#i'm so fucking sick of it

[reddiamondyeet]

#Not even talking about just the villains like Manfred or Dahlia‚ they do it with beloved characters too! #Like they suck all the nuance out of Miles just to turn him into the fandom baby. #Or they suck all the nuance out of Gregory Edgeworth and reduce him to “the dad”. #I'm so fucking sick of it #I doubt that there's a character they haven't sucked all the nuance out of #ace attorney

[drizztdohurtin]

born to evaluate differential equations, forced to test series for convergence 😔

#naur cuz what the fuck is calc 2 even honestly #i'm so fucking sick of it #it has nothing to do with calc 3 #I can count the amount of sections (out of 20+ sections from this term) that have to do with calc 3 on ONE HAND !!!!!!! #if i make it through this term honestly I think i might be able to do anything I set my mind to #serena the yap-atron 3000

[cantthinkstraightcuzimnot]

we need feminism because I've just been to an all girls birthday party (except for the token trans masc aka me) and we talked for over an hour about the "funniest" harassment we've experienced.

we laughed at fucking harassment.

and we had to do it.

because otherwise we would have spent the entire night- and life- crying.

#anti harassment #feminism #patriarchy #mysogyny #i hate men #wake the fuck up #i'm so fucking sick of it

[naritaren]

I see people are still fuckin using the gradient text on gifsets.

Good to know the BNF's in this fandom don't give a fuck about accessibility.

Fuck.

#chatty cassie #I'm so fucking sick of it #my eyes are struggling to focus and I got earblasted by some fuckin hex codes

[aliceinmadnessland]

If housing wasn't absurdly expensive I'd have left this house years ago. I'd rather be alone and deal with my thoughts 24/7 than dealing with my own family 'cause I can't fucking stand them anymore.

#all i've been hearing since i was a kid are nothing but arguments #i'm so fucking sick of it #everyone shut the fuck up

[thegodwhocums]

can ex-christians practicing non-christian religions/spiritualities stop comparing everything to fucking christianity

#I'm so fucking sick of it #xtianity #shut up for once #anyway #personal

[hamartia-grander]

You know, I'm almost grateful that Chris never told Ethan the plan throughout the entirety of Resident Evil Village. Sure, it’s a convenient plot device that’s anywhere from slightly annoying to deeply confusing, depending on your interpretation of Chris’s character. And yeah, it would have saved Ethan (and the player) from a lot of trouble if Chris had just told Ethan what was going on, as well as saved Ethan from spending over 24 hours thinking that his best friend killed his wife. But overall, it offers some players - with basic thinking skills - a unique perspective in that, we get to see just how misogynistic most of the fans are in how they’ll give Chris a pass for keeping a secret out of fear, and then turn around and despise Mia for keeping a secret out of fear. 

#resident evil #resident evil 8 #re8 #re village #Mia Winters #chris redfield #I am once again enraged over this fandom's hatred for Mia #resident evil village #just got into another argument over this and the person actually used Chris as a comparison #as if he didn't do the EXACT same thing as Mia for the EXACT same reasons she did - to protect Ethan #to protect their FAMILY #And this fandom REPEATEDLY shits on Mia for being a human and having trauma and using her brain #and then they'll turn around and worship wesker or leon or whatever #I'm so fucking sick of it #in case you couldn't tell by now this blog is a Mia fight club #I will fucking obliterate you in defence of this perfect woman #if you wanna argue with me about this go ahead but you will lose #and if you're not gonna offer any valuable argument I'll just block you :) #if anyone's read this far - to specify - Chris and Mia's fears were both for Ethan's life and stability #They both cared about him tremendously and wanted him to be safe - wanted the Winters family to be safe - so they kept secrets #anyways #resident evil 7 #re7 #resident evil biohazard #re biohazard #Ethan winters

[cistematicchaos]

Here’s the thing:

Y’all will never justify the police killing Black people to me. You’ll never be able to justify them brutalizing Black people, period. You say “wait till the tape comes out,” and then, “the tape doesn’t have enough evidence, what if-”

You will NEVER justify it. None of it! Every single one of those fuckers are bastards and I mean that genuinely and completely. The US in particular, their system is specially designed to murder Black people, whether at the cops’ hands directly, or through the school system, the prison system, the capitalist system of poverty, you’ll never justify any of it to me, much less any pig’s actions.

“What if they had a gun, what if they stole money-” 

I. Don’t. Care. Y’know, the cops are trained in deescalation, trained in aiming-They have deescalated white supremacist terrorists all over the US without an injury among them. That’s bullshit, all of it is bullshit, so fuck off with it. 

#And yes #this is about someone specifically #but applies to literally any case you can think of probably #and i'm sick of it #Anti-Blackness #I'm so fucking sick of it #Racism #Police Brutality #Fuck the police #Fuck the US #fuck all of this shit jesus fuck i'm tired #Chaos is Speaking #If this kind of shit is uncomfortable to you #because you like the cops or think they're reformable #piss off #this is not the place

[lycheequeer]

it’s all fun and games until she’s actually mentally ill 

then since so many of you have watered down and misused actual medical terms to the point that they mean nothing anymore people are so surprised because how DARE mental illness be ugly, tearing your own skin to shreds. how DARE it not be romanticized until it’s just another way to be quirky and dIfFerEnT

#me #rant #i'm so fucking sick of it #sick and tired #SICK AND TIRED!!!! #mental health #mental illness #depression #major depressive disorder #adhd #autism #something about the term neurodivergent just fucking irks me idk maybe it's because i grew up in the age of dystopic YA fiction

[cherriesandcharms]

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#I'm so sad and so angry #I'm TIRED #i just wanna sleep #but no matter what i do im waking up constantly #I'm so fucking sick of it

[voluptuarian]

every night it's just like "you are tired and if you want to be up at a half-decent time then you'd better go to bed"

*proceeds to go to bed feeling nice and sleepy, loaded with supplements and pain killers, in air conditioned room, in total darkness and an eyemask, with white noise playing and lavender essential oil on my pillow*

"OK well now 4 hours have inexplicably passed and you have not slept at all, the birds are singing, your back aches, your legs are killing you, your tummy hurts, and Now you're hungry and won't be able to sleep unless you eat something"

*gets out of bed and goes downstairs to my kitchen to make food in full lighting*

"Oh but now you are so exhausted, you could fall asleep right here on this sofa waiting for your toast!"

*finishes eating and goes back to bed*

"5 minutes has passed and now you have never been more awake in your entire life!"

#I'm so fucking sick of it #it's worse now bc I was sick and slept all Saturday #but it's like this all the time #I'm in hell

[inkskinned]

there are a lot of posts out there that are positive and healthy coping mechanisms for handling the holidays. this is not one of them :)

i think there's like. going to be times in your life you will be stuck in a social situation that you cannot escape from gracefully. i do not know why the internet doesn't believe these times exist. it's not always just that your physical safety is at risk - sometimes it's legit like "i just don't currently have the energy or time to put in the effort of responding to this." sometimes it's a coworker you hate so much. sometimes it's just like, fine, you know? like you know you can handle your aunt when she's cheerily horrible, but if you actually set a boundary around her, it's going to be weeks of fallout with your father.

i don't know why people think the answer is always just "cut them out!" or "don't let them get away with that!" because ... the real world is tricky and complicated. i think kind of a lot of us have an internal "radiation poisoning" meter for certain people. like - i'm talking about the ones who are absolutely giving you gradual ick damage. like, you can handle them, but you'll be exhausted.

and yes. you absolutely should listen to your therapist and the good posts about handling others and set good boundaries and take care of yourself. prioritize peace.

HOWEVER :) ...... since im often in a situation with a Gradual Sense of Ick person i cannot just "cut out" of my life (without losing someone else precious to me) - i have sort of developed the most. maladaptive form of mischief possible. because like, if i'm going to have to listen to this shit again, i like to have a little bit of private fun with it.

now! again, i am physically safe, just mentally drained by this man. you should only do this with people you are not in danger with. which leads me to my suggestions for when your Unfortunate Acquaintance shows up and says oh everyone pay attention to me.

my favorite word is "maybe!" said as brightly and happily as possible. whenever the Horrible Person starts in on a topic you do not want to go further with, particularly if they make a claim that you know to be inaccurate, do not respond to it. you and i have both tried to actually argue with this person, and it hasn't gone well, because this person just wants the drama of an argument. however, "maybe!" gives them literally nothing to go on. it is incredibly disarming. they are used to people having some response. they know they can't prove what they're saying, and maybe! treats them like the child they are. it dismisses them in the politest way possible.

i like to say maybe! and then, in their stunned silence, immediately change the subject. this is because i have adhd and i will have something unrelated to talk about, but if you can't think of topics fast enough, i recommend just pointing to something and saying, "isn't that lovely?" because fuck you let's bring in some positivity.

by the way. that second trick - of pointing to something and stating an opinion about it? - that just works on its own, like, 70% of the time. i picked it up from teaching preschoolers. it's an intentional "redirect". it stops children crying and it also stops grown adults from finishing their explanation on why women belong in kitchens. dual wielding!

keep it silly for yourself. i absolutely do not care if people think i'm fucking stupid (it's more fun if they do) and as a result i will purposefully misunderstand things just to see how long it takes them to realize i've completely removed them from the subject at hand. when they say "women aren't funny" i get to be like. "which women." "all women." "all women in america?" "no in the world." "like the mole people? the people in the world?" "what? no. like, alive." "oh are we not counting the mole people?" "what the fuck are you talking about." "you don't believe in the mole people?"

similarly, i play a personal game called "one up me." my Evil Acquaintance literally knows this game exists (my family & friends caught onto it and now also play it) and it always fucking gets him. i don't know why. you have to be willing to be a little free-spirited on this one, though. the trick is that when they make one of those horrible little bigoted or annoying comments they are always making, you need to go one unit weirder. not more intense, mind you - just more weird. "you don't look good in that dress." "yeah, actually, my other dress was covered in squid ink due to a mishap at the soup store." "you shouldn't wear such revealing clothes." "wait, what? oh shit. sorry, your son tears off strips when no one is looking and eats them. i swear it was longer before we left the building."

the point of "one up me" is to completely upend this person's narrative. we both know this person likes setting up situations where you cannot "win" and then they really like telling other people how badly you handled it. in a usual situation, if you respond "please don't say something that rude", you're a bitch. but if you let it happen, you're letting yourself be debased. they are not usually expecting door number three: unflappably odd. because what are they going to say when they're telling everyone how badly you behaved? "she said my son eats her dresses" ".... okay?"

if you can, form an allyship with someone whomst you can tagteam with. where they can pick up on your weird "soup store" story and run with it.

the following phrase is amazing and can be deployed for any situation: "oh, be nice :) it's the holidays!" i do not know why this works as often as it does. i'll say it for the most random shit. i think this is bc most of the time these people know they're being impolite, they just like to fight.

godbless. when in doubt, remember that you could always start stealing their pens.

the whole point of this is - if you can't escape. maybe see how long you can just be. like. a horrible little menace.

#this is objectively bad advice #don't listen to it protect yourself and do real work on yourself find one of the good posts i've made about this #but also. u know. if u want to have fun while u do the work of setting boundaries #.... it IS fun #i will say that my fear of him went SO down after i just started. fucking with him. #bc i used to get SO fucking upset #i'd spend WEEKS arguing with him. tearing my hair out. sick with anxiety and dread and anger about all of it #and now i just LITERALLY do not engage #instead i'm like '' haha :) mole people" and get the HELL out of any tense conversation #i kind of think some of these people are literally addicted to drama as a form of connection #they like the rush they get from arguing #but those arguments are incredibly damaging for me #so like..... i am in the process of literally rehabilitating this person to figure out how to find connection thru #NORMAL CONVERSATION #he doesn't get it yet #i also do talk to them like they're preschool kids lmafo . ''are you using a safe and kind voice right now?'' #'' do you need a snackie? you sound a little upset. let's have some hummus and come back to playtime when we feel ready''

[nohaijiachi]

I hate you AI, I hate you sites making deals with souless corporations that think creativity can be replicated by an unthinking machine, I hate you money-hungry investors and ceos, I hate you opt-out models, I hate you tech bros, I hate you having to spend precious free time having to scramble our art in a desperate attempt not to getting stolen from, I hate you minimization of the hard work we put into our craft, I hate ''''machine learning''''' being compared to a very human person putting in the hours to better themselves, I hate you commodification of the very core of human's expression, I hate you scams being helped along by uber plagiarism, I hate you AI, I hate you AI, I hate you AI, I HATE YOU AI

#I'm so fucking sick of this shit

[thevioletcaptain]

i genuinely don't care how good a piece of ai generated art or writing looks on the surface. i don't care if it emulates brush strokes and metaphor in a way indistinguishable from those created by a person.

it is not the product of thoughtful creation. it offers no insights into the creator's life or viewpoint. it has no connection to a moment in time or a place or an attitude. it has no perspective. it has no value.

it's empty, it's hollow, and it exists only to generate clicks (and by extension, ad revenue.)

it's just another revolting symptom of the disease that is late stage capitalism, and it fucking sucks.

#''but i just want to use it to--'' don't care! it's shit! stop fucking feeding it! #if you need help generating ideas or jumping off points then join an artist or writer group online #talk to people #make connections #that's what art and writing is supposed to be about in the first place #i'm mad as hell etc. #so goddamn sick and tired of seeing ai shit get passed around on here #it's bad enough in general but every time i see more of it showing up #tagged as fan art or as fic #the angrier i get #heartfelt imperfection in art and writing will always ALWAYS be worth more than the most technically ''perfect'' ai generated image or text #fandom problems #ai generation algorithms die in a fire challenge 2k23 #just a heads up that i'm muting this post and will no longer see responses to it #because i'm tired of seeing dogshit takes from jackasses who want to ''debate'' me #there's no debate you're in the wrong on literally every level and you can die mad about it

[orgasming-caterpillar]

5k notes before Christmas and I'll tell my mom that I'm a transmasc lesbian

#I'm so sick of being misgendered by this woman #And I'd like for her to know #But I'd also like to be safe #But I'm also fucking done with it and whatever happens happens

[thebibliosphere]

Is this the start of a migraine or just a normal headache... guess we'll find out.

#chronic health tag #I'm gonna be so pissed if it's a migraine #I'm fucking sick of this shit