I took a half day for my birthday today and took Pip to the beach. It is our little ritual. Basically since she's been sick, she's only had the energy to MAYBE do one big joyful zoom and then spends the rest of the time at my heel. But today, after a week on her new food, she was like a whole new dog. zoom after zoom after zoom just for the hell of running. Playing with other dogs, striking off without me to sniff and investigate, wading in the water, chasing birds...it's like she was a puppy again. I couldn't believe it. So much hope came rushing back. The perfect gift. I'm so, so happy.
Last summer, I wrote a crack fic and that crack fic had a tiny snippet of worldbuilding that was more about the gag than it was about the actual idea itself, but I reread the fic today and now I can't stop thinking about that tiny little speck of thought that I wrote for the lols, and now I want to write a whole book based on the premise.
Don't judge a book by its cover. An essay by Mew Pt. 2
Mew in his revenge era went shopping and thought, "you know what screams I'm gonna fuck you up, maybe you'll like it, maybe you won't? Floral/patterned shirts," and proceeded to buy a bunch of those.
BOOK KASIDET as MEW WITSARUT ( ONLY FRIENDS EPS. 7-12 )
Correction: I missed one outfit in ep. 6 and instead of remaking that set, I'll just post it below because it's actually the hottest Mew has looked, so I'm not even upset.
/my god y'all this is gonna be one of the most inconsistently drawn updates yet with how my meds' sedation affected me between panels (the left being from last week's attempts skjdfnsds 🚶♀️🚶♀️🚶♀️)
I'll still need a bit more time, but I think we're Slowly getting back there in terms of my art's momentum huhuu 🙏✨
Daily excerpt from chapter 35 of The Nascent Diplomat:
'You are resisting me early,' Temsen said, unhappy. 'Will you allow Augus to use his compulsions today?'
No, Gwyn thought.
Temsen looked at Augus, then back down at Gwyn. Today, his brown hair with its white streak was styled with a complicated braid around his head that let much of his hair free and left the white streak alone completely. 'You trust us less today.'
Gwyn stared down at his feet. Temsen knew about Oxcillian now, Gwyn couldn't stop thinking about that either. Temsen knew. It was taking all of Gwyn's energy not to get up and leave. Having two people this close to him? He never would have allowed it before coming to Aethelwaters. Having two people who knew about Oxcillian this close to him? Well, that had never happened in his life.
'Help me with this,' Temsen said to Augus, the words soft but still commanding.
'I think you'll find I'm no magician,' Augus said. 'You are the one who wants to pursue this method of healing. It's challenging and might I remind you that the last time it happened, he was left alone during a very intense aftermath. You know that.'
(Chapter 35 goes up on Patreon in two days, and chapter 34 arrives on AO3 at the same time :) )
Today's polish was mostly a miss for me. I bought this one cause of the polish description. I was so curious to see what a silver magnetic linear holo crackle polish looked like in person. But the reality did not live up to the hype. You can BARELY see the linear holo if you zoom WAY in on the middle picture and the magnetic effect didn't show up at ALL. So it's just a silver crackle, which is kinda pretty I guess but it's not what I thought I was ordering and the formula was tricky to work with. These pictures are the second time I did this manicure. The first time I applied it too thickly and it didn't look great. lol So a miss. This is Winter Solstice from P.O.P over Void from Bee's Knees Lacquer.
[cws: non-detailed discussion of both fictional and irl SA/CSA/abuse dynamics, apologia for the previous, homophobia, fetishization of wlw, and anti rhetoric.]
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having a lot of thoughts about the wider fandom's treatment of the various abuse dynamics present in sdmi--supposedly in the name of being anti-abuse--and how instead it's propagated deeply anti-survivor/abuse apologist sentiment and behavior through where they choose to apply that rhetoric, and where they choose to look the other way.
(first off, if you're someone who does not and has not done this, thank you from the bottom of my heart. second, this is not at all exhaustive of my feelings on the subject and there will probably be more posts about these dynamics and people's behavior toward them in future. as you can imagine by the length of this post that is saying something lmao)
one of the reasons i feel as strongly as i do about the way both canon and fandom have historically been about pericles, pericky, and shitting on anyone who likes them because it Normalizes Abuse(tm), is that their fans are pretty open and emphatic about the fact that it's Fucked Up. it's why we find it compelling. it is vanishingly rare that we don't.
meanwhile, velma is the UwU Cute Sassy Lesbian Icon whose relationship with shaggy was Cringy and Immature (and mutually so 🙃) at worst, when it directly mirrored such visceral aspects of my experience with CSA that i almost threw up rewatching the second episode.
and that's not even getting into how normalized it is for women to abuse men in a relationship, in broad fucking daylight in front of other people, and how men are supposed to Always Want It and it's an insult if they don't, and how the vast majority of CSA--which it overtly is in shaggy's case, he is implied not to be an adult yet--is perpetrated by other kids.
and it's also not getting into the fact that the ~cute lesbian relationship~ is almost certainly going to end up with the other queer girl in the show also being abused, because abusers are not Magically Cured by True Queer Love's Kiss. how it is incredibly difficult for survivors of abuse in a wlw relationship to be acknowledged or get support because then they'd be a Traitor, or people would rather maintain the feel-good fuzzy feelings wlw exist to give them, or they're closeted and it's not safe to let people know they're in a relationship with a woman. how queer relationships, especially between women, are fetishized as cute pure healthy fairytale romances and not dynamics involving real people who might harm each other or be harmed and need help.
and that's not even getting into the fact that mlm are seen as inherently predatory to an extent that the majority of other queer identities are not. how older queer men grooming boys is a classic homophobic stereotype used to justify violence toward them, up to and including lynchings, and how that is the abuse dynamic everyone in the show and fandom latched onto to revile as the Disgusting Evil Predatory One while giving everything else a pass. how mlm have a long history of forced institutionalization and psychiatric torture and abuse, and the Predatory Gay Man is subjected to decades of--you guessed it!--forced institutionalization and psychiatric torture and abuse, which is framed as what he deserved and where he belonged. how he's supposed to be unattractive (and the majority of the people who do this shit lean hard on that), while people are way more likely to give Charming Attractive Aesthetically Pleasing abusers a pass.
this is just..... normal, to the fandom. it's treated as completely normal. and i think that's a whole lot more fucking harmful than finding emotional catharsis in exploring an abusive dynamic that would not fly in broad daylight irl in a million years.