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askundeadbluelesbians · 2 months
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wait what did the last artist do??? I really loved their art
To make a long story short, they are a Zionist.
You can read more about that here.
(Uh, I was gonna post a link to the post in question, but for some reason, it seems to be gone. Not in my drafts. Not in my archive. Not anywhere. And this was on my main blog too. Anyway, here's the screencap of an early draft for my statement)
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system-comforts · 9 months
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If you're comfortable doing so, could you explain the different origins of plurality a little? We were under the impression that to be disordered we had to be trauma based and then similarly that if we didn't have significant childhood trauma we had to be endo and then someone told us that's not how it works and we're very confused by terms that everyone seems to just understand. Sorry
It's alright! There are a lot of terms in the community. It can be intimidating when you first see them. We'll explain a bit about the specifics of your question. We won't list every possible origin (as there are many new terms even we aren't entirely familiar with), but we will give the basics we know. Italicized parts are highlighted points. And of course, this is largely based on our experiences: in the community, talking with professionals, etc. We encourage you to talk to systems of all types to get a better idea about more specific labels.
Disordered plurality does not always equal trauma based plurality. When people used the word disordered, they mean, "does this cause distress in my life?" For some, plurality itself causes distress. Frequent switches, internal fights, etc can cause distress. For other systems, other symptoms associated with their plurality cause distress. Maybe they have a depressed headmate, or they have amnesia between switches, or maybe headmates remember trauma and have symptoms from it. Disordered systems experience negative aspects of plurality, and in many cases want to make changes to fix them. A non disordered system would experience few negative aspects, or might feel they experience a lot of positive things from their plurality. Those positives might outweigh the bad. Maybe they feel much less lonely, or their system communicates well, maybe they've processed trauma and feel better equip to handle bad memories and tough situations.
Whether a system calls themselves disordered or not disordered is up to them. Only they can judge whether their plurality and other symptoms are interfering in their daily life. In their school, home, work life, etc.
It is difficult to judge how severe someone's trauma is. Traumas vary from singular ones to multiple, daily traumas to single event ones, traumas that occurred in childhood, teen years, adulthood-- and this still doesn't mention the different types of trauma, from physical traumas to war and community violence, to sexual trauma or medical.
Importantly, no stranger on the internet can tell you if your trauma was/wasn't severe enough to cause any sort of disorder, much less something like DID, OSDD, or disordered plurality. They don't know what it was like to experience that trauma as you, and they don't know what's been going on in your mind. Some people may tell you your trauma wasn't "severe" enough, that you must be endogenic if you don't have enough or don't remember any trauma. Those people are invalidating, and the problem lies with them, not you. If you'd like to explore your past and potential trauma history, speak to a professional about it. Find a trauma and/or dissociative disorders specialist (depending on if you seek to pursue DID/OSDD diagnosis or treatment).
As a final summary, the label traumagenic means a system created through trauma. A traumagenic system might be diagnosed with DID, OSDD, or a similar diagnosis, but this isn't always the case. Although traumagenic systems might be disordered, others may be non disordered, especially after working through and processing trauma.
An endogenic system is a system not caused by trauma. As such, this label can be fairly broad. Although an endogenic system might not be caused by trauma, the system may still be disordered. Members might not get along, and further negative symptoms might come up. -genic labels describe how a system formed, whereas a disordered label describes how a system's plurality affects them in positive or negative ways.
Deciding what label, if any, best suites you is up to you op. You know your situation better than anyone else, and it's important the label you choose feels helpful to you. Be it for finding community, making sense of your plurality, or having helpful vocabulary. We wish you the best as you explore the plural community more. Know we're always on your side no matter what your label!
-mod venus
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eclipseclan · 1 year
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Cole = type of plant
Slaw: originates from word Salad
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celestial-daycare · 2 years
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The Collector Agere icons! They're just a liddol guy
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alloutparadise · 2 years
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So I am officially moving out to my new place on Monday! I just got done singing my new lease, and I just finished getting my electricity & water turned on Friday so I can start moving stuff in on Monday!
It’s been a long over due thing at this point but I’m so happy to finally be moving!!
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foodfantasyimagines · 2 years
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So I am officially moving out to my new place on Monday! I just got done singing my new lease, and I just finished getting my electricity & water turned on Friday so I can start moving stuff in on Monday!
It’s been a long over due thing at this point but I’m so happy to finally be moving!!
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themermaidriot · 1 month
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When the Day meet the Night
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shelovesplants · 4 months
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These scallop shell gauges, are giving off Venus vibes🐚🩷✨️
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lynzishell · 3 months
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Prev // Next
Transcript:
Spencer: [squealing] Asses!!!
Atlas: Ahh bonjour mon petit ourse! Spencer: Raaawwr!!! Atlas: RAAWWWRRR!!
Asher: [laughs] That would be Spencer. Dawn: Does he always talk to her in French? Asher: Just a little bit here and there. She loves it. Dawn: Cute. Asher: Yeah, it is.
Spencer: Eevuh! Atlas: Livre? Hmm. Spencer: Peeeas?
Atlas: Ok, let’s go pick one.
Asher: I’m afraid we’ve lost him for the day. Come on, my mom’s probably out here.
Megan: Hi sweetie. Asher: Hi mom.
Asher: This is Dawn, Atlas’s sister. Megan: Oh Dawn, I’m so glad you’re here, it’s great to finally meet you. Dawn: Thank you, it’s wonderful to meet you too, Mrs. Goode. Asher: Doctor. Megan: No need for formalities. Please, call me Megan.
Asher: I was gonna show her the spot out back where Ally got married. Megan: Of course, yeah, I’ll join you.
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a-dream-seeking-light · 6 months
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kaminosekkei : No. 459: PUNKGANG. Photo by @louis_browne model: @johnnyvenus
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snackugaki · 1 year
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.... i need a simpler way to draw the bay turtles whathefuck
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askundeadbluelesbians · 4 months
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Some News:
The final two posts of the December will be released next month! We have both hit some personal hurdles on our end (Haven especially), so they need some more time for those last two posts. I know I typically split the batches in even halves in these cases, but I just wanted to share the happy news that is DamiOz’s engagement!
I couldn't even find a suitable picture to use for the Winter Hiatus this time around. Apologies. After those last two posts, we'll be back in February!
And as for Writing Undead Blue Lesbians… that will be a server-only event this year. Again, apologies.
Regardless, hope you all enjoy 2024, and are looking forward to Phase Seven!
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system-comforts · 6 months
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hi! we usually arent answered on these sort of blogs, so we're hoping we can get an answer here. i know "median" is usually an endo system term, however we're traumagenic... and i wouldnt say we all act the EXACT same, but pretty similar. is that a possibilty in traumagenic systems? also is it normal for our host not being able to access headspace... at all?? is there a way to actually get there easier? because our gatekeepers can pull any of us in either. only push us out. i (the host, actually.) can be able to like "sense" or "feel" what i look like and what my headmates look like without actually seeing them, too. im sorry if it seems like im asking a lot of questions, im just looking for answers because lookin them up doesnt seem to help... thank you!
Hi there anon. I want to first clarify that median is not an endogenic system exclusive term. Median describes a point on the broad spectrum of plurality that is between plural/multiple (completely separate mental beings) and being a singlet with only 1 sense of self and personhood. In this way, it describes an aspect of a system unrelated to a system's origin. So again, you are free to use that term regardless of origin, especially if that term is helpful to you.
Regarding access to headspace, there are many systems that find it hard to access and stay in their headspace. Some don't even have one, or develop one slowly over time. So I think it is a common problem. I have heard many hosts say this as well, likely because they spend more time at front as hosts.
For your last question, I also think it's common to sense or feel or know what headmates look like without actually "seeing" them. Some headmates can impose images, send feelings and thoughts, to other headmates, and in that way communicate their appearance. In our own experience, our headmates have colors and feelings associated with them. Just like seeing a certain shirt, animal, color, or toy might remind us of a friend, so too can the same happen with headmates. And of course, headmates can draw themselves, make pictures, etc to express their appearance too.
Questions are always welcome. We hope this clarified some things for you, and that you can work things out with some new ideas in mind. Best wishes.
-mod venus
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eclipseclan · 11 months
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We're still here stuff's been busy for us all but we're still planning on reviewing :3
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celestial-daycare · 2 years
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Self-indulgent Aubrey CG icons!
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We're participating in @bunnelbaby Buntravaganza! (DNI banner also made by her!)
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askthesolarballsss · 8 months
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Wait a minute so space therapy doesn't exist yet?... *sighs*
fine, I'll do it myself.
*whips out an entire therapist's office somehow do not question my methods*
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Hello planets what seems to be the problem today :33333
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