#I literally wear it every day and idk

[alanvents]

Tw: Surgery, Scoliosis, binding

Can you wear a binder after spine surgery?

Like ofc not right after cause you need healing time but after that can you keep binding? Would I have to stop doing it all together?

Idk how binding works when there’s a metal pole in your back correcting your scoliosis

#tw scoliosis #tw surgery #tw binding #question #fr #idk #I’m panicking #I literally wear it every day and idk #I’m not out so I have nobody to talk 2about it #and whenever I try to make a real Reddit post asking I can never find the words and just can’t post it cause idk #I’m not good at this but I’m scared wtf #I use gc2b #btw #incase that matters idk #I’m getting surgery (hopefully this summer) #for #scoliosis #any help appreciated #medical #stuff idk anything abt

[raiiny-bay]

the boys, 80s-ified

#another day. another AU #finding decent 80s cc was significantly harder than i thought it would be btw #let it be known that dhes' hair is supposed to be much bigger than it is #i just couldn't find a hair that matched what i was envisioning #i might still change their outfits here & there but they're ok for now #i do have 5 other kids to dress so. #this AU was not my idea for the record. it is a collab AU #hi wren lol #definitely one of my favorite AUs that the boys have been in so far #love to put the boys in Situations #rainyrambles #dhestyn #kelly #idk why i used the boys' full names for their tags #literally every other one of my ocs' tags are their nicknames. why did i do that #ngl dhes' outfit just looks like something canon dhes would wear lol

[phantom-does-a-thing]

bestie ik this is random but im having a fashion crisis (god that sounds so cheesy) and methinks your style fucks, gender as hell, literal goals etc etc.. soooooo whats your secret, do you have tips, how are you so swag, whats your inspo, how do u find/do stuff, please, looking at u w my big eyes, im so swagless

HUH??? respectfully my beloved: WHAT? I'm so bad at putting together good outfits I literally wear like the same rotation of like 5 articles of clothing or 2 fancier outfits :sob: I have like three to four pairs of pants that I rotate wearing and like a few shirts that I wear. I am very bad at style or clothing choices. I guess like the most significant thing is that I customize a lot of my clothing??? Like my bitb and other jrwi shirt I both made myself, I have another shirt that I embroidered a design on, and my two sweatshirts I customized but that's really the entire secret. I just make my clothes look cool myself and then they become a Safe Item(TM) and I wear it constantly. Like I probably wear my jrwi/bitb shirt at least once a week (I had to stop myself from wearing the jrwi shirt today bc im like I need to do a new outfit).

Like my main two outfits that I enjoy wearing is my cargo pants + either my bleached bitb shirt or my other jrwi shirt. And I wear that whenever possible. I just wear whatever is comfortable imma be so fr :sob: and those are my most comfortable items. Plus my patch sweatshirt. It's really just 90% of stuff that I've customized myself.

#its the neruodivergent allegations /j #but I literally wear the same thing every day #im VERY bad at actually looking good or having anything thats stylish #I mean I get a lot of my clothes from the thrift store for cheap and then customize it myself #so idk :sob: #maybe I should see if I can get more cargo pants somewhere #the thrifft store might have that #I love baggy pants #my inspo is tbh more punk style fashion idk I kinda just do whatever #I think its saying something that my two favorite shirts are my riptide and bleached bloodin the bayou shirt #and it says something else that I have to literally stop myself from wearing it every other day #those would be the only shirts that I wore if I had a say in it #rambling #phever dreams with phantom #asks #mutuals

[stuck-in-the-ghost-zone]

i love when soul wears a little headband

#man. i miss headbands. i used to wear them LITERALLY every day when i was little. had a whole basket od them and everything #and then i stopped and now i have like. a cheap one to keep my hair back when im washing my face #and i miss them !!!!!! the length my hair is kow they make it stick up and out in all kinds of fun ways #but i have always associated them as like. Girl Things. #man idk. im bored my painting is looking bad and its sooo frustrating #ebery day i am fascinated by the transgender experience (me) #reaction time #kinda. i guess

[daz4i]

at a point of my depression where the only upside of going outside is that when i come back i have the momentum to take a shower and it saves me having to shower before bed when it's way harder and very draining to get to it

#i really don't like going outside man 😔 it's bad #i don't get how it's supposed to make my mental health better when i need like a week to recover every time #and ik i said it before but it doesn't get better the more i do it!!!! it gets even worse!!!!! #i have a bad time at home too but being outside is so much worse on literally every level #esp these days when my pains are worse and I'm constantly nauseous and wearing a bra makes it practically unbearable #vent #i guess. #bro my mental health is in such a steep decline in the last month or two 😭😭😭 #maybe it's just seasonal depression idk... :/ but that's still bad. bc summer is like half a year over here man it's so fucking hot.

[sleepygaymerdisease]

im trying to respond to people on my post who have questions or are confused but theres just so many 😭 i dont know how to explain the intricacies of classism or how hard it is to get a lawyer to start and WIN a discrimination case. especially since i dont know australian laws. but like... this behavior, denying someone a job for their outfit, is really common across the world. classism is pervasive and it's dangerous and it costs people their lives. we would have to change the capitalist system, change policies across the globe, and work on our internalized classist beliefs for the rest of our lives.

#i think a lot of people are sharing the post in shock and horror. not knowing that this happens to people every day. which is really sad. #like. this is an issue that is literally ignored and swept under the rug. to the point where people dont think about it. even though like. #when you hear about Interview/Business Culture you know you have to dress well. everyone knows that's like step 1. but people havent #actually stopped and asked what the purpose of that is or what that means. people haven't considered what happens if you break that rule. or #why that rule is there at all... emily gwen said that they can't afford new clothing. and couldnt get the words out in the moment. but like. #imagine this from the interviewer's perspective. she saw someone who was 'unprofessional' because of their clothing. and that's fucked up! #WE know the situation because of their post. but they shouldnt need to justify their attire like that to get a damn job. we dont need to #know someones circumstances to treat them like a person. and i want everyone to really think about this. how many times in your life have #you seen someone with worn out clothes. dirty clothes. clothes with holes in them. clothes that are 'too casual' for their setting. and how #have you treated those people? how have you thought about them? and think about this in media. how many people with bad clothes are seen as #irresponsible? or treated like shit? this happens every day. and it's not australia specific or america specific either. it's everywhere. #so please show others compassion. this experience is traumatic and alienating. it's hard to reach out. its embarassing to talk about. #and it's even harder to get legal defense for this stuff. you need money and you need solid proof. oftentimes people have neither. #other things to consider clothing-wise: clothes that dont fit. too big or too small. modified outfits. clothes that dont match the weather #(like wearing a sweater in the summer or thin shirts/shorts in the winter). like. these are things people judge all the time idk. #what happened to emily was horrific. but it's not new and youre not immune to thinking the same way. #anis gaymer moments

[the-doggy-diaries]

hello everyone i am moving back in with my parents after living away from them for nine months ... they are absolutely insane to me i have already had really shitty stuff happen and we have not even picked up my stuff from my house ... but at least i will be living rent free and i will be able to save up and try again

#tw-> #i have been having a very hard time the past month i have been looking on sites for housing every single day and reaching out #but every single one has fell through #and they are almost all way out of my budget as i am a minimum wage worker #and i switched jobs at the beginning of december in hopes for more hours and a better work environment but it has been so much worse #i have only worked like four days this entire month #i have cried multiple times a day and every day this entire month #and i know it is going to be bad moving back in with my parents but i literally do not have any other options #i had a full scale autistic meltdown in the car with my mom the other day #i had not had one like that in over a year maybe multiple years #i hit my head so hard so many times and she just got more mad at me and told me how much of a toddler i was acting like #which is a huge huge trigger for me #lolll lollllll idk what to do!!!!! #they don't call me my chosen name here they don't respect my gender they don't like my piercings and have not even seen my tattoos #goddddddd this is so awful guys 😭 #but at the very least i will not be in a house where my toes are numb even with the heater on under multiple blankets wearing socks #and there will always be food in the pantry #and i will not have to deal with drugs and felons in the house #i am hoping i can use this as a total restart #we will see...pray for me LOLL

[dogcollarpunk]

the punk shorts r so so comfy I should stop wearing them 24/7 tho

#beef trimmings #me day 1: hm idk if I like the texture #me; a month later: these are fused to my skin now #they r like my Go To At Home pants now #theyre just SO COMFY and perfect length and comfy and they make me happy ugh #theyll wear out quicker with the amount im wearing them tho sljkdfs #Literally almost every day #I'd wear them to class if I could. I'd wear them all the time forever #ALSO THEY HAVE POCKETS I CAN SHOVE MY PHONE INTO THE BUTT POCKET THATS ALL IN EED FROM PANTS UGH #some of my pj pants dont have pockets including the original gym shorts I was lounging around in like #!!!!

[skrunksthatwunk]

I'm so sorry i think I'm gonna end up babygirling raskolnikov. look at this shit he's just like me fr

#crime and punishment #resumed reading it #this whole paragraph is very relatable but like. cmon. he's got the feist he's got the gnarly. idk what im saying #this literally happens to me every day when i walk in a loud crowd of people. thats why i wear masks still actually. it's like a muzzle #i would bite ppl otherwise. just like raskolnikov #i like him so much he's so silly in that depressed pathetic classic lit protag man kinda way #im enjoying it but i did have to skim sparknotes bc i couldnt remember ppl's names (its been a month-ish) #he would do numbers on tumblr

[boyheros]

Like. What are natural instances in which you may catch a glimpse of someone else's midriff. I'm trying to script the moment where Reo realizes Maverick doesn't have a fucking bellybutton but Ricky wears his shirt tucked in and also wears the same thing every day so chances of accidental reveal are slimmer than usual. I mean it's my story and my characters so I can do anything forever but...

#i was planning maybe. after Reo realizes Maverick wears literally the same 2-3 sets of clothes every day he attemps to take him shopping #and idk maybe something happens then. either a sweatshirt removal mishap (those always take ur fucking shirt with and show midriff) #OR. idk someone puts maverick in a cropped shirt and reo is like. um. maybe not for you...... #phx news #mvrckposting

[fingertipsmp3]

Job interview in 2 hours

#i slept so bad bro i hate it heeeere #i put together a good outfit at least but i can’t find my blazer. it’s GONE #i was googling questions to ask interviewers and i fucking hate that whole concept tbh #like why can’t i just say ‘no i’m good’ what’s the reason #i am going to ask what the ideal candidate for the role would look like & what challenges people normally face in the role #also maybe training and progression? idk #if the interviewers seem like they will be receptive to personal questionsi will also ask how long they’ve worked there and what they like #about their jobs/the culture of the working environment #other than that? idk. literally what can i ask #i wish i could find my blazer. the sweater i picked out is too tight and makes my arms look crazy #i can’t wear my cardigan that i wear every day because it’s pilling and there is definitely a stain somewhere on it #i love that cardigan though. #i know the dress code will probably not be crazy strict at this place but i’m not relaxing until i get the job. IF i get it #if i don’t get it… well. we proceed. we move #personal

[lfcrobbo]

my hair looks. so good today? what's up with that

#probably i'm just. not used to wearing it like this and it feels fresh. idk #i literally have the same hairstyle every single day (hair pulled back into a low bun) but today is a messy ponytail kind of day... #and im loving it✌️ #marth.txt

[nightcrawlerzincorporated]

Every year I watch The Gang Squashes Their Beefs and every year I am reminded of when I had to wear a flesh colored eyepatch exactly like Liam’s. I honestly don’t know if that makes me like the episode more or less

#to be clear I have both my eyes #but I have that Autism Lazy Eye #so to try and correct it I had to wear an eyepatch every day for most of my childhood #it kind of worked? if I’m paying attention to something I can focus with both eyes #but the second I zone out my lazy eye goes byeeeee #I also wanted to embrace it and get a black eye patch like a pirate just like Dennis says #but the doc and my mom said the flesh color made people more comfortable #it did NOT #literally like in the ep it just weirded people out #idk if anyone like… cares at all about what it’s like to have to wear a flesh colored eye patch lol #but if you do #⭐️

[zarovich]

can never take good pictures of myself, i always look angry or bored in all of them but that's literally just how my face is -_-

#personal #i mean. i dont mind i like my face and the pictures i took but well. i literally look like this 😐 or 😠 in every pic #can already hear my older family members saying oh a smile wont kill you 😀 #anyways. i did my makeup for fun. idk actually felt like it even tho wearing makeup aint my thing tbh but its fun doing it #im actually kinda aware of my surroundings today yippeee idont remember the last few days was on autopilot

[bloodykora]

I try not to reminisce on the past but I was looking for a photo you took of me months ago. And I just.

How could you be so kind and nice to me at the start but the last thing you said to me was go to hell. I want to be mad, that's the easy part but I just.

On the 8th you told me you missed me and 6 days later you called me volatile and apathetic. You were supposed to be here for my birthday and you didn't even make it to the month. Anyways.

#i was writing last night just to get it out and i almost started sobbing #all the things i sacrificed and gave #and i didnt tell him because thats what you do in a relationship #give and take #and its not 50/50 every second #even after the breakup i gave and sacrificed #sacrificed my mental health for updates on how school was for him #idk #i knew all my good feeling and confidence was gonna crash down again but #you literally told me on the 12th you could see my beauty under the makeup i was wearing that day #maybe im not #idk sorry yall

[braingoburr]

When you're not superstitious but you grew up around people where where.

HELP.

#I'm probably looking too deep #butji was having issues woth a friend. and i have a necklace they gave to me. that I wear literally every day. #like we whernt really tapkit to eatch other. #kinda just felt liek we where separating and i was having breakdowns over this bc i love them so much #then we had one night where we could hang and we talked a little bit amd made up. #and the necklace broke. #and idk how to feel about that. #like rn I'm trying to fix it. nit idk of i should #i feel that has some meaning #but also could have just been a coincidence #AAAAAAAAAAH