#love language is food giving

[dramashii]

Watching people you love eat>>>>

#see you in my 19th life #dailyasiandramas #asiandramasource #kdramadaily #kdramaedit #kdramagif #kdrama #netflixkdrama #shin hye sun #ahn bo hyun #k:see you in my 19th life #love language is food giving

[dosemakesthepoison]

Gale's line when you first see the owl bear at camp is something like "the hand that feeds is the hand that's loved" and I think that little insight says a lot about his self appointed position as camp cook.

#gale doesnt know how to make friends outside of giving them food #food as a love language #food as a peace offering #gale dekarios #gale of waterdeep #gale #owlbear cub #bg3 #baldurs gate 3 spoilers #baldurs gate

[qpjianghu]

Li Lianhua + saying "I love you" without saying "I love you" (2/?)

Mysterious Lotus Casebook (2023)

#li lianhua #fang duobing #fanghua #mysterious lotus casebook #lhl #lian hua lou #llh's love language #more 'food as a love language' in this show because I think about Them and cannot rest #this scene is so layered it kills me #the 'recipes' are actually his yangzhouman instruction manual (tm) #which feels like a good one-to-one because food = life-sustaining as is yangzhouman #but in the context of the whole show and llh's whole character journey #we know that this is exactly the opposite: llh is essentially handing over his last will and testimony #but also in the context of the entire show and llh's character journey #we know that this is llh's way of telling fb he loves him #he loves fdb and will give him the thing he's always wanted... #...but only after his death #and it also shows that maybe he still thinks fdb's love is conditional #and only exists alongside lxy and not llh #anyway #I am Sad dot meme #my mlc gifs

[lloydfrontera]

lloyd 'survived on one meal per day for years' frontera would absolutely see sharing food as a love language and javier 'lived in the streets for months as a child' asrahan would be fluent in it

i do believe there is a point in their lives where they both heal from the trauma of going through severe food insecurity but neither of them ever quite really forget just how important food can be. and when the other shares their food with them, they appreciate it as the show of affection it was meant to be

#i talk a lot <3 #tged #the greatest estate developer #lloyd frontera #javier asrahan #i've talked before about food as a love language in tged which mostly affects the relationship between marbella and lloyd #but i do think it would bleed over to other aspects in lloyd's life #and there's a scene in the hell arc where javier figures out something is wrong because lloyd complains about the food #something javier notes he never does. no matter the quality of the food how plain or unpleasant it is lloyd never complains about it #and he explicitly calls it out as the way someone that had been starving for years and knew the preciousness of food would act #which if you then take into account that this is been said by a person that survived on his own as a five year old child in the streets #in the middle of winter... well. it sounds less like speculation and more like someone speaking from experience. #anyway. all this to say lloyd would peel an orange and then give half of it to javier and javier would absolutely swoon #and when they're on the road and they sit down to eat javier will always give the fuller plate to lloyd #and lloyd will have to swallow the knot in his throat before he can start eating #llojavi #yeah fine i'll tag it

[askblueandviolet]

Macaque, you are a freeloader...

At least give The Mayor a kiss. 😗

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#lego monkie kid #lego monkie kid fanart #monkie kid #monkie kid fanart #lmk #lmk fanart #lmk mayor #monkie kid mayor #monkie kid macaque #lmk macaque #blue and violet #Macaque is a firm believer in the phrase 'its basically free money' as in the guy loves discounts and free stuff #he will never (or hardly ever) pass up on free food because why the fuck not #however he is also a firm believer that if he ever gets free stuff he does not have to give anything back #its really funny because I like to think that Macaque's love language is gift giving #so like the guy loves free shit and will absolutely take any gift he gets #but when he actually gives you something in return or out of the blue? haha that means he genuinely likes you #hence: his thing with fruit baskets #he has yet to give the Mayor one #speaking of the Mayor- Macaque is not their sugar baby and they are not his sugar daddy because Macaque refuses to let that be a thing #he has unfortunately regained some of his dignity #all while Mayor is still unaware of what the term 'sugar daddy' actually means #good for them- they would be horrified when they find out #also: Many asks ago I had put up the offer to make these two kiss if a certain post reached 500 notes #an impossible number but the offer is still on the table and will continue to stand and remain until the ask blog offically ends

[altogethernowrainworld]

What’s everybodies favorite food?

Artificer: I would say the absolute favourite is whatever Gourmand cooks. Guy can make anything seem appealing!

Gourmand: Oh, how wonderful to hear! Now I just want to make another meal for everyone-

Rivulet: YIPEEEE!!!

#//scuggies answer #rw monk #rw survivor #rw nightcat #rw gourmand #rw enot #rw hunter #rw artificer #rw spearmaster #slugdessa #rw rivulet #rw saint #; gourmand is the guy who’s love language is giving you your favourite safe food and i’m correct about this

[fouralignments]

You can't convince me otherwise, but Charles has multiple jars of peanut butters and other nut butters of various flavors for Peter's benefit, so he doesn't wind up crashing due to the lack of energy.

All the while, Erik is crying because Charles is taking care of his content worry for his son, who is always hungry. Charles reminding him that he will take care of them both.

#Charles love his stepson SOOO damn much #Stepdad! Charles and his hyperactive Quickson #stepdad! charles xavier #charles xavier #peter maximoff #dadneto #erik lehnsherr #cherik #In a way Charles is a sugar daddy to both his loves but in Peter's it is a bit more literal with him just giving him sugar and food #Yeah I get the feeling that Peter's love language is receiving food

[enashinonome]

i had uni pasta for the first time at a little hole-in-the-wall restaurant tonight and it was a delight. it’s not a dish that’s getting the attention of michelin anytime soon, but i think it was memorable in the way that most simply good things are. in the way that most firsts are. i didn’t know sea urchin melted in your mouth like that! that something can be so paradoxical in taste—half novel, half familiar, and all quiet joy.

#not to wax poetic about pasta but it inspired me. and i’ve been in writing mode 24/7 as of late #which entails my taking of everything‚ the sensory world‚ and playing with it like putting music to language. giving justice to experiences #through words! #something something i want food to be loved easier. steadier. every day. the body never forgets being full‚ and other such notions #thank you batman you have irreparably changed how i write #🐰

[stealingfromwoolworths]

I’m sorry but the fact that Kerch and Ketterdam are based off 18th/17th century Nederland and they are all just dress… blegh? Unforgivable. I know you all have the notion of Dutch traditional dress being boring and bland and black but that is SO FAR from the truth especially in the 18th century like…

(A lot of this is modern but like it was even prettier and more elaborate back when it was widely worn.)

“But it doesn’t go with the ✨vibe✨ of Ketterdam

YES IT DOES 😭

Klederdracht is so diverse and so beautiful… idk just seeing what everyone is wearing in Ketterdam makes me sad because it was such a missed opportunity

#also men’s traditional clothing in parts of Nederland? it’s so stunning and elaborate and shiny and colourful life #you can’t tell me Wylan wouldn’t buy so many shirts and jackets for Jesper like 😭 #the detail about Poffertjes made me so happy by the way #My opa used to make them for me before he moved across the country #when I started dating my now ex boyfriend who is from Panama I made him poffertjes #idk as a Dutch Australian giving people random food of my homeland is my love language #This may make no sense canonically idk #it’s been a hot minute since I read the books and I’ve just recently watched the shows #this was spurred on by me seeing a photo of a Dutch man with a cane dressed in all black klederdracht #kaz would have killed that look change my mind #anyway #pls #I need better representation then just sexualised girls wearing Edam-Volendam caps pls #Shadow and bone #shadow and bone tv #Sab #kaz brekker #the v is lowercase you uncultured swines (old meme makes a return #Wyland van Eck #Netflix #Klederdracht #Dutch culture #Liesbeth? dutch posting at 9pm at night?? no one is shocked #traditional clothing #cultural clothing #Streekdracht #actually autistic #can you tell

[teabutmakeitazure]

honkai star rail 2.1 will leave me a different person

#yes this is about aventurine #yes i want to fight him #yes i want to hold him and send him to therapy or accept him as he is #give him a few treats and pet him like a cat #and then rotate him horizontally in my mind like food in the microwave #maybe this is my love language #studying the object of my affections #zuri rambles

[hella1975]

the closest ill ever get to being a pick me girl is the joy that fills me when the chefs at work so clearly favouritise me. like im there nicely cleaned up in my smart-casual uniform just a 20 year old waitress smiling my customer service smile and behind me spawns Scary Dog Privilege 10x in the form of several burly middle-aged chefs at least three of which have criminal records and would all stick a bread knife in someone for bothering me

#like it's really funny bc i worked HARD with back of house bc i knew my job would be significantly easier if they liked me #(it speeds your orders through. you can ask for things without being told to fuck off during a rush. they'll get you food on shift etc) #and also there's a stereotype especially in fancier places where floor staff look down on kitchen staff and i think that's shitty #so i was always going to be try with them and be nice but ALSO when i first started my job it was in a peak era so while these days #we're struggling a lot and have had to employ a lot of college kids that dont know what they're doing #when i joined it was all private school girls that would swan about the place very snootily. so the divide between front and back of hosue #was INTENSE when i joined. and there i was a little state school girlie and the chefs immediately recognised that #and took me under their wing. so even though the class angle doesnt exist so much anymore and theres majority state schoolers #im still very much in with the chefs in a way not many of the other floor staff are. and there's also the fact im not scared of them #like chefs ARE rude and a lot of them DONT like or even respect floor staff but i will GLADLY tell them to fuck off if i think it necessary #and that's a language they understand like ironically there's one chef that doesnt get on with ANY of the waitresses #(i talked about him on another post he's the soup one) but he likes me bc when he tried that rude dismissive act i told him to shove it #and now the other waitresses literally SEND ME TO TALK TO HIM when they have questions/want something bc they know he'll listen to me #and me and the head chef are besties and the one kp will talk OVER THE OTHER WAITRESSES' heads and completely blank them #so she can talk to me and it's all just really funny bc the kitchen staff LOVE me and that's not even me being arrogant #it's like a known thing at work that they love me and im just. a 20 year old 5'2 waitress with my little pearl necklace and blouse #and some tattooed ginger mohawked 6ft chef is there getting angry for me when i come in complaining about a table #or the kp that is literally on probation will give me a sticky toffee pudding and tell everyone to leave me the fuck alone LMAO #hella slaves to capitalism

[nomsfaultau]

rereading this fic again and I just got to the part right after they found out Phil still had his memories and I was not prepared for the emotional damage of Wilbur tossing Phil a pear

>:)

Yeah, such a little detail, but the implications are fascinating since neither would be able to fully recognize the meaning of it echoing how they first began to bond. If Philza managed to remember how Wilbur first began showing affection it would only hurt him due to the residual amnestics. And mayyybe Wilbur unconsciously remembers that Philza loves pears, but the way he suppresses his own non-survival related memories would mean he doesn't even realizing its this moment of them reconnecting. They love each other so much and can't even fully remember it, and so they replay their own history without realizing.

#ahhhh I never thought someone would notice that detail! #fully adore Wilbur's love language being through giving food #fault au #scp philza #scp wilbur #sbi scp au #something to nom on

[cometrose]

did you all know zhongli is like a master craftsman? he has made numerous weapons specifically the golden and jade liyue weapon series? we know that jade cutter was intended to be a gift for someone but its implied he used it himself cause he was unable to gift it anyway i like to headcanon if zhongli really likes someone he will craft them something.

During the war it was often weapons like the most beautiful swords and spears forged from gold or purest jade but in more peaceful times he might fashion a golden flower made from pure geo, or spend hours crafting elegant hairpins. Mind you he created the golden house purely from gold because he could.

He understands the nature of stone far better than any human could so making it bend to his whims is rather easy but these days he tries to take the more human-like route when crafting his next gifts.

#zhongli #genshin impact #weapons are his signature but he's trying to diversify #he also really likes food so he will gift food #so yeah his love language is gift giving #zhongli: take this sword i made it for you *it is the most beautiful weapon you have ever laid eyes on* #i think its interesting in many of the liyue weapons they describe them as covered in blood and war #but even then they still shine brightly and beautiful #if he wasnt working at the funeral parlor he would be excellent at forging weapons #but his weapons are probably too powerful to be left in human hands lol

[absolutebl]

Another ask for you to ignore as you see fit; after answering serious BL questions all week, you leave me nothing but leftover irrelevancies to propose. So here it is:

How damaging is it to the already strained suspension of disbelief that is required of the BL viewer, when he or she (sorry) witnesses meals begun in restaurants or at home and almost immediately abandoned when a new imperative pops up in the script ?

As l write, 13 minutes into "Irresistible Love" (on your recent recommendation) seme Shu Nian has prepared a sumptious short-order meal for his boss, seme Xie Yan, who couldn't wait to eat--when the subject turns to bed, whereupon Yan leaps from the table and urges Nian to follow him without delay. There on the table are the heaped platters of a shared meal, apparently abandoned without another thought.

The promise of "sleeping together" renders the previous impulse, to enjoy food, moot ? What ?

We've seen this before, too, more than a couple of times. Is this bad writing, or is it essentially inevitable, in service of keeping the story moving ? And is it credible ... or is it another example of a distracting error, of continuity if not of good taste (pun acknowledged) ?

Your thoughts, if any ?

OMG I worry about this EVERY time it happens!

They didn't eat that?

Why did he leave his WHOLE drink behind? He just got it!

Why are you ordering if you aren't even gonna wait for your food?

Did you even PAY for that?

He brought you that cake as a gift and you're just gonna leave it out of the fridge? YOU LIVE NEAR THE EQUATOR

Why is the adorable Korean boy always just eating 2 grains of white rice?

BL is a nation of eating disorders and food poisoning and I am too much a feeder not to be seriously upset about it.

Malnourishment = The real reason they faint all the time (not the rain, surprise surprise). Also the real reason other boys keeps trying to stick things in their mouths (no not that.... well maybe that...) anygay....

I think I like What Zabb Man partly because he finishes his damn food. He is the seme tho.

#ABL rants about stupid shizz #won't someone think of the wasted food #yes i know spit takes and yadda but still #so many abandoned plates and neglected drinks #thai bl is really bad about this #especially the pulps #to give someone food is a love language but to actually eat it an anathema

[crescent-cubed]

To all my friends, I give you a warm beverage of your choosing and a cookie/pastry

To all the people I see in my notes but I don't really interact with, you also get a warm drink and a treat

And to anyone else that sees this, you get the same

#giving food to people is one of my love languages i think #specifically food #text #the cubed one's content

[padawansuggest]

I got a switch. I didn’t buy it, my girlfriend out-sugar mama’d my sister for the first time ever with a switch plus some games and a carrying case. Like. Damn. Heck yeah. My game is pink but my grips are blue because genderqueer af. I am continuing a trend of being a sugar baby and it’s wild. It’s a ‘I’m glad you didn’t die this month but also ur so brave for all this’ present and that’s so nice Omfg. I love her so much 😭

#my gf is better than everyone else’s gf #and that’s not cause she gives me things #it’s because both our love languages is giving people things both gifts and food #and we just understand the gifts between us is an absolute labor of love #it’s the perfect gift #she gave me games tailored to my special interests #she asked what colour I wanted by asking me to choose between them #she outright said she was saving up to get me one cause I had been wanting it forever #but while I can justify a more than hundred dollar ring for her #I can’t quite justify something for more than 80$ for myself tbh #and that was so sweet of her #I love her so much and it’s not cause she buys me things it’s cause that’s a labor of love to choose them