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sammy--moh · 8 months

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A random ramble about my identity, modern queer community and queer history bc I'm hyperfixated

(I don't want slur discourse under my post. I reclaim words that have been directly used to oppress me only and only towards myself, that's where the conversation ends)

(Cis/Hets don't touch this post

Terfs especially don't even look at this post

Anti kink fuckers don't look at this post, kink and LGBT are separate things but you cannot untangle kink history from queer/LGBT history

If your against the use of the word queer, don't clown on this post

Queer cis people are free to interact and add their opinions but don't clown on this post

Trans people and queer punks and activists please interact <3

Any corrections are welcomed as long as their constructive)

So you could probably find a few posts of me talking about some of my more modern and neo/xeno identity labels, its something I'm fairly proud of I'm a neo pronoun user and have been out as a nonbinary man for a long time

But I don't think I talk about my more, I guess classical and older queer labels and that feels disingenuous because I do still love queer history and have a lot of what would be considered ""outdated"" identieies

Yeah I'm a neo user and have some xeno gender labels, and I'm T4T which as far as I know is a label thats been around a long time but its still common and normally used today

But im also just a gender nonconformist(sometimes i use and reclaim the words transexual and transvestite just to piss off cis people who say i cant), i unapolgetically reclaim the word f4g, im in the leather community, I'm a fem man, im a cub, all things that have been around maybe since the 60s - 70s that I/still/ find connection to, comfort and community in

I mean hell I usually consider myself to currently be in a masc 4 fem relationship which you'd probably never guess by just looking at me

Which is another thing! Why is it always assumed that cubs and bears are the mascs?? I think I have more traditionally feminine clothing and presentation then most of my twink friends, I am a big, fat, extroverted, hairy cub and I am still the fem in one of my relationships and very feminine and fem presenting in general

Obviously masc 4 fem is not the only kind of mlm and wlm relationship that's stupid sndnd and expecting it is heteronormative, some people are masc 4 masc,fem 4 fem, heck not everyone /likes/ traditional masc fem labels and that's awesome!

Another thing I don't see a lot of people talk about is the fact that the bear and cub community is objectively a body positivity movement, that's what it started as that's what it always will be

Bear culture was a reaction to the beauty standards of gay culture at the time, when the ideal in gay relationships were young, thin, conventionally attractive gay and bi/multisexual men

Bear culture was specifically made to appreciate, lift up, and love large, hairy,sometimes older gay and bi/multsexual men and cub culture branched off from bears

I'm gonna be honest, I am recovering from a few body image issues and disorders that I wont go in depth on, and bear + cub culture has helped me to love myself and my body and find myself attractive more than any other body positivity space! Not to say other body positvity spaces arent important and needed, but that as a queer trans man this one has been the space I felt the most welcomed in

I wish there were a few expectations we could leave behind, like the idea that bears and cubs only date other bears and cubs, that terms like bear, twink, otter, leather gay, ect are gay exclusive and not just mlm and nwlnw terms, that fem and masc culture are gay and lesbian exclusive (dont come at me there are several moments in history we see these terms used by bi and generally queer men and that show masc and fem culture in bi and generally queer spaces)

I wish I could find more people like me in history, trans men who weren't masc, transmen and transmascs that were unapologetically feminine, I want to find transman queens in history, trans gay and mlm men, it's hard to find.. but I'm almost positive there has to be at least some people like me in queer history

But in general there's so much we can learn and keep from older queer culture that I feel has been lost a lot with younger generations

I love modern queer culture and neo/xeno labels and communities ans MOGAI and the breakdown of gender norms and sexual expectations

But im also unapolgetically a fem, leather loving, kinkster, trans fucking, fat cub, cross dressing faggot

All of these things are me

You cannot untangle or separate these identieies and labels from /me/

There are riots and loss in my history, and there is raw, unapolgetic queer beauty as well. there is pride in my veins, and fight in my lungs, and I wouldn't trade any of it for shit

#queer #lgbtqia #queer activism #transgender #trans activism #slur reclamation #queer history #gay history #lgbt history #mogai identity #gay cub #queer pride #gay pride #multisexual #mlm #t4t #long post #queer punk

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dance-of-doom · 4 years

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give me ALL your lgbt headcanons NOW

HERE I GO

let's start with the main six

kai: nonbinary, gay and arospec

cole: trans guy. oriented aroace (gay)

zane: nonbinary. was meant to be a boy, immediately takes 900 steps to distance himself from the concept of gender. pan

jay byrd: trans girl. man i love this concept so much. she's a lesbian also (if we're rolling with jay then i say bisexual, trans guy)

nya: transfem demigirl, bisexual. i love her so much

lloyd: transmasc, but not really on the binary y'know? acespec AND arospec

moving to some other characters

pixal: trans girl (i imagine it went like with jenny from my life as a teenage robot, i haven't seen it but there's a clip floating around the website). bisexual & ace

skylor: trans girl. someone said she looked like a tiktok lesbian and i couldn't agree more (in a positive way. they're hot)

echo: demiboy and pan (similar to zane but not quite)

vania: lesbian and demigirl

faith and jet jack: trans lesbians

dareth and ronin: gay and bi respectively. both trans ofc

akita: genderfluid, bisexual

scott: *kisses him* bisexual demiboy (i accidentally reread this as catboy. he's nyanbinary now)

i also have headcanons for old people

wu: idc he's gay

misako and garmadon: they're bi

mystake: lesbian! and uh genderfluid i think it makes sense (actually i hate that only shapeshifters get to be genderfluid. that's very poor rep)

now on to the villains (spoiler alert they're gay too)

pythor: gay and homophobic

skales: bi

morro: nonbinary bisexual. arospec simply based on the color palette

harumi: trans girl, lesbian, aromantic

u.v: trans ace lesbian (i have so many trans lesbian hcs.. good for them)

mr. E: iirc someone said hesbian and hell yeah

cryptor: nb, gay

aspheera and machia: lesbiansnakes

all the other sneks and skeletons are mlm trust me

notes:

honestly im tired of having always the robots as nonbinary so i reversed that trope with pixal and kept it with zane. to balance it out or something. pixane trans robots power couple

ace pixal bc the colors fit those of her original palette kinda. same for uv

byrd is a headcanon that i've been thinking about for some months now (inspired by ju/ne egbert 💙)

half of these i went with *look at how hard i can project*

i probably missed some characters,, anyway feel free to reply/reblog with your own :p

#ask #hcs #ninjago #on the main tag because everyone has to read my brilliant takes #thank uu dude for the ask ;]

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thewoesofyaoi · 7 years

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I know youve answered this stuff sort of in the past, but I can't find something about this in specific? If there is, just tell me to look through the tag again. So uh, I'm a straight girl. Is it REALLY bad for me to read Shonen ai or a few(very few, Im uncomfortable reading any sort of smut) yaoi, as long as I'm extremely critical of what I read? And I mean CRITICAL. I just... relate to guys in romance more than girls. Even in shoujo. The guy view point regardless of sexuality just feels right

why not look for non-fetishy content instead? it’s out there, we have an entire positive representation tag for one. there’s ways to consume m/m media that doesn’t support homophobic content or expose you to homophobic themes and tropes.

all this being said, i don’t mean to pry, but have you considered that you might not be a cis straight girl? just from personal experience, relating way more to mlm characters than straight or wlw characters, feeling like “the gay guy point of view just feels right” and being uncomfortable with most depictions of sex (especially straight sex)… those sound like experiences a lot of gay transmasc people have before coming to terms with their gender. I’m not trying to psychoanalyze you or anything, I mean, one ask isn’t that much to go by— but if it’s something you’re wondering about, I’d recommend checking out some resource blogs (off the top of my head i have these). And if it turns out that’s not the deal, then hey, you’ve learned a bit more about the trans perspective and experience.

#ask #anonymous #am i fetishizing

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