identity is valid enough. at best it is useless and it’s often hurtful

thanks for saying this! identity is complicated!

#lgbt #trans #trans guy #trans boy #trans man #ftm #transmasc #transgender #queer #lgbtq

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Update

hey guys! sorry for turning asks off, i was very busy this past week and my inbox got too full for me to manage. don’t worry, i’m definitely getting through them slowly (but surely), and i’ll be opening up my askbox again right after i make this post.

also, since this is my blog and i can technically do what i want with it, do any of y’all like will wood? if so, my friend is running a will wood song tournament at @soggytapeworm

#i’ve heard will wood is popular with the transgenders