#cw forced coming out

[barrowsteeth]

Lee Pace, on his coming out profile in The NY Times, Heartstopper, and Kit Connor’s forced outing @ Vulture Magazine

#lee pace #kit connor #heartstopper #heartstopper cast #'he'll choose to reveal himself in the work he does' #<- this this this #lee pace is a national treasure #cw forced coming out

[poorlittleyaoyao]

A thing about trying to plot out QS canon-divergence fixit where the marriage is averted is that the obvious solution to “she was already pregnant before they knew the truth” is, well, end the pregnancy. The wider world doesn’t seem to know that she’d conceived prior to marriage, so can’t be more than a month or so along as of the wedding for it to be plausible. People have been inducing abortion in dire circumstances despite physical risk and moral stigma throughout history. QS has magic at her disposal and the means to remove herself from society unnoticed during the recovery period, and even if it’s taboo, is it more taboo than incest?

#tfw when the text’s misogyny results in everyone operating on post-Roe Texas logic #*post-Dobbs rather #like come on JGY grew up in a brothel he would know how shit gets done #I can only see him not suggesting it if he’d witnessed someone dying from attempting to give themselves an abortion #and his panic brain was like ‘it would be Just Like That and she would DIE HORRIBLY so we must marry!’ #and even then it doesn’t explain why QS’s parents wouldn’t suggest it! #or (more distressingly yet still plausibly) pulling a Hoster Tully and forcing it #don’t mind me I woke up in the middle of the night and started pondering and now I’m grumpy #bc it’s like you either have to go FULL divergence where she and JGY never hook up at all #or you don’t give her the information until she’s already in the marriage and her options are much more limited #bc if she finds out at the same time JGY does possible outcomes either feel like a PSA about the importance of abortion access #or (if she marries someone else or otherwise sticks it out) GOP glurge about how keeping a pregnancy is always fine and good in the end #miscarriage cw #just in case

[wormswurld]

thoughts are being……..thought………….

#he’s such a girllll #GOD #pretty babygirl come home to me please #heavy breathing #i’m going to pass out #i can’t stop posting abt forced fem ollie UGH #saltburn #lgbtqia #oliver quick #saltburn posting #cattonquick #felix catton #felix x oliver #saltburn 2023 #cw forced feminization

[lilyrizzy]

i would LOVE to hear more about your forced coming out story/leaked sex tape fic idea! you’re one of my favorite authors and that trope always hits for me

(thank you anon for sending me number 54 & for OG anon's kind words!) this is another idea crafted with my lil evil genius @catofthecanals289 when we were telling each other bedtime stories on our recent holiday lol so this is 100% a joint effort from both of us

cw: very brief mention of weight loss so under cut

Okay so the idea was that Daniel fires Michael (sorry if you are a Michael stan, stop reading now maybe) after Max gets worried about how much weight Daniel loses in the 2022 season and tentatively (stubbornly) convices him that maybe Daniel should try a session with his trainer, Brad. and Daniel is like, huh this does actually feel better.

So when Daniel goes to Michael's place to tell him, obviously they have a big, big fight about it. Especially when Daniel kinda chickens out and admits that Max convinced him. He doesn't want his friend to blame him! But this obviously makes Michael more mad because lets say (for plot) that he's never been the biggest fan of Max or his relationship with Daniel. He and Daniel have been friends for years! how could Daniel chose Max over him:(

The fight escelates until Daniel is storming out angrily because Michael has some choice things to say back about how you forgetting how to drive a race car isn't my fault mate, walks home and doesn't realise he's left his phone at Michaels...

Michael however, does notice, and when it starts buzzing on his coffee table with Max texting like, how did he take it? are you okay? he sees red. Opens it to text back like, fuck you max, love from michael, but instead, just above Max's message is. A video. Of Max and Daniel. Of Daniel sucking Max's dick.

Michael doesn't know what comes over him really. He only knows that he's angry, really fucking angry when he hits the button to share it onto Daniel's twitter...

#BUT you can only see it's daniel in the video...not max #begining the age old dilema of outing fics where that is: do you come out with your boyf or do you let him fight for his life alone #90% of this idea relies on you being as skeptical as me & lorna are about michaels abilities as a trainer #and 10% on squinting at some of the logical loopholes lol #sorry not sorry! we are girls thirsty for drama #pray4yuki 2k23 #max/daniel #fic #cw: weight mention #forced outing fic

[biblionerd07]

I have a lot of gripes with the last two seasons of Shameless (and I know I’ve been complaining a lot lmao) but one of the worst offenses, to me, is the way they refused to let any of the characters acknowledge their own histories. Nothing from previous seasons was allowed to carry over, for whatever reason. And it bothered me the most with Terry Milkovich. (I’m putting this under a cut because it turned into a damn essay lol)

They defanged Terry. They turned him into comic relief and had both Ian and Mickey turning to him for advice. ADVICE???? It did Mickey’s growth through the show SUCH disservice. There was some quote from Wells (😡😡😡 a thousand curses upon his name) about how they did it on purpose because we should all laugh at homophobes to show them their views are stupid or something like that. And like, okay I guess? That is such a straight guy stance. Maybe that works when the homophobe in question is some harmless stranger who has no effect on your life and their views are like the water turning the frogs gay.

But Terry was not that kind of homophobe. Terry was a very real type, whose abuse shaped every part of who Mickey was. Turning him into comic relief made it seem like Mickey’s fear was over the top and he was just paranoid. But when Terry walked in on Ian and Mickey, he physically assaulted them and used corrective rape by proxy. Mickey’s fears were EXTREMELY founded.

That was the crux of Mickey’s character and his development! That even with all of this terror and self-loathing and abuse, he was slowly opening himself up and not only learning to give Ian his love but to accept love. Mickey’s bravery was such a key element of his character! We knew what kind of abuse he’d been subject to, so every tiny, halting step forward made us cheer for him. Turning that into comic relief was an absolute slap in the face after that journey they’d taken him on. (And they were sure as hell happy to remember it when they were getting awards from queer outlets and using it for promo, weren’t they? 😒)

Mickey’s speech before the wedding about Terry always winning was so much more hollow than it should’ve been because for some reason they wouldn’t let him talk about his worst offenses. Having Mickey talk about Terry stealing Halloween candy and Christmas presents and ignoring the rape and abuse was genuinely bizarre. (And bless Noel, who gave his everything and made that even slightly impactful.)

I liked that Mickey was extremely defeatist in that scene. That would absolutely be his mindset! For his entire life, Terry wins. Terry gets what he wants and hurts who he wants and no one stops him. Everyone around the neighborhood (and the cops) knew exactly what Terry was like. There were always other adults hanging around. And no one ever stopped him from abusing those kids. Mandy scoffs and laughs about Terry pistol-whipping Mickey. (ZERO hate to Mandy on this, because all of this is her reality too, and she didn’t even know the whole story.) No one has ever stood up for Mickey against Terry.

Until Ian. I cannot ever get the scene in the Alibi out of my head. There’s an entire bar full of people who are seeing this happening and nobody does anything. Mickey’s right back where he’s always been, on the ground under Terry’s fists, and everyone is just grabbing their drinks and getting out of the way.

But not Ian. Ian (who, it should be noted, is also still a teenager here) pulls Terry off Mickey and fights back. This is very likely the first time in Mickey’s entire life that anyone has ever defended him against Terry.

And now he’s finally supposed to be happy with Ian in such a “normal”, tangible way, and here comes Terry to take it away. Of course. Mickey can’t even be surprised by this. It’s the way the world works. He says there’s no point in trying to find a new venue until they address the root of the problem and kill Terry.

But allllll of this hinges on us as the audience remembering what Terry’s done without a refresher, because for whatever reason, they refuse to let the characters connect to their own pasts in ways that would enrich the story they’re trying to tell. It’s such bad writing and I can’t fathom any reason for it.

#shameless us #mickey milkovich #terry milkovich #Ian/mickey #abuse cw #rape mention #like genuinely his whole ‘he took our Halloween candy! he pawned our Christmas presents! he left us with child services!’ was so weird #baby he raped you by proxy and he raped your sister not by proxy #it was So! Strange! how none of the characters ever referenced the past seasons #I’m supposed to believe Ian and Mickey never once talked about how Mickey’s first (forced!) marriage was feeding into the groomzilla stuff? #and I’m supposed to believe Mickey didn’t constantly use ‘I rolled on a cartel for you!’ to get out of the doghouse? #especially this Mickey being used for comic relief??? #they’re talking about working together and they don’t bring up that they have before #they’re talking about monogamy and their past of Mickey being monogamous and Ian not never comes up????? #just bc you’re trying to be a comedy doesn’t mean you just throw the serious stuff out the window #why did Ian have friends in the other seasons and they had wedding guests but in s11 neither of them had any friends #it was just so weird!!!!! #I want to ask the writers what the hell was going on #why was lip the only one allowed to say Mandy’s name and only one time????

[gh-0-stcup]

My thing is that I just do not trust a single person who was involved in the show. It just seems like a lot of PR to fix their image and foster sympathy/goodwill/interest.

#i haven't seen compelling evidence that anybody actually tried to fight for canon (and reciprocated) destiel #just admissions that they played into the subtext #(which we already knew - that's why spn's been considered a prime example of queerbaiting since like 2011) #and non-committal statements about the pairing being compelling #edlund seemed to specifically say he wasn't censored/forced to rework due to the gay #yeah misha said the cw's homophobic and suggested the network was the barrier #but at least half of what comes out of misha's mouth is bullshit #like he also said they tried to pay him to stay bisexual #and as a result there's now a bunch of support being tossed out to the writers and some fans are talking about them like they're heroes #who valliantly fought against a homophobic network and were totally going to make dean and cas a couple #but were foiled by said network which is why the show ended with the gays being buried yet again #you see in the secret unreleased version... #and if we just let jensen make another season he won't let us down because of xyz vague statements #nevermind that he made a new show where cas was also never mentioned - cw censorship #nevermind the straightwashed version of soldier boy he's playing - that's kripke's fault #nevermind the statements he's made in the past about destiel and dean's sexuality - he's changed his mind #you can tell because he's said it's okay for fans to have their own interpretations about the series #idk maybe i'm too cynical and i'm being unfair #there's just too much vagueness from pretty much everybody for me to put faith in their intentions #especially if they are seriously considering attempting to revive the series - this sort of thing is great for drumming up interest #the writers being censored by homophobic execs is a familiar narrative ofc - but i don't see anything solid to suggest this is what happened #and it's not like there weren't queer relationships on tv when spn was airing - the show ended in 2020 #it isn't even like there weren't queer relationships shown on the cw during spn's run - there were more than a few #i just have so many questions #spn #destiel

[phoenix-flamed]

Personal note under the Read More. Sorry for so much OOCness, but consider this post a head's up that I'll be incredibly slow with writing for a while.

Got a call from our vet, letting me know that Spencer's ashes are in, and that we can pick them up whenever we're ready.

#Out of the Flames #I have so many emotions right now and most of them are conflicting which makes them even more unpleasant #Anywho like I said consider this a PSA that I'll be a while in really coming full-force back around #TW: Pet Death #CW: Pet Death

[apamates]

Fitz' loved ones going "is anyone going to inflict unimaginable trauma on that boy??" and not waiting for an answer

#alternative caption 'scenes that make my blood boil' #we just brought back this teen from death and he's obviously scarred let's hurt him more for funsies #Fitz has 0 male role models that don't fuck him over bc of their own issues - Patience please come back i miss you #chade 'if i was used for decades and took it happily you should too' fallstar #i won't even touch burrich's deal bc he's happy that fitz is alive but still resents him for calling out his flaws #verity 'i gave mind and body for this kingdom why shouldn't you too? farseer #the fact that hipersexuality as a sa trauma response was explained chapters before and Fitz accepted being with Starling bc he felt forged #it's so clear that before that fitz copes with complex emotions w/ substance abuse or getting into wacky situations that force his mind to #only focus on the present for survival #but after being sa'd he escapes that particular shade of trauma by being with Starling and going full hermit #i hate you verity #we shall hunt and eat and sleep and you will heal. oh how i love nighteyes #abuse cw #sa cw #rote #assassin's quest

[shenyaanigans]

the eng dub of tristamp ep 11 has only reinforced what i thought when i first watched: this is a 22 minute long rape scene.

#kat chats #trigun stampede #rape cw #i know i keep coming back to this fact and it's not revolutionary but like. this is even harder to watch in english #idk what it is; if it's the fact that i know what's happening or the language that they chose #'i'm gonna go deeper now' says knives as he is literally hollowing vash out #as the next phase of his plan is to literally excavate vash's memories and force himself on him like #and the way knives's va is going about it. gentle. soft. almost SWEET. #like ikeda was pretty harsh at certain points; his voice is super ominous. gentle isn't a quality i would attribute to it #this knives is so hannibal esque it like. makes me wanna throw up a little #like. deeply harrowing experience

[m0thkiller]

yknow, pushing 100 days since my last self harm incident, it feels weird to have all these marks starting to properly fade. Like my life has changed around me to the point that its almost fantastical to think of the headspace and conditions i was in when I would just burn holes in my arms every other day. Even though that was maybe a year and a half ago.

but it still feels weird to move on after that, to pack that demonic part of myself that drove me to do it into a little terrarium. Its never gone away but its been kept under control enough that I've begun to heal, and my body has begun to forget

and even afterwards i kind of miss it, I miss the rush of endorphins, the catharsis of breaking something, the drama of being covered in self inflicted burns. This doesn't mean I'm going to go backwards, I've made so much progress in stopping it over the past three years with the help of my friends. I owe it to them and to myself to keep going forwards

#cw //// #kind of a ramble #was in a pretty rough headspace a couple days ago and had the urges come back full force #didnt do it of course #but I cut it closer than i thought i would this far out #and that got me thinking about how my marks are thin enough that my phone cam airbrushes them almost completely

[generationa1trauma]

flatmate has a girl over i am suddenly extremely uncomfortable

#sorry i only ever come here to rant its bc im losing all my interests / passions and always need someone to talk to but have no friends 🤪 #negative cw #thats a lie partially in that i am emotionally incapable of talking ab it i just. i have no people i have no outlet #but tumblr hasnt been doing it for me lately. im not sure if jts #its the mental illness or if its just being full time employed leaves me so burned out that i can barely function #so hobbies just become non existent #doesnt really matter either way tho bc i can barely pay my bills on full time wages theres nothing i can do to fix things #time off or less hours isnt an option and i sont have the money to get anything diagnosed #i think i need. a lot of support ive been kinda rawdogging life for 26 years but ill be honest gang its starting to really impact everything #i do not. feel like i am a fully functioning human. i am not capable of being a functional adult in society #but its also like. i have to be #my parents dont really believe in mental health stuff or autism or anything and certainly wouldnt believe if i tried to say i was disabled #its just like. no one ever believes me ab that kinda stuff and i dont have the money to get it diagnosed #and without a diagnosis theres not much that can be done but also even with a diagnosis theres nothing #government disability allowance is $78 a week maximum and only covers specifically medical costs for that disability #like i genuinely feel on the verge of a breakdown so bad that i would need a care person #but alas. thats just literally never a possibility for me #i dont have money and i dont come from money and i will be forced to work full time through breakdowns until i die #there is nothing that can be done to help me or fix me #and that just. it sucks #anyway #hope this girl is nice bc my cat refuses to be in my room and its giving me anxiety bc what if hes scared of her and runs away #2 much going on in my head but i can not stop it so here we are #sorry y'all r my rant place #i have been thinking ab trying to step away from the internet a bit but its also. #not really a thing i can do bc everything costs money these days #social clubs r barely existent and the ones there are cost a shittone #I'd just. I'd like to be in a better place. I just don't know how to get there

[barrowsteeth]

you do realize that it wasn't actual fans who tried to get kit fired from the show right?

I almost didn't answer this but I have more to say, so here goes:

It may not have been actual HS fans who started the twitter hashtag campaign to Alice and Patrick to have Kit fired (though we can't know that for sure, can we?)

but i saw PLENTY of HS fans discussing Kit's sexuality over the last 6 months

these fans were SO CERTAIN that Kit was closeted in some way -- gay or bi or pan or whatever fit their imaginary version of him

these fans discussed Kit's sexuality over and over and over, frequently including Kit so he would have to see this flood of messages day after day after day in his mentions

and then people started fighting with each other about Kit's sexuality when Kit's movie with Maia was announced

and again when he was seen holding hands with her (they're just friends!, they're dating!, i can't watch a movie with kit kissing anyone other than joe!, i'm so happy i have a chance!!, i'm so sad and disappointed in him!)

and again when he posted his summer insta pics

and again when the cast went to disneyland and maia was in some pics

and again when the recent creepy stalker photos from the hotel lobby in paris were posted all over instagram and twitter

The point is, ALL of this contributed to the non-stop assault on Kit's privacy about his sexuality and personal relationships.

After he said he wanted to keep his private life private.

After he said it was dangerous to speculate about someone's sexuality, especially someone his age.

After he said it could make someone feel forced to come out before they were ready.

After he left twitter because people wouldn't SHUT UP about it and he was fed up with strangers speculating about something that is his private business.

After numerous articles and podcasts were posted using him as an example in discussions about queerbaiting.

Just thinking about all of these things is exhausting to me. Now imagine being Kit, having to endure this day in and day out. Just for wanting to keep part of his life private from the world. It's fucking heartbreaking is what it is.

And now that I've answered your question, I ask you with complete disrespect to fuck off and block me.

#anon asks #asked and answered #cw forced coming out #cw biphobia

[pear1ridge-a]

I just think. I think more violence. More horror.

#tate is so good for it bc of the natural horrors of his life and the people surrounding him 🥰 #no but write intense shit w my muses always pls #i can work stuff out for any muse but tate is v similar to kurt in that i can put him in Any situation with ease #and i like to use that opportunity to physically and mentally fuck him up 🥰 #bradley kidnapping him was top tier of me bc that was his best friend! he knows what makes him tick! #plus hes the one that. heavily encouraged tates drug use when he was younger and it wasn't addiction but it was. close #and for bradley to then force dose him when hes kidnapped when hes older and clean is just #its such an easy way to keep him more docile and to make sure that even if he gets away he has to deal with withdrawal #and it'll never be as simple as just escaping and being free #he still has wounds he has to heal and he has to go through withdrawal and he has two fingers that arent gonna come back #him shooting bradley in the dick is iconic and deserved and good #trying to turn the gun on himself after. less good extremely painful #drug abuse cw #kidnapping cw #ask to tag // #idk how this just turned into a rant ab me loving tate and hurting him but here we are

[rebelcliche-archived]

i’m going on record right now to say: n/ancy never cheated on s/teve and people who think she did don’t have a brain.

also, she does love him, but it’s far easier for her to say it back than to say it first. and this stems from her being terrified that she’ll jinx their relationship and that they’ll wind up miserable like her parents as a result and she cares about s/teve too much to want that kind of life for them so she holds back from saying ‘i love you’ FIRST, but she DOES love him.

then, when she goes to m/urray’s, he plays on her insecurities and makes her question if her love is even VALID bc she’s scared to say it first, and as a result, she convinces herself to let s/teve go ( on top of her associating s/teve with the guilt of losing b/arb that she has to work through ) because he’s better off without her and m/urray ( and others who don’t even know her like that ) has her convinced that she’d be happier with j/on bc he’s handling their trauma in a way more similar to n/ancy than s/teve is, and so it goes...

but then being around s/teve in s/4 is rekindling old feelings and just makes things even more complicated for her, on top of her already complicated relationship with j/on.

but my point remains: she’ll always love s/teve, end of.

#yes i am a s/tancy shipper and yes i'll fight you if you come for me. i will respect everyone's ships tho! if you don't like s/tancy that's #fine! ship with you want! this has just been heavy on my mind and i wanted everyone to know that MY nancy will always love steve even if #they don't end up together. and i will NEVER force this ship other steve rpers i just wanted to put it out there about my portrayal of nancy #is all! anyway yeah this got away from me i'm sorry lol. carry on! #💖 𝑵. 𝑾𝑯𝑬𝑬𝑳𝑬𝑹 : * headcanon . #💖 𝑮𝑬𝑵𝑬𝑹𝑨𝑳 : * out of character . #cw long post// ///

[earl-grey-love]

😔

#cw vent #about family #best not to look if that makes you uncomfortable #I'm tired of living in this situation #I cannot stand to be around my mum #I get so angry and defensive the moment she is near me #for good reason. #all she does is try to keep me down and control me #is never happy for me about anything #I wrote a cover letter today to fake apply for uni for my careers class assignment #and I went hard on this thing with all the skills and experience I have #even I - my harshest critic - thought it was absolutely knockout #and it left my partner glowing with pride and praise #but all ny mum did when I showed her is point out flaws in it. #and all of a sudden I realised why I always thought I was mediocre as fuck #and its cus no matter what I did it was never good or interesting to her #never an ounce of praise unless I begged for it #then tonight she just got really verbally nasty with me over literally nothing #kept coming in my space and acting aggressive #trying to force me to do chores after I worked all day #at almost midnight as well #its so obviously a control thing #oh and when I told her Im student rep now she literally said #oo la dee da #I cant stand living in this house any more. #sunny speaks #cw family

[staybeautifulmp3]

🔥🔥 about RPing and a subject of your choice

rping sounds fun!! ive never tried it so i dont have enough opinions but it seems like a good time! and idk if this counts as rp but ive definitely played warrior cats at lunch<3

and since i thought you meant rpf at first im gonna say that i think rpf is like, fine.. under certain circumstances. they have to breach some level of fame that theyd never be aware of the rpf. just like theres a huge difference between rpf about a celebrity who makes a 7 figure salary and has a fully staffed pr team versus making gay jokes about an 18 yr old internet celebrity who manages their own instagram

#like gaylorism is weird but ultimately harmless. vs whatever happened that forced that heartstopper kid to come out before he was ready #is super fucked up #like im not gonna engage with rpf. but i think as a concept its like ok fine #except for anything about the cast of the cws supernatural.thats straight up the worst thing in the world #rememeber gunshot jensen ackles posting. oh boy the mold was really growing in the vents then #amanda.mail